how big do you like your penis?

I'd like a smaller 4 inch cock to slurp on. It would be very nice to suck on and I wouldn't have to worry about cramming it down my throat. Also, I have never had one in my derrier, but I have played with toys. I like the small toys in my @$$ better than large ones. Large ones make me bleed a little, as I have a narrow anus. I love taking it in the ass like a little girl getting her vagina stuffed though. Normally I think a guy would be ashamed to admit he had a smaller penis, but I'd relish any one who admitted it, as long as it is not too small.
The problem with this statement is, it makes the assumption that a man's shaft is either softened or hardened and at a definitive length in either state.

News flash: it changes length.

Who has not felt a man grow an extra half inch just because as they near that release he is super hard? Or conversely, he loses a bit of interest halfway through a blowjob and is only half-hard. Of course there is soft and any other range in between.

During a blowjob it does not just get hard and magically stays there, it changes as the man's mood ebbs and increases... as it should. I can manipulate that by edging of course, but even if I am diligently working on him, his feelings may increase or decrease changing his amount of hardness. It is all good, my job is to just keep going and take him to the moment of release.
 
The problem with this statement is, it makes the assumption that a man's shaft is either softened or hardened and at a definitive length in either state.

News flash: it changes length.

Who has not felt a man grow an extra half inch just because as they near that release he is super hard? Or conversely, he loses a bit of interest halfway through a blowjob and is only half-hard. Of course there is soft and any other range in between.

During a blowjob it does not just get hard and magically stays there, it changes as the man's mood ebbs and increases... as it should. I can manipulate that by edging of course, but even if I am diligently working on him, his feelings may increase or decrease changing his amount of hardness. It is all good, my job is to just keep going and take him to the moment of release.
Good analysis, and a good reminder for cock lovers, wherever they like to take their cocks: mouth or ass.

Using a cockring (I use a silicone one) helps to keep the length and girth more consistent. And I have a suck buddy whose amazing oral skills are such that he is able to keep me rock hard and on edge for a considerable length of time before he finishes me off. But even with him, there is some inevitable ebb and flow of fullness. After all, it's blood flow that keeps a cock hard, not some solid matter.
 
I've had enough cocks in my hands and mouth (and a very few in my ass) to have made up my mind and have an informed opinion.

For frotting, I like a cock around the same size as mine (7 1/2 inches), just so it's easy to do for maximum arousal.
For jacking a man's cock, I like a medium to large cock (5-8 inches) because I have pretty big hands. A smaller cock is actually difficult for me to manipulate well, and a monster cock, while impressive, is rather hard to handle for his maximum pleasure.
For sucking a man's cock, I like a cock medium to large (5-8 inches) but not too girthy. And I like a nice set of balls hanging below it. Too big and I can't really properly suck, too small and I feel cheated (sorry, but that's my feelings). I'll still suck a man with a small cock for his pleasure, but it's for him, not for me.
I've been pleasantly surprised a few times by a small cock that was really a grower. One man had a cock that was no more than about three inches when I started sucking him. By the time he shot his load in my mouth, he was close to eight inches.
And no man with any size cock had better try to fuck my face. One try and I put a stop to it. A second try and that ends the session.
And for the very few times that I let a man fuck me, I can't take anyone real long, and especially anyone real girthy. And a lot depends on the position we're in while he's fucking me. I truly rarely bottom, and my favorite position is missionary, mainly because I like it when we can look into each other's eyes. But if his cock has a nice upward curve to it, it will hit my prostate over and over again. In that sense, shape is far more important than size. One of my married buddies has fucked me a couple of times like that, and when his beautifully curved cock pounds my prostate, I cum like a teenager and shoot loads strong enough to hit myself in the face (I'm 67).

So, for what it's worth, that's my opinion on how big I like the cocks I come in contact with. Having said that, I think all cocks are beautiful, and I think every man should be proud of his cock. And don't EVER forget the balls! When I suck a man's cock (or someone sucks mine), the balls had better be a part of the show.
 
I don't need a massive cock-they're hot to look at and watch in porn, but I want to enjoy it without choking or without my ass getting hurt. I think 5.5-6.5" is perfect
 
Perfect size for me is 7” range. I haven’t ever measured but relied on tops word. They have ranged from 4-9 inches. Once I am stretched by initial penetration it’s all good.
 
I love guys with smaller cocks! 6" or so is just perfect for everything. I have a small mouth so super thick ones can be a challenge, but some girth when I'm bottoming is fine. Guys with average cocks can pound away on me and I love that! I can just enjoy it and not worry about it hurting!
That being said, I've had all kinds, and have had great experiences and pleasure with them all.
I'm just average when hard and small when limp and have small tight balls which I've been complimented on many times. It makes me feel so feminine when I'm with a guy and he says something about them being cute! 🥰
 
I love guys with smaller cocks! 6" or so is just perfect for everything. I have a small mouth so super thick ones can be a challenge, but some girth when I'm bottoming is fine. Guys with average cocks can pound away on me and I love that! I can just enjoy it and not worry about it hurting!
That being said, I've had all kinds, and have had great experiences and pleasure with them all.
I'm just average when hard and small when limp and have small tight balls which I've been complimented on many times. It makes me feel so feminine when I'm with a guy and he says something about them being cute! 🥰
A small dangling clitty with tight tight balls looks so innocent and precious. I love mine when the package looks so delicate and fem.
 
I actually prefer average and smaller cocks.
I'm very oral and love a dick that fits comfortably in mouth., swirl my tongue around ,really work it. You can't do much with a cock that barely fits. Also not into anal , so size doesn't matter.
I'm 7.7", a bit over 2" girth.
6" to 7" is good, but I really love tiny ones!
 
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My experience goes from 6 to 8 inches with my current FWB having a 7 1/2 inch cock. I don't think I'd be satisfied with less than 6 and honestly 7 1/2 seems perfect for sucking and getting fucked.

If the situation was right I could be convinced to try bigger than 8 inches but he'd have to be slow and easy to start.
 
Perfectly average is perfect for me, which is what I married into thankfully!

Honestly the monster dong thing is fun as a fantasy, but I see it like a see a guy who owns a tank. Its cool as hell to see but if he thinks hes parking it in *my* garage he's crazy. 🤣
 
The first man I ever had was a black body builder. He was huge and fucked hard with every inch. I discovered that I like some pain with my pleasure.
I had a black power lifter as a bf. Great guy but his cock was small. May been the steroids I think he used. He always fucked me well and love that he used his size to control me for his pleasure.
 
I like average to above. I dated one man who almost split me the first time. Great guy though.
I have never actually my top’s cock but I have had small to large. Some of the best tops had average size cocks but I will say the guys that were well endowed and knee how to fuck a needy boicunt we’re special.
 
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Only had two guys top me and both were 6 to 6.5" one had a fat head and skinny shaft and a teenage sex drive behind it. The first guy his dick had a fat base you couldn't get your hand around. He was 45 but we used lots of lube. The ass stretch from him was insane hurt and lust at the same time. So I guess what I'm saying is fat dick is better in most ways.
 
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