How did you get over the reluctance to swallowing your own cum? Stories and advice 💪💦

I think the problem is you fantasise about someone else's cum, so your own is let down, doesn't feel right, doesn't have the same tension or excitement. I like to shut my eyes, fantasise it's someone with me, and then what im licking up is their cum. Lying their draped in sweat and darkness, it all suddenly becomes vividly real. both my servitude, and my reward...
 
I got started by catching my cum and freezing it. The next time I was horny and jacking off I put the frozen cum in my mouth and having not cum yet I was horny and loved the taste. By the time I was ready to suck my first cock I had no doubt that I was going to swallow his load.
 
Great thread, I’ve always wanted to go down on my wife after sex but she wouldn’t let me. I haven’t brought it up but she could have me suck her fingers after she gives me a handjob too but doubt she would do that either.
It just makes it sound more fun if she’s involved
 
The way that finally worked for me was to cum into a small cup, wait for my refractory period to pass its peak, and then knock it back once the urge to swallow it returned (more details here). Using a cup, you also get to feel the weight of almost all of it fall on your tongue as you tip it in your mouth, and the satisfying feeling of a full load sliding down your throat. There's no apparent issue with waiting (cum play in porn can last several minutes), so if you're finding it difficult, try shooting in a cup and waiting to see if the decision to swallow or not answers itself.

How did you get over it?
Any advice you want to share?
As early as when I wasn’t having dry orgasms I knew I was already
We would experiment a little and open up about what we liked, didn't, and turn-ons. We introduced some bondage and vibrators and searched out specific porn, very little of it was straight porn. After I opened up about my four year relationship with my older gay cousin, she became obsessed with finding gay porn and subjecting me to her much kinkier side.
For me I knew I was curious about this all along and was looking forward to the day that I would finally produce. Then It did take me sometime to enjoy it. Persistence is key lol. Now I enjoy mine 98% of the time.
 
Great thread, I’ve always wanted to go down on my wife after sex but she wouldn’t let me. I haven’t brought it up but she could have me suck her fingers after she gives me a handjob too but doubt she would do that either.
It just makes it sound more fun if she’s involved
I was always curious but that would go away right after i came. I did go down on my second wife twice after I came in her, she was not really into it however. I'd love to go down on a gal after a couple dudes have unloaded in her.
 
Yeah I can't eat my own cum on my own. I have it in my head many times to "try" and do so & every single time I ejaculate too late after the orgasm to be willing to go through with it. And this is odd that I can't because when I was with my wife she loved to suck my cock, keep my cum in her mouth then feed it to me because this thrileld her & she'd orgasm fingering herself as she fed me my own cum. Same after I would creampie her & eat her out after. She'd make me show her Iw as swallowing my own cum and that si what got her off. It got me off as well. But on my own masutrbating, I could never end up eating my own cum, as much as I would plan to, the thrill is simply always already long gone and I lost my desire to go through with it. BUT, I love edging purposely as much as I can just to lap up all my own precum. I LOVE IT. It gets me more excited tasting it and swallowing as much of my own precum as I possibly can. Getting hard just thinking about it rn. lol
 
Yeah I can't eat my own cum on my own. I have it in my head many times to "try" and do so & every single time I ejaculate too late after the orgasm to be willing to go through with it. And this is odd that I can't because when I was with my wife she loved to suck my cock, keep my cum in her mouth then feed it to me because this thrileld her & she'd orgasm fingering herself as she fed me my own cum. Same after I would creampie her & eat her out after. She'd make me show her Iw as swallowing my own cum and that si what got her off. It got me off as well. But on my own masutrbating, I could never end up eating my own cum, as much as I would plan to, the thrill is simply always already long gone and I lost my desire to go through with it. BUT, I love edging purposely as much as I can just to lap up all my own precum. I LOVE IT. It gets me more excited tasting it and swallowing as much of my own precum as I possibly can. Getting hard just thinking about it rn. lol
During an extended edging session, I sometimes let go of a small amount of semen, like a micro orgasm, not full on ejaculation. Lick it up when you do, it will send you over the edge.
 
Never had an issue to get over. The first time I masturbated, I had a taste and loved it, so I ate it all and have been eating my own cum ever since.
 
For the longest time I could never taste my cum except when I contorted myself to shoot directly into my mouth. Then I didn't have a chance to chicken out. It wasn't until recently that I was able to cum in my hand and clean it up with my tongue. I had to force myself to do it the first few times. Now, I crave it.
I will follow your advice!
 
An older woman introduced me to tasting my own cum. She had me taste a little from her hand first then gradually worked up to eating a load from her pussy. I take every opportunity to eat and share when I fuck a woman. The first time I sucked cock, I wanted the guy to cum in my mouth and kept my lips around his cock until he filled my mouth. I love the taste and texture.
 
I was never reluctant...I was eager. I was young and I adored watching my friend cum. The little drop of pre-cum on the tip made it hard for me to look away
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I did it the way the gurl in this clip did (without being fucked at the same time, however). If you’re exploding while your cock is in your mouth, you’ll swallow reflexively. After the first time, I was hooked. Of course you gotta be young and very flexible.
 
As a youth I was my best friend's personal cocksucker. What started out as jerk off sessions quickly morphed into exchanging hand jobs until I offered to suck his cock. He readily agreed, but made it clear that he wouldn't reciprocate, which was fine with me, After I gave him his blowjob and swallowed his cum, I would jerk off as before, until he ordered me to eat my own cum from my hand as I had just eaten his. I was required to do as he told me, so in spite of my initial reluctance, I did as he wanted and after a while, this became routine. I would eat my cum right after every blowjob. It made sense that I should eat my own cum because it was neater and didn't require tissues. Eventually, I would eat my cum whenever I jerked off, even if I was by myself. I still always eat my cum. Waste not, want not.
 
For me it was pretty simple, I figured if I wanted/expected my partner to swallow/taste my cum then why shouldn’t I expectt the same of myself. Once I got over that it’s just cum, it became a lot easier and been hot ever since. And cum kisses are the the very best!
I wish my wife liked the taste of cum as much as I do! I would happily clean up every creamy mess I made on or in her. She doesn't swallow, she spits into a towel, on the ground, on the car mat. I would gladly kiss and swap with her
 
Yeah I can't eat my own cum on my own. I have it in my head many times to "try" and do so & every single time I ejaculate too late after the orgasm to be willing to go through with it. And this is odd that I can't because when I was with my wife she loved to suck my cock, keep my cum in her mouth then feed it to me because this thrileld her & she'd orgasm fingering herself as she fed me my own cum. Same after I would creampie her & eat her out after. She'd make me show her Iw as swallowing my own cum and that si what got her off. It got me off as well. But on my own masutrbating, I could never end up eating my own cum, as much as I would plan to, the thrill is simply always already long gone and I lost my desire to go through with it. BUT, I love edging purposely as much as I can just to lap up all my own precum. I LOVE IT. It gets me more excited tasting it and swallowing as much of my own precum as I possibly can. Getting hard just thinking about it rn. lol
I like using my pre-cum as lip gloss
 
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