How do bi-curious closeted men make themselves approachable

[GentlemanJedi63]

I agree

I agree, today is more wham bam thank you maam (or man!). Used to be porn had plots. Bad plots, but plots. More buildup.
My wife and I've just gotten back into watching porn together. All pretty much 20 minute clips of fucking. Give me the vintage stuff anytime.

Sometimes the late night soft core porn on TV has better build up.

 

[Musket2]

I agree, today is more wham bam thank you maam (or man!). Used to be porn had plots. Bad plots, but plots. More buildup.
My wife and I've just gotten back into watching porn together. All pretty much 20 minute clips of fucking. Give me the vintage stuff anytime.

I think I'm right there with you, I put this on another thread -

Online porn sites, now everything seems to be anal and right to it. Back in the day a movie about understall action would probably start with toe tapping or a shadow wank, the anticipation definitely stiffens the friend in your hand, and is just more fun than going straight to it.

Is it just me?

(Well clearly it isn't, these days I'm finding more satisfaction in the written word, takes me back...)

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I think I'm right there with you, I put this on another thread -

Online porn sites, now everything seems to be anal and right to it. Back in the day a movie about understall action would probably start with toe tapping or a shadow wank, the anticipation definitely stiffens the friend in your hand, and is just more fun than going straight to it.

Is it just me?

(Well clearly it isn't, these days I'm finding more satisfaction in the written word, takes me back...)

I have to agree... The written word is more imaginative and does have more substance... guess porn these days are for the instant gratification crowd.

 

[Crios]

Stories

I have to agree... The written word is more imaginative and does have more substance... guess porn these days are for the instant gratification crowd.

Have to agree with you there, my friend. Some of the stories on Lit get me revved up more than a lot of the videos.

 

[hulmule]

Wish somehow i could get the wife to watch a little porn or read some. But it isnt happening... Trying to figure a way to. Have had my laptop in bed as she watches TV, she'll roll away and watch TV or goes to sleep after her show. Oh well . I'll try and figure her out some day lol

 

[cubbyfire04]

Wish somehow i could get the wife to watch a little porn or read some. But it isnt happening... Trying to figure a way to. Have had my laptop in bed as she watches TV, she'll roll away and watch TV or goes to sleep after her show. Oh well . I'll try and figure her out some day lol

You could ask?

 

[hulmule]

You could ask?

We could PM about this. I've tried. For some reason she has really changed. Even early in marriage wanted nothing to do with it. Even worse now in menopause. Shame Really want to keep giving wife any pleasure but she tells me has NO desire at all. We get into heated conversation sometimes cause i m so horny !!

 

[JudyCD]

Met on Lit

I’ve met two gentlemen who live near enough to me that they can easily come over. I dress for them and give them what their wives won’t. It satisfies our needs from each side of the fence, so to speak. It did take me a few years of searching, chatting and finally meeting but it was worth the effort.

 

[TallOne]

We could PM about this. I've tried. For some reason she has really changed. Even early in marriage wanted nothing to do with it. Even worse now in menopause. Shame Really want to keep giving wife any pleasure but she tells me has NO desire at all. We get into heated conversation sometimes cause i m so horny !!

Has she discussed this with her doctor?

 

[hulmule]

Has she discussed this with her doctor?

Dont want to high jack this thread . But long story

 

[Wageslave]

I’ve met two gentlemen who live near enough to me that they can easily come over. I dress for them and give them what their wives won’t. It satisfies our needs from each side of the fence, so to speak. It did take me a few years of searching, chatting and finally meeting but it was worth the effort.

I suppose it's too much to hope that you're from the UK?

 

[JudyCD]

I suppose it's too much to hope that you're from the UK?

Sorry, I’m near Chicago

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Have to agree with you there, my friend. Some of the stories on Lit get me revved up more than a lot of the videos.

Reading gives a chance to be more imaginative and real... those Hollywood videos can be just bullshit

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Have to agree with you there, my friend. Some of the stories on Lit get me revved up more than a lot of the videos.

The levels of eroticism that can be created in the mind are more intense than anything you see with your eyes...
Sex or sexual excitement doesn't happen with that first touch or that first taste, it happens in that v-e-r-y f-i-r-s-t t-h-o-u-g-h-t.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Wish somehow i could get the wife to watch a little porn or read some. But it isnt happening... Trying to figure a way to. Have had my laptop in bed as she watches TV, she'll roll away and watch TV or goes to sleep after her show. Oh well . I'll try and figure her out some day lol

I wish there was a more encouraging way to say it but brutha man, the longer you take the longer IT will take to find what she needs. Regardless if its just TIME itself or if its time plus something else.

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Curious guy hi love sexy stories bi and First Time Silk stockings has some great stories