How has Lit changed your sex life?

[Deleted member 1379218]

My first account 20 years ago came from a sexless marriage and curiosity, I had been such a prude before that in my life. I’ve never even watched porn.
And I found lit because I like to read.
Over the past 20 years, thanks to the forum, I’ve discovered all the sides of me and most of you have too

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

Honestly it hasn't.

 

[PG564E]

Porn sites that have lots of cock pictures (soft and hard) made me realize how fucking beautiful a man's dick is. I used to buy bisexual tapes (MMF) to watch with my wife. I took a long time at the bookstores to pick tapes with 2 good looking guys with big cocks. Staring at those dicks did something to me. When we watched them together I could see her interest in them, and I tried to influence her to have sex with another man and me. This was years ago and she really looked good. It never happened, but I watched the men suck each others cocks more than the girl in the flicks.

LIT's gay male stories turned me on tremendously. Blow jobs and cum shots made me so hard and horny. I had never even thought about gay sex before, and now I wanted to experience giving head and eating cum. Long story short, I've gotten on my knees to worship 38 men's cocks to climax in my mouth. Gay porn video's and written stories can really get a man turned on if his mind is freed up to wonder about homosexuality. For me, wonder turned to craving, and that led to the absolute inner desire to make love to men's dicks with my mouth. I'm addicted to gay porn now, because I WANT MALE ON MALE SEX whenever I have the chance.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

I can't say Lit has "changed" our sex life. Only expanded on what we were already doing and participating in.

 

[Sarge9mm]

I have found that I've come to really enjoy masturbating with others while chatting. Chatting adds another option to reading stories or watching videos.

This is something that I'd definitely like to try out

 

[SPARTAN047]

It's true. Literotica has simply encouraged me to try my nastier fetishes more often like I will this weekend. Just back from outside.

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

It’s only caused me to be more sexually frustrated I believe. But hey I am entertained at least

 

[Sarge9mm]

It seems to open your mind. Let's things yiu thought to become a curiosity or something yiu wanna try maybe.

 

[falkor207]

Lit has opened my eyes and mind to so many ways to enjoy sex. Led me to buy first cock ring and a prostate massager. I masturbate more frequently and found my exhibitionist/voyeur tendencies. I've met some amazing people here and hope to continue doing so

 

[Lucien_Al]

Lit has got me onto paths I doubt I would have gone down including some of the following;

• Prostate play which has lead to get pegging me. (unfortunately no hands free yet)
• Light bondage where she is in charge
• I am not alone with enjoying her worn panties and getting her to accept it is one of my loves in life
• Finding her g spot and techniques to get her to squirt which she does quite regularly now
• Help with various supplement's and vitamins to increase load, libido etc.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

made some [real life] friends and also found some ongoing paid work doing the writings. Lit has been a sounding board. it's where i've tried to experiment [writing, not sex!]. i've left all my submissions up, even the ones from years ago that make me cringe when i read them over again - which i now avoid doing. so, for me, the change has been subtle but very rewarding on a financial level.

 

[GoodGirlsDeserveFun]

It made me realise that posting audios and pictures was a real thrill - not just on account of it being a 'naughty' act, but knowing people had listened or seen and told me about what they'd done while listening to me made even more turned on/ horny.

It made me more confident in my sexuality, exploring what I like, exploring more ideas of fantasies, made me want to buy toys so self pleasure in different ways.

It's given me horny inspiration and also made me open to talking about how much I love sex and masturbating and that it's perfectly normal. It's given me confidence to say how much I fucking love orgasms .

 

[Hipshot1554]

It made me realise that posting audios and pictures was a real thrill - not just on account of it being a 'naughty' act, but knowing people had listened or seen and told me about what they'd done while listening to me made even more turned on/ horny.

It made me more confident in my sexuality, exploring what I like, exploring more ideas of fantasies, made me want to buy toys so self pleasure in different ways.

It's given me horny inspiration and also made me open to talking about how much I love sex and masturbating and that it's perfectly normal. It's given me confidence to say how much I fucking love orgasms .

Perfect answer!

 

[Icekiller56]

It has been a distraction from my reality when I needed one, I have met some good people on here, and I met my girlfriend whom I'm going to marry on here. So I would say there's been a lot of positives that cane from being on here.

 

[Lucien_Al]

It has been a distraction from my reality when I needed one, I have met some good people on here, and I met my girlfriend whom I'm going to marry on here. So I would say there's been a lot of positives that cane from being on here.

Does the fact that you met on here mean that your relationship is very honest and open about kinks and fantasies?

 

[Babydoll_]

It’s made me more confident sharing my thoughts and sexual desires with partners! The confidence I’ve gotten from sharing photos of my body on here too has really made a difference in terms of how openly sexual I am with partners, trying things like a dildo in my pussy and a cock in my ass and then also exposing me to things I’d love to try!

 

[Icekiller56]

Does the fact that you met on here mean that your relationship is very honest and open about kinks and fantasies?

We are very open and honest about our kinks and fantasies, but even still I would get nervous about her reactions when I'm telling her. She has never proved me wrong though, and has accepted me for who I am and never judged me. She truly is amazing

 

[Noor]

I’m less trusting and sometimes go off sex completely. I’ve also had a lot of fun.

 

[Noor]

I’m less trusting and sometimes go off sex completely. I’ve also had a lot of fun.

I’ve met a lot of nice people on lit and made a lot of friends from Lit in real life, however Before I came on Lit, I had not witnessed or experienced how absolutely horrible people can be to those that care about them and/or their sex partners (btw This is not a directed statement.)

 

[SparkyWalter]

It’s made me more confident sharing my thoughts and sexual desires with partners! The confidence I’ve gotten from sharing photos of my body on here too has really made a difference in terms of how openly sexual I am with partners, trying things like a dildo in my pussy and a cock in my ass and then also exposing me to things I’d love to try!

I would love to hear about the things that you would love to try.

 

[Babydoll_]

I would love to hear about the things that you would love to try.

Lol, how much time do you have? It’s quite a list!

 

[peruchica]

Lit is actually a big reason why I was able to embrace the wonderful experiences I've had with family rather than be ashamed of it. For obvious reasons, the experiences that I had with my dad and uncle when I was younger was something that I never spoke with anyone about, including my husband who knows absolutely everything about me. Once I started talking about it on here, hearing others with similar experiences or who fantasize about it, made me so comfortable and helped me realize how extremely lucky I was to have such amazing experiences with people that are so close to me. I expected to be chastised for things that I've done, but instead I was met with nothing but positivity. Having an outlet to talk about those desires and experiences has been incredible.