Have you ever followed a stranger just to stare at their body longer?

My wife and I were on a dinner-date and she had dressed for the occasion; a fire engine red minidress with a hemline so short, that had she worn stockings, the tops of them would have been seen. The dress also has a scalloped neckline and was literally so tight she could not wear panties because the seams would have telegraphed right through. She did wear a bra, but a special one because the dress was so tight it necessitated it, and four-inch red peep-toed pumps.

After dinner we did the tourist thing of going into various shops, but across the road was an ice cream shop. A father was there with his wife and kids but as soon as he saw my wife, he started following us. I could see him out of the corner of my eye, and he looked like a duck, cranking his neck up and down when parked cars got between him and us so that he never lost sight of my wife, almost running down the sidewalk to stay abreast of us, and following us into a few stores.

My wife and his, never noticed his antics, but it was obvious with his head bobbing and neck careening, that he was following my wife and I to everyone else around us. It was funny… completely understandable… but still funny to see.
 
Yes. Joined a tour one time just for this. Hung out at a park one time pretend I had a kid there to do this.
 
Funny that I'm seeing this post jaut now.

We were doing g the NYC tour with a family from out of town last weekend. It was a glorious day to be in Manhattan and at that time we were walking in the High Line in Soho.

There was this very pretty woman dressed in the cutest but very sexy sundress and it was obvious to me ummmm that she had nothing underneath said sundress.

Her nipples were poking and if you looked at the right angle her butt crack can be seen thru the dress. I wanted to and could had walked for miles and miles besides that angle but there was no way I wss going to look like a creep.

After the first glance at her ...... i looked away and walked away with her forever leaving my life with the exception of her image forever being embedded in my long term memory 🙂
 
No, it’s called understanding legal definitions and appreciating them. Take a Law class and learn some respect for accuracy. People like you are so emotional and loose with your concepts that you’d call an arm touch rape. And such a distorted mentality cries wolf and undermines the prosecution of real crimes.

Utterly bizarre that seeing a woman for 20 minutes a week for one semester is somehow imagined as violent crime by people who weren’t there.

What exactly is triggering you? The word “follow”? I would be lingering in a college building where I had a class anyway waiting for my class to begin. I’d see the professor and just walk in her direction for a minute or two. And I did this for one semester 25 years ago!

25 years ago! Huh? Am I missing something here? I didn’t grope her, didn’t catcall, etc.....

The reaction to my post is absolute madness.

And I’m not backing down so you can shove it. Stop trying to make this a Matt Lauer crusade.
I've been preyed on by men since I was a child. I don't need to take a law class to know when someone is being creepy.
 
I think many young guys today are not concerned with discretion. It's almost an artform, being able to follow someone without being noticed or creepy.
 
Have you ever followed a stranger in public just to stare at their body longer?

I’ve done this a few times. When I was in college, I saw a beautiful blonde professor walking in the hallways of the Spanish building. I had never had her as a teacher for a class. I just noticed her walking by one day and slowly realized her identity as a professor.

I liked her fashion sense: blouses, pencil skirts, pantyhose, high heels.

I only followed her inside the Spanish building so it wasn’t like I was following her to her car or anything super weird like that. I remember one day standing closely behind her ass as she walked up the stairs. I think I just enjoyed the visual of her body up close and the emotional rush from doing this. My heart was racing so it made me feel very alive.
No. I have felt a little sad that the stranger was now out of my life forever, most likely, never to be seen again, though.

But that's life.
 
So, two come to mind.
We were at the Byron Nelson in Las Colinas, TX a few years ago. A stunting lady was following one of the golfers around the course. It was obvious she was nude under the "thin material" sundress. Not really see-through but close, her perfect breasts jutted out with puffed nipples on display. I followed her for a couple of holes.

Another time I was walking through a mall with my wife and noticed a 30ish year old women walking toward me staring at my crotch. OMG, she didn't even try to hide it.
 
Two times that come to mind.....the first, I was in a city and a lovely young woman came by who had on a flouncy sundress. It was windy that day and I decided I would stroll in her same direction for a few blocks.....good decision.
The second time i was in my own town and it was early November, temps were cold and wind was stiff. I saw a woman get out of a car in a very short dress. She wore a short fur coat that was about the same length. She had great legs. I had seen her leave her car near a park and she proceeded to walk down one street and then cut over. I actually wasn't following her but going to a neighbors and as I pulled up to my neighbors house she walked by. Wow ! Legs for days. Later, I thought about it. I thought, what woman in her right mind would wear that short of a skirt on such a windy day when it was so cold? And to top it off. Just kind of meandering about? And the answer is none. No woman would do that. It was the local crossdresser having a walk about. (This was confirmed later by someone else who had seen her.) She had great legs .....I never looked at anything above the hemline but I imagine she had it all together.
 
I once turned down a one-way street going to wrong way, while trying to get a better look at the beautiful as that just crossed the street.
 
For me, this usually happened in a grocery store...

I once followed a very cute blond around at a Wal Mart store. She was dressed too nice to be there and had a damn near perfect body. On one of my trips down an aisle she smiled at me. I'd been caught. Somewhat embarrassed I stopped following her and went back to filling my list.. As I was nearing the end of my shopping that day I looked up and there she was, smiling at me again, almost as if to say "why did you stop?"

A few months later I met her again on a dating site. We swapped a few emails and in one she told me she was a grocery manager for Wal Mart that worked in a stores north of where I lived. I told her I thought I saw her in the store near my home once and she said that she did work in that store for a week while they found a new manager.

After that we talked on the phone but it didn't go any further than that. Turns out she was kind of a bitch, and I'd had enough of those types of women in my life so I took a pass, even though she was one of prettiest women I'd ever followed.
 
I simply admire a sexy woman and have followed several around the store just watching them. One woman recently was gorgeous. I was watching her as I shopped and she smiled a couple times at me. She went into the clothing section where she looked at panties as I watch from a distance believing I was being discrete when she held up a couple very sexy, sheer panties as she looked in my direction with a beautiful smile. I lost my courage and knew nothing would become of this so I left wondering what might have happed if I was more outgoing and social.
 
I’ve unintentionally done it. Spotted someone in a grocery isle, admired her but them keep running into her (like we’re going down the same series of isles in opposite directions. It gets to the point I get embarrassed of the potential that she might think I’m stalking when I’m actually just trying to get my shopping done.

Others times, yes, I’ve made an additional pass to get another glimpse of someone, but really just one. I’m not going to get creepy about it.

Related story, I was on a job interview once, touring their offices. My guide, the man hurting the position, opened a door for me and held it for a woman coming the other direction. After she passed, he blatantly and very obviously turned to get a look at her ass. It was way over the line of unprofessional behavior. I determined right there I wasn’t working for this guy.
 
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