I’m very new to Lit and sexting (only two weeks old!). I plunged right in not knowing anything. As an am-writer I’m really interested in people’s kinks. I’ve had some great fun with some great guys. But, I want to learn more about what other people do when they approach someone on kik (any chat) for the first time - process and habits.
I’d love to discuss and get your insights into:
1. How you pick your people? Are you particular or enjoy everyone? Why?
2. What’s your goal from a kik chat?
3. Etiquette, intros, and expectations - what makes you leave/stay?
4. What do you do when you realise you don’t connect on the level you want, even though the person is really nice? (How do you tell them? )
5. And, how many kik buddies do you normally have at any one time?
6. Basically, your general experience.
Or, any other advice you’d like to share.
Since I’m asking, I’ll give too:
As I said I’m new to everything. I plunged straight into kik chats. I contacted like 10 people who said they were online (they actually weren’t) until I found someone who was. It was fun. So, I though to put up an ad late one night on the personals just to see what would happen. I had to take it down an hour later. Great response. Yikes! lol. Now I’m on a mission to get to the bottom of my waiting list! (I have OCD like that 0.0.)
I have no expectations - I like everyone, so I’m pretty easy going and am accepting of other peoples kinks (I’m very kinky myself.) But I’m learning I’m a little too easy with pics and vids (I think I need to play harder to get). I just feel if I want a pic from the guy, I should be game enough too. But, I haven’t had any bad experiences with kik, so I haven't developed a cynical temperament yet…lol.
The hard thing is, I’m overloaded…lol. All the initial 10 are getting back to me, I’ve still got a waiting list (it’s growing somehow), and people I thought I was just hooking up with for fun are now wanting more. 0.0. ooops.
I went into the experience without any long term plans, (in fact I was not looking to build any relationships) but I’ve been surprised. I’ve met quality people that I’ve really connected with, so I’m keeping them But, that’s not stopping me from still meeting others for fun. Basically, I enjoy everyone, I’m not looking for ‘the one’, and I think it is making my experiences more enjoyable (than what I’ve read from others complaining on here.)
Thanks in advance
I’d love to discuss and get your insights into:
1. How you pick your people? Are you particular or enjoy everyone? Why?
2. What’s your goal from a kik chat?
3. Etiquette, intros, and expectations - what makes you leave/stay?
4. What do you do when you realise you don’t connect on the level you want, even though the person is really nice? (How do you tell them? )
5. And, how many kik buddies do you normally have at any one time?
6. Basically, your general experience.
Or, any other advice you’d like to share.
Since I’m asking, I’ll give too:
As I said I’m new to everything. I plunged straight into kik chats. I contacted like 10 people who said they were online (they actually weren’t) until I found someone who was. It was fun. So, I though to put up an ad late one night on the personals just to see what would happen. I had to take it down an hour later. Great response. Yikes! lol. Now I’m on a mission to get to the bottom of my waiting list! (I have OCD like that 0.0.)
I have no expectations - I like everyone, so I’m pretty easy going and am accepting of other peoples kinks (I’m very kinky myself.) But I’m learning I’m a little too easy with pics and vids (I think I need to play harder to get). I just feel if I want a pic from the guy, I should be game enough too. But, I haven’t had any bad experiences with kik, so I haven't developed a cynical temperament yet…lol.
The hard thing is, I’m overloaded…lol. All the initial 10 are getting back to me, I’ve still got a waiting list (it’s growing somehow), and people I thought I was just hooking up with for fun are now wanting more. 0.0. ooops.
I went into the experience without any long term plans, (in fact I was not looking to build any relationships) but I’ve been surprised. I’ve met quality people that I’ve really connected with, so I’m keeping them But, that’s not stopping me from still meeting others for fun. Basically, I enjoy everyone, I’m not looking for ‘the one’, and I think it is making my experiences more enjoyable (than what I’ve read from others complaining on here.)
Thanks in advance