How did you choose who to lose your virginity to?

[BongoGal]

I was an oddball in that I was a 19-year-old virgin who was both horny as hell and sexually knowledgeable. I knew that guys liked me and that I could get laid if I ever suggested it. I was just a virgin by choice. In college, I was friends with a 19-year-old guy who I was surprised to learn was also a virgin. I wouldn’t call him a virgin by choice. He had a weird family dynamic and years in an all-male school environment, so even though he was a sexy-looking guy, it never happened for him. After talking about it a bit, I made the bold suggestion that he and I could maybe “lose it” to each other. There was a long weekend coming up, and a lot of people went home, so we made plans to stay in the dorm and get it over with. Aaaaand….we did.

 

[1DarkNightOwl]

I didn't really choose.

She was the 1st person who I naturally clicked with. 1 had never gone looking specifically for sex and decided not to have another 1 night stand.

 

[kreemi_pi]

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To answer the question: I don't suppose I exactly choose. From high school on, I viewed virginity as a disease to be got rid. Even so, I guess I wasn't as frantic about getting rid of it as most were. All through high school, I was content with pleasuring girls (I didn't graduate to men until much later) in the back of whatever car with hours of edging and multiple orgasms. Even then, their pleasure was more important to me than my own. “All the way” happened in my freshman year in college, one time when my roommate was away and I had the room to myself. Still, not planned. It was spontaneous combustion. The natural culmination of hours of oral.

Thank you

 

[Olderwiserstillhorny]

I was 16, the neighbor lady I mowed lawn and tend her garden seduced me and taught me how to please a woman and myself in a way that satisfied us both.
Still think about it.

 

[jenpage]

How did you choose who to lose your virginity to?

It was a boy in sex ed class. Study time . . .

 

[Kolejdayz]

It was a boy in sex ed class. Study time . . .

Was he experienced and why him?

 

[Greaseman93]

I chose the first girl that let me put my boner in her LOL

 

[jenpage]

Was he experienced and why him?

He was no more experienced than I was. We were in the same sex ed class in high school.

Was he experienced and why him?

 

[NOBGE]

How did you choose who to lose your virginity to?

Best available in a bar in Nuevo Laredo…

 

[MidKnight1378]

It was my girlfriend, she later became my wife. We were both virgins and were madly in love with one another.

 

[mark_j]

Uhhhmmm because she offered....

It was my best friend's ex. They had broken up a couple of months earlier after having been together for 2 or 3 years and I ran into her at a college house party. She said she wanted to talk so we went out into my truck. Long story short, one thing led to another and she asked me to fuck her.

Of course I obliged... It ended up being a hell of a night..

 

[bobb_sledd]

I picked her out of line-up at a brothel south of the border in Mexico.

 

[hugh_jarce69]

I was seduced. Classic Mrs Robinson. I was 17 she was mid-40’s.
Wish I’d known as much about sex & then as I do now. But I guess that’s the same for all of us

 

[1DarkNightOwl]

I picked her out of line-up at a brothel south of the border in Mexico.

There is something quite hot about picking your 1st from a line-up. I have fantasised about an auction.

I was seduced. Classic Mrs Robinson. I was 17 she was mid-40’s.
Wish I’d known as much about sex & then as I do now. But I guess that’s the same for all of us

Simular here although I was older. I decided not to have another 1-night stand but now I would love another with the experience and confidence I do now.

 

[Starlust]

I took a good look at her public pics and thought 'Hmmm, she charges quite reasonable rates....'

 

[Ljufi]

How did you choose who to lose your virginity to?

Beggars can't be choosers...

 

[Italianstud59]

I was 19 and she was a high school senior

 

[bw699353]

a girl i met online i was far more confident in a chat room then in person

 

[Hornysicilian759]

I didn't actually have a say in it

Did you get taken? Would love to chat about it

 

[Hornysicilian759]

I didn't.

Still one?

 

[apom]

Still one?

Hmmm?

 

[TomTeacher19]

She was older, gorgeous, experienced, and kind. I didn't see it coming at all and was stunned the opportunity was there but it's hard to not feel very fortunate.

 

[bobb_sledd]

Still one?

Sadly, I believe she means she didn't have a say in losing her virginity.

 

[Biguy77578]

My 1st with a girl I was a freshman in high school and she was my 1st girl friend. I was her 2nd. She had list hers to her previous boy friend the same year.

That being said I lost my anal virginity two years before to an older boy next door.

 

[AsianFusion]

I didn't.

Me neither