He Owns Me - And it makes the sex REALLY GOOD

[Floribunda]

Thank you Seela

Please keep in mind, that the stories on Lit are just that - stories. They don't necessarily portray reality as much as fantasies, so they might not be the best place to go to, if you're trying to figure out, what you really want from a relationship. I think the BDSM fora give a much more balanced view of what the reality might look like, if you entered a power exchange based relationship. Of course, every relationship is its own entity and no two are alike.

You might get more replies to your original question here, if you posted it on a separate thread. On this thread it's a bit off-topic, and while off-topic is so common in Lit, that it can really almost be considered being on-topic, a lot of people might not notice your question here.

Enjoy the boards and don't hesitate to join the conversations!

Seela, thank you for this message, it's much appreciated and I totally understand what you are saying.

I'm going to do a bit more research around the forum and see where that takes me. I will probably post a thread too.

Maybe we shall meet again?

Take care Fx

 

[Kitty4him]

Yes.

Equality, to me, means that both people are getting equal satisfaction in the deal.

Just because they get their satisfaction in vastly different ways, doesn't mean the feelings/emotions/whatnot aren't of equal proportion.

This is exactly how I feel with my Master. By doing my utmost to please Him, He gives me EXACTLY what I crave the most, which brings about amazing orgasms for me. Is it "equal" in terms of giving and receiving? No. But we both get a lot of pleasure in our own ways.