How did your spouse/gf know about your panties fetishes?

[Tayloroc]

That’s so wonderful!

 

[ned63]

Some yrs ago my son gf caught me a pair of her panties. Dont know how long she was watching but I was look, feeling, rubbing on side my face. I saw her she just smiled. Latter that night she asked me if I enjoyed them. I enjoyed them alot, nice an soft an pretty. A huge smile on her face. She never told me not to play with them. Me an her got along real well. Sure miss her.

 

[Jay Richards]

I'd been with my partner about 4 years when we where away on vacation, when she was rubbing here worn panties on my cock and said that I was hiding in them. I got hold of them and put them on and said now I'm really hiding in them and it went from there. Now on top of a huge collection of panties, I have bikini bottoms for swimming and a collection of close to 20 skirts to wear when out and about

Wqs any cocksucking while wearing her panties, involved? That would be very hot.

 

[Tom599]

Some yrs ago my son gf caught me a pair of her panties. Dont know how long she was watching but I was look, feeling, rubbing on side my face. I saw her she just smiled. Latter that night she asked me if I enjoyed them. I enjoyed them alot, nice an soft an pretty. A huge smile on her face. She never told me not to play with them. Me an her got along real well. Sure miss her.

Wife found a pair in my work pants came she thought I was seeing someone
I came clean told he always worn them she said nothing I brought it up one night told her I loved wearing them she accepted that and today she gives me her panties to wear

 

[little cletus]

She thinks she got me into it, but I’ve been wearing panties as long as I can remember. I don’t hide it from her. I have my own panties. I wear them on weekends and sometimes to sleep in. She deals with it.

 

[ILuv2Taste]

It was pretty easy for her to tell.
One night I started licking her pussy thru them and when I pulled them off and licked the gusset and then sniffed them she knew
Since then she has jacked me off with them and sucked me off with her panty draped over my cock

 

[storypost603]

Just a few months back I informed my wife. I went and got crossdressed and walked out for her to see. she plays with me in my panties now.

 

[Lucien_Al]

She left me the most beautiful scented pair of full panties last night. She was super wet.

 

[Deleted member 1215945]

It’s no doubt that the sex life of a fetishist is much better if his/her spouse/SO is acceptive and supportive. It can’t be more accurate for panties fetishes. Just imagine and compare the feeling of secretly rummaging hamper/lingerie drawer vs panties shopping together. Or worse, a heightened sex life revolve around the fetish vs a broken relationship. I think it’s all depend on how we share it with our partners.

I was lucky to have a supportive partner, and I wish other with panties fetish can find such acceptance. I hope others can share their experience in what to do or not to do to get your spouse/partner aware of your fetish.

I consider myself very lucky in that my wife of 48 years is totally in support of me wearing panties. About fifteen years ago I started wearing my wife’s panties. She was mildly surprised when she first saw me wearing her panties to bed. It was a fetish at first that eventually lead me to wearing panties full time. She has come to the attitude that it is fully acceptable for her to share with me her panties even to the point that we shop for panties together. Sometimes she brings me home panties she has chosen for me. I like Jockey, Warners and Bali the best. Sometimes we wear matching panties. We wear the same size so we switch off with each other. I have a large collection of panties. From thongs to granny panties I like them all.

 

[PantiesAndPies]

I was worried about what she’d think about my panties and nighties when we started dating. Stupidly I threw my entire collection out.
One afternoon we’d been playing around and she just put a nightie on, I complained it wasn’t fair since I had to put clothes on. She grabbed a second nightie and told me, “Put that on then!”
I didn’t hesitate and did just that. She saw my cock grow hard even through I’d only just cum.
She told me how good l looked in her nightie.We talked about it and I admitted my fetish.
Her panties were all bikinis so I couldn’t share those. So she told me to take the nightie off and get dressed. So did she and we went panty shopping. All full briefs. Slowly as they wore out all her bikinis went out too. Now we share all of our panties, nighties and slips.

 

[Cardinal]

It’s no doubt that the sex life of a fetishist is much better if his/her spouse/SO is acceptive and supportive. It can’t be more accurate for panties fetishes. Just imagine and compare the feeling of secretly rummaging hamper/lingerie drawer vs panties shopping together. Or worse, a heightened sex life revolve around the fetish vs a broken relationship. I think it’s all depend on how we share it with our partners.

I was lucky to have a supportive partner, and I wish other with panties fetish can find such acceptance. I hope others can share their experience in what to do or not to do to get your spouse/partner aware of your fetish.

Yes brilliant thread, it doesn’t hurt anyone to accept a fetish or a kink but can do life long relationship damage to not accept it or judge it.
Why not accept your spouse for anything they might like? Is it really that hard?

 

[CuMex1]

Yeah she lets me stick my face in her ass.

 

[SissySalina]

Told Her of course, being honest is best.

 

[AlexBailey]

I love the anticipation of how someone is going to react when they first get in my pants.

“Oh? I should have known!”

 

[Travler99921]

One day I told my wife I wanted to wear panties. She said ok, but I should

 

[Travler99921]

Try again. One day I told my wife I wanted to wear panties. She said ok, but I should have my own panties. The next day we went panty shopping. She paid for hers and I paid for mine. My wife and the sales clerk exchanged smiles and knowing glances. Somehow that excited me.

 

[joefelton]

Try again. One day I told my wife I wanted to wear panties. She said ok, but I should have my own panties. The next day we went panty shopping. She paid for hers and I paid for mine. My wife and the sales clerk exchanged smiles and knowing glances. Somehow that excited me.

I've been wearing panties for ten years. It started when I was putting our laundry away. I picked up a pair of my wife's panties and inspected the crotch. I decided to see how they felt on me. A few minutes later I was standing in front of a mirror, posing and taking pictures. I was pleasantly surprised with how good they felt on me, and how nice I looked in them. I was rock hard!. I secretly wore my wife's panties for two weeks. I figured I would lose interest over time, but just the opposite. I was hooked on wearing pretty panties! I decided I didn't want to keep this a secret, so I told her. She was surprised at first, and ask me if I was gay, and if I wanted to wear bras too. I explained how I felt in panties. She said it was ok, but not embarrass her. A month later she told her best girlfriend about my fetish. She also took me panty shopping with her. I only wear very feminine and pretty panties, with very soft material like satin, and lots of lace trim!

 

[Tom599]

Love wearing panties my found a pair some time back told her I like wearing them she gives me hers to wear and buys them for me

 

[JusticeGrey]

I told her as part of a therapy thing. It did not go over well. Needless to say, my dressing is all done in secret

 

[herpanties75]

Was rubbing my hard cock against her panty covered ass, she asked me did I want to feel them on me

I said yes, so she took them off and slipped them on me. It has happened a few times since with bras also

She thinks she was the one who started it, but have been wearing hers and ex's for years

 

[AlexBailey]

Was rubbing my hard cock against her panty covered ass, she asked me did I want to feel them on me

I said yes, so she took them off and slipped them on me. It has happened a few times since with bras also

She thinks she was the one who started it, but have been wearing hers and ex's for years

I had a similar thing happen with a gf. We were getting together and were getting in each other’s pants for the first time when I found her satin thong all snug up her butt and said, “oh, these are nice”

I ended up wearing them the whole next day.

 

[hardcorefool]

At first I would some times wear my wife's, then she made me go out and get my own and tell the sales person they were for me.