Having sex vs being fucked properly?
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bicurious19
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I always take control and make sure I get fucked properly left feeling like a slut, ass throbbing, taste of cum still in my mouth. I push back, or get real rough, always make sure I deepthroat and insist of a good face fuck. When I'm getting fucked, its all about me.
EbonyFire77
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It's been a while since I was fucked properly. I really need it hard and a good pounding before I feel like it was a proper fuck. Getting all on fours is probably my favorite while my husband pounds me hard from behind. He hits a couple spots in there and it feels sooo good. I couldn't believe how good getting pounded doggy style could feel until he started hitting my cervix and my back would arch. Now only if he would pull my hair a little...
Lokishoney
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Hmmmm...
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Scheherazade73
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You have to put in a disclaimer, too, huh? ROFLOL
LOL, 'fraid so...you know how it is...comment on someone's thread, the next day - an inbox full of cocks!
Sundayschild
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LOL, 'fraid so...you know how it is...comment on someone's thread, the next day - an inbox full of cocks!
Maybe you ladies should start some sort of bingo game? Like, if someone has put something next to it for scale you get a point, a point for different types, shapes, obvious photoshops etc?
Anyway, on topic. Its been a while in real life, but they do stick in your head when you have one of those encounters that leave you both bruised and exhausted. I still get teased about breaking someone's rib once though, possibly we were a bit too physical...
RubenesqueAphrodite
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Chuckles...
My experience, for what little it's worth, has been that even though the young cockeral may have the eagerness and desire, it is usually the established Rooster who can most adequately service the flock..
That's not meant to be a blanket observation, either. Certainly there are younger men out there who can ---and do--- rival Apollo in the arena of love, sex, and lust. I just happen to think that the better experience comes with a patient, more mature individual.
Hell, a man HAS to be patient with me...I think too much... lol
My experience, for what little it's worth, has been that even though the young cockeral may have the eagerness and desire, it is usually the established Rooster who can most adequately service the flock..
That's not meant to be a blanket observation, either. Certainly there are younger men out there who can ---and do--- rival Apollo in the arena of love, sex, and lust. I just happen to think that the better experience comes with a patient, more mature individual.
Hell, a man HAS to be patient with me...I think too much... lol
ejredlady
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I read these posts about married men giving so much effort to pleasing their partners who put forth little to no effort to reciprocate and wonder: where did I go wrong? My ex actually asked if I thought his penis was a toy? Seriously - yes I did! A well loved and appreciated toy, and he left. So I am wondering if given the chance again should I just lie there and act like all I want is for him to be finished? Tell me - where did I go wrong?
Litfanman_inGB
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Sounds like he got greedy. In my opinion, the vast majority of us married men just want our wives to look at us like they did when we got married. To be as horny or lustful as they were when we were dating. We dream of that fantasy when it's her turn to chase us around the table. Unfortunately, that day never comes. Life happens, spouses don't view you quite the way they used to and it hurts. Especially when you just wish they still loved you the same way you love them.
If there's been infidelity at some point, that makes it worse. You may forgive but you'll never forget. You'll always wonder if they're seeing someone else again when the intimacy tapers off, it's always there nagging at you in the back of your mind. My wife and I never really talked about sex, we still don't as it just turns ugly.
There are so many things I'd have liked to have known all those years ago but it's too late now. All the sex we had when dating and the things she "liked" then were a lie. I know some people will compromise themselves to get the guy or girl of their dreams but I will never understand it.
I hope you don't let this keep you from experiencing new relationships and friendships.
monkeyman057
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Sounds like he got greedy. In my opinion, the vast majority of us married men just want our wives to look at us like they did when we got married. To be as horny or lustful as they were when we were dating. We dream of that fantasy when it's her turn to chase us around the table. Unfortunately, that day never comes. Life happens, spouses don't view you quite the way they used to and it hurts. Especially when you just wish they still loved you the same way you love them.
If there's been infidelity at some point, that makes it worse. You may forgive but you'll never forget. You'll always wonder if they're seeing someone else again when the intimacy tapers off, it's always there nagging at you in the back of your mind. My wife and I never really talked about sex, we still don't as it just turns ugly.
There are so many things I'd have liked to have known all those years ago but it's too late now. All the sex we had when dating and the things she "liked" then were a lie. I know some people will compromise themselves to get the guy or girl of their dreams but I will never understand it.
I hope you don't let this keep you from experiencing new relationships and friendships.
My friend, you're being too nice. From reading your first post in this thread I'm under the impression that you're giving her everything she wants without requiring that she have the same (or even a little) respect for you. That's going to result in more than just a little resentment (if it hasn't already). You're being the super nice guy and waiting to get rewarded for it with good sex. That's probably not going to happen and I kind of doubt that it has ever happened in the past. Nice isn't sexy - it's just... nice.
I'm not saying you should be an ass - that's not sexy either. I'm just saying this: keep doing what you've always done, and you'll keep getting what you've always got! By not requiring her to engage in the sexual part of your relationship and then trying to coax her into it with increased effort to please her, you're not only sending her the message that it's ok to lay there like a stump, but that you'll work harder to please her the more she does it.
I'm sorry, I know you're not in this thread looking for relationship advice and who asked my opinion anyway? I empathize with you and I thought I'd offer my 2 cents. Feel free to ignore it, I'm certainly no expert.
