I would assess if he's a loner, or doesn't mind company. Either stop by to say hello, or find a reason to talk to him, find out his interests. If you get to hang out find out his sense of humor, maybe tell him a couple dirty jokes, see how he reacts. By now I'd think you'd have figured out if he's going to kick your ass or not...lol. Some how get to talking about porn or something, naughty, if he bites, ask him what he likes as far as porn recommendations. See if he wants to watch some with you. I don't know your location, but if I did any of this in my small town, I'd be openly ridiculed, but if you're both away from family, friends, then the risk is not as great as asking your neighbor to suck his cock, and he tells half the town. If we were both detached from the area, you could mive so much faster. That's just how I would.
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I can attest to that.
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Seriously how many hookups is this site responsible for? Single digits?
At least 1 from me, and we're planning our next one.
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It used to be a lot easier.
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If anyone has the answer, applicable worldwide, please let me know.
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In that case we would be perfect together.
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I was SO surprised at the challenge of finding a cock to suck when I first got interested in m2m play. I thought it would be MUCH easier. However, I needed to have discretion, attraction, safety,and chemistry with a guy-so may be I was too discerning. If I just wanted some random cock, I guess I could have just tried to find a gloryhole, but I really wanted something consistent
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I know what you mean
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Back in the days of Craigslist personnel's i could get any swinging dick out there. Now its become a lot more difficult without joining some kind of dating sight or a sight that has tons of players. I miss those days, I met so many men and sucked sooo many great cocks
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Craigslist was wonderful place to meet men
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Yes it was!!! I’m at my friend with benefits there, and we always talk that it was wonderful. Im glad we met when we did because it wasn’t too much longer After that that they took the personal section down.
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Seems I was always in demand back then
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It's how I learned pleasure of a man's cock and him enjoying mine
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Still in demand!
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No not like I was
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Exactly right. It was very easy to meet guys back in Craigslist and maybe the occasional horny couple. I was sucking and fucking left, right and Centre though it was hard to sort through the numerous replies and personal ads available.
Women might have been possible but very difficult.
It's a lot more tough now, Tinder is still useless though I only used it for straight dating. The other sites are still okay but I think people are finding it hard to accommodate without their own place or they're more picky. It's hard to tell. You still get a lot of replies if you're a decently dressed TV, and much better if you're a very convincing TS.
Of course women will get the highest responses, especially the sexiest ones, just not on bisexual or gay sites. But you can do really well even if you're only a cross dressing guy who is very convincing.
That only applies to responses though, you get so many flakes, fakes and picture hunters that it's mostly not worth the effort anymore. I started keeping those profiles up only to get likes or comments on my pictures or the occasional message which I knew wouldn't go anywhere.
I agree that cis girls and trans girls should also make an effort to meet guys if they want one and not be too lazy in sitting back just to let everyone flood their inbox, but most of them do, and the guys can also get lazy and just want pics or free dirty chat. Even the girls want a free admirer or gigolo.
I pretty much gave up. I won't try so hard unless I know the other person will.
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To me you are!!
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Been on sniffles for a few months
So many anon profiles, flakes, etc
I have a profile set up that literally says what I'm into
Last night yet another anon dude messages me "hey wyd" followed by "what are you into"
I don't bother to respond, you literally have no info in your profile, no pictures, no age, height, weight, preferences, nothing. I don't respond to shit like that
This seems to be the general experience, if you get close to hooking up they flake before that or just no show
So far I've had 2 near misses, and a lot of pointless messages. The concept seems good but the user base not so much.
Share your experiences good or bad on sniffies.
So many anon profiles, flakes, etc
I have a profile set up that literally says what I'm into
Last night yet another anon dude messages me "hey wyd" followed by "what are you into"
I don't bother to respond, you literally have no info in your profile, no pictures, no age, height, weight, preferences, nothing. I don't respond to shit like that
This seems to be the general experience, if you get close to hooking up they flake before that or just no show
So far I've had 2 near misses, and a lot of pointless messages. The concept seems good but the user base not so much.
Share your experiences good or bad on sniffies.
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Sniffies is a numbers game… indeed many flakes and fakes… that said I have had a few success stories, a few almosts where logics never worked out, a few where conversations never went anywhere, and a lot of messages that get ignored like the one you referenced…
I’m unlikely to interact with anonymous or blank profiles, even ones without pictures…
Those seem to be the meth heads… if you do try them out, do not give out you personal contact info… anyone story about getting extorted starts with “I gave him my number”
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Sounds like good advice
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I’ve had a few “success” stories on sniffles, but more than a few douchebags. I honestly think that half of the “guys” on there just want pics. I did meet an excellent couple on sniffles that I’ve had several encounters with.
Adam4adam is another one that’s totally hit or miss.
Good advice.
I've never been with a guy but want the experience. (Been happily married for many years other than this desire) Waiting out meeting someone in person through work or whatever.
Made it clear to one long-time buddy I'd do it for him. (his wife doesn't) He responded, "Now that's a great friend!". So, he knows he has an offer from a "clean" person he can trust, knows everything would be down low, and didn't rule it out. Fingers crossed.
Actually, I made it known to another buddy years ago. I think he genuinely wanted it, but never took me up on the offer. I know it's because he has problems with gayness in general. (wishing there wasn't any I mean) Still good friends though. He and his wife don't bone much, and I won't be surprised in the least if she ends up hooking up with someone else once the kids move out. Won't be long. They are both attractive.
He could have been enjoying risk-free BJ's all these years. For the most part "machismo" or whatever you want to call it is so stupid and only hurts men.
These guys know I have more free time then them. (I do have a full-time job) They could stop by my house for an hour or just 5 minutes and I'd take care of it! So stupid of them!
I've never been with a guy but want the experience. (Been happily married for many years other than this desire) Waiting out meeting someone in person through work or whatever.
Made it clear to one long-time buddy I'd do it for him. (his wife doesn't) He responded, "Now that's a great friend!". So, he knows he has an offer from a "clean" person he can trust, knows everything would be down low, and didn't rule it out. Fingers crossed.
Actually, I made it known to another buddy years ago. I think he genuinely wanted it, but never took me up on the offer. I know it's because he has problems with gayness in general. (wishing there wasn't any I mean) Still good friends though. He and his wife don't bone much, and I won't be surprised in the least if she ends up hooking up with someone else once the kids move out. Won't be long. They are both attractive.
He could have been enjoying risk-free BJ's all these years. For the most part "machismo" or whatever you want to call it is so stupid and only hurts men.
These guys know I have more free time then them. (I do have a full-time job) They could stop by my house for an hour or just 5 minutes and I'd take care of it! So stupid of them!
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I'll try that one if I can.
