Have you ever...

[Merelan]

An hour? Please teach us!!!!!

 

[Whispersecret]

Did my jaw cramp?

FUCK YES. Frankly, I was getting a little pissed! I was really working hard, but he just wouldn't cum. Finally, I was on my back and he was straddling my face. He gagged me, for the third time, causing me to jack-knife pretty violently. All I could do was lay there with my arms over my chest protectively. I mean, I'm all for giving him pleasure, but I think I have a new three strikes rule.

There's no secret involved. Just an honest wish to please him like he does me. I don't know if I could do it that long again though. I don't really want to! <rubs her jaw, wincing in remembrance>

 

[Ed]

Originally posted by skibum:
Whatever a guy says, he liked the sex. Maybe some guys had sex with someone so they could get more sex? Idoubt very many single, unattached guys would turn down sex even if they were not going to get anything else out of it.

Um, I'm not so sure it's about enjoying it or not, skibum. It's about whether you would have chosen to have sex with a particular person without external incentives. Those of us who get laid now and again are not necessarily so oversexed that we'll always want to jump in the sack with people we don't find attractive. I've turned down sex before, for any number of reasons.
That said, I have also had sex with people I didn't really want to have sex with, for the following reasons: I needed a place to sleep, I didn't feel like arguing, I wanted to be recommended for a job (which I didn't get), as a favour to a mutual friend, for money (not staight up prostitution here, more like she was will ing to spend it if I was willing to make her feel desireable . . . ), I didn't want to hurt her feelings, etc.

And to concede one small point to skibum, I enjoyed most of the actual sex -- Bad sex is usually better than no sex. However, I have often felt like I would've enjoyed masturbating more.

 

[Cyra_3]

Not really the same thing but I once tried to deter a man from walking me home by threatening him with sex. Pretty stupid thing to do but he was my best friend so I thought he'd let me go on my own. Maybe he thought I was joking with him. I wasn't.

[This message has been edited by Cyra_3 (edited 05-25-2000).]

 

[Skibum]

I have to say that about all I was ever trying to get from sex was more sex. In my experience, sex has never been real easy to come by. I went to an all male college, then right into the Army, and I got married shortly after that. I know that there were some women who had sex with me to get something, but before I got married, sex was rare enough that I never felt I was getting enough to be doing it for any ulterior motive (other than the actual pleasure of the act). Maybe guys who were/are in more demand have had different experiences, but I still think that if a guy is having a sexual experience, that is foremost on his mind.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Oh please threaten me with sex cyra... I still can dream about it cant I...

Da chef

 

[Cyra_3]

Chef, if you don't stop teasing me.....

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Oh cyra!!!!!

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Well I would have to say yes but only with my boyfriend not anyone else. Like if I want to sleep in and have him get up with the kids or get out of going to one of his famliy functions then yes sex is the way to do it.
But I do have a friend that tells me that she had sex with a teacher to pass a class.

 

[Guest]

I can say that my wife has bribed me with sex on a few occassions and I am happy to accept. Usually if she really wants me to do something she ups the ante as in swallowing or anal.