How has Lit changed your sex life?

I still get turned on by sexy women, but I don’t even fantasize about fucking a woman anymore . All I fantasize about now is sucking a big hard cock and being fucked. I also blame this on xhamster, pornhub and sex.com. I think it was only a matter of time of jerking off to all that porn that I started looking more at those big hard porn cocks as I jacked off and started cumming as I was looking at big cocks. I just kind of conditioned myself to associate big hard cocks with pleasure.
 
My first account 20 years ago came from a sexless marriage and curiosity, I had been such a prude before that in my life. I’ve never even watched porn.
And I found lit because I like to read.
Over the past 20 years, thanks to the forum, I’ve discovered all the sides of me and most of you have too
 
Porn sites that have lots of cock pictures (soft and hard) made me realize how fucking beautiful a man's dick is. I used to buy bisexual tapes (MMF) to watch with my wife. I took a long time at the bookstores to pick tapes with 2 good looking guys with big cocks. Staring at those dicks did something to me. When we watched them together I could see her interest in them, and I tried to influence her to have sex with another man and me. This was years ago and she really looked good. It never happened, but I watched the men suck each others cocks more than the girl in the flicks.

LIT's gay male stories turned me on tremendously. Blow jobs and cum shots made me so hard and horny. I had never even thought about gay sex before, and now I wanted to experience giving head and eating cum. Long story short, I've gotten on my knees to worship 38 men's cocks to climax in my mouth. Gay porn video's and written stories can really get a man turned on if his mind is freed up to wonder about homosexuality. For me, wonder turned to craving, and that led to the absolute inner desire to make love to men's dicks with my mouth. I'm addicted to gay porn now, because I WANT MALE ON MALE SEX whenever I have the chance.
 
It's true. Literotica has simply encouraged me to try my nastier fetishes more often like I will this weekend. Just back from outside.
 
It seems to open your mind. Let's things yiu thought to become a curiosity or something yiu wanna try maybe.
 
Lit has opened my eyes and mind to so many ways to enjoy sex. Led me to buy first cock ring and a prostate massager. I masturbate more frequently and found my exhibitionist/voyeur tendencies. I've met some amazing people here and hope to continue doing so
 
Lit has got me onto paths I doubt I would have gone down including some of the following;

  • Prostate play which has lead to get pegging me. (unfortunately no hands free yet)
  • Light bondage where she is in charge
  • I am not alone with enjoying her worn panties and getting her to accept it is one of my loves in life
  • Finding her g spot and techniques to get her to squirt which she does quite regularly now
  • Help with various supplement's and vitamins to increase load, libido etc.
 
made some [real life] friends and also found some ongoing paid work doing the writings. Lit has been a sounding board. it's where i've tried to experiment [writing, not sex!]. i've left all my submissions up, even the ones from years ago that make me cringe when i read them over again - which i now avoid doing. so, for me, the change has been subtle but very rewarding on a financial level.
 
It made me realise that posting audios and pictures was a real thrill - not just on account of it being a 'naughty' act, but knowing people had listened or seen and told me about what they'd done while listening to me made even more turned on/ horny.

It made me more confident in my sexuality, exploring what I like, exploring more ideas of fantasies, made me want to buy toys so self pleasure in different ways.

It's given me horny inspiration and also made me open to talking about how much I love sex and masturbating and that it's perfectly normal. It's given me confidence to say how much I fucking love orgasms 😍.
 
It made me realise that posting audios and pictures was a real thrill - not just on account of it being a 'naughty' act, but knowing people had listened or seen and told me about what they'd done while listening to me made even more turned on/ horny.

It made me more confident in my sexuality, exploring what I like, exploring more ideas of fantasies, made me want to buy toys so self pleasure in different ways.

It's given me horny inspiration and also made me open to talking about how much I love sex and masturbating and that it's perfectly normal. It's given me confidence to say how much I fucking love orgasms 😍.
Perfect answer!
 
It has been a distraction from my reality when I needed one, I have met some good people on here, and I met my girlfriend whom I'm going to marry on here. So I would say there's been a lot of positives that cane from being on here.
Does the fact that you met on here mean that your relationship is very honest and open about kinks and fantasies?
 
It’s made me more confident sharing my thoughts and sexual desires with partners! The confidence I’ve gotten from sharing photos of my body on here too has really made a difference in terms of how openly sexual I am with partners, trying things like a dildo in my pussy and a cock in my ass and then also exposing me to things I’d love to try!
 
Does the fact that you met on here mean that your relationship is very honest and open about kinks and fantasies?
We are very open and honest about our kinks and fantasies, but even still I would get nervous about her reactions when I'm telling her. She has never proved me wrong though, and has accepted me for who I am and never judged me. She truly is amazing 🥰🥰🥰
 
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I’m less trusting and sometimes go off sex completely. I’ve also had a lot of fun.

I’ve met a lot of nice people on lit and made a lot of friends from Lit in real life, however Before I came on Lit, I had not witnessed or experienced how absolutely horrible people can be to those that care about them and/or their sex partners (btw This is not a directed statement.)
 
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