How many guys have boned your wife?

[bps]

Two that I know of. But I have to say the circumstances strongly suggest there were likely others I'll never know about.

 

[screwher]

My wife

I started dating my now wife (together 25 years now) our last year couple years of high school. Right before me my wife dated her first boyfriend for a short period. He was the first guy to fuck her. He was a black guy who my wife relayed to me lived up to all the BBC stereotypes. However he was a selfish inexperienced lover which made for an unsatisfactory experience.

Years later well into our relationship another man got into her panties and fucked her. She denied it but the evidence was overwhelming and it almost destroyed our relationship. Now she no longer denies it, she's just gets quiet and avoids the issue whenever it comes up.

Both of these scenarios infuriated me but now years later I find the idea of these guys screwing my wife to be arousing. I now frequently fantasize about her having sex with another guy.

 

[IntmtStrngr]

hey...

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Guys,

Do you know how many guys have fucked your wife. Before you or after you have been together? Has she told you her "number" and do you believe her?

Does her past make you angry or jealous or does it turn you on to think about her with others?

Do you personally know any of the boys or men men who have penetrated her? Have you discussed their experiences with your wife with them?

Personally, I started dating my wife in 1963 when we were both about 15 or 16. We started having sex--she was a virgin--and then her family moved across the country. We agreed we could "date" others--I thought that gave me a pass but she would be faithful. Wrong!

During high school apart she had sex with a couple of other guys--I knew two of them casually from when I visited in the summers.

Then we went to college far apart and she really picked up her activity when she started drinking and became known as the girl who would spread her legs after a few beers. Lots of guys tried her out.

We got married after college--now married for 45 years--and I thought she had been pretty conservative sexually while we had been apart. She admitted to three other guys, but that number grew as more stories came out. She's now said her number is 12 but I think she probably did more than that--maybe a lot more.

When we were younger, her activity made me a bit jealous and angry but now the stories turn me on--I love to hear them. She's had almost as many guys as I've had women.

And she's fucked a few of our friends since we've been married--at least two I know of but she tries to deny it. One of them admitted their affair to me and apologized to me. Turns me on thinking about him between her legs bareback.

I've had more men than my wife has had...
before me there was a failed attempt to penetrate her by one guy.
She had an affair with my one cousin and went out on me three separate occasions with different guys.

 

[Kenny9990]

"30 by 30"--a very nice goal and idea

I have a different take. Right before we married my now ex-wife and I had a little row about my browser history. (This was back when decent desktops first came out with, yes, only dial-up service.) Well, next time I was alone I decided to forego her browser history and looked at "recent documents" and found her "30 by 30"list. So we got married a week before her 30th b-day and I was number 30.
It didn't upset me. We all have our different paths to where and when we meet. And yes, I met and knew several of the people on the list. Having met her at work, two were from there and these two, plus two other exes were at our wedding.

That was one focused women you had! And it was good that she made her goal.

But as another poster has said, it's a lot easier for a woman to get laid than a man if they make it known they are available.

We were married just before my wife was 20, so she didn't make "30 by 30". But maybe she did "20 by 20"--I'll have to ask her.

 

[Yachtsman69]

I have no idea how many my wife had before we met. I think it was quite a few because my now sister in law used to bust my chops when I first started dating her, saying that she blew through men and I shouldn't get too attached.

I would enjoy seeing her with other men but she has no interest...

 

[BradBigBrain]

I have no idea how many my wife had before we met. I think it was quite a few because my now sister in law used to bust my chops when I first started dating her, saying that she blew through men and I shouldn't get too attached.

I would enjoy seeing her with other men but she has no interest...

Awesome.

 

[October46]

My wife confessed to less than 12 men during high school and college. In our 18th year of marriage my wife did meet a very nice black man that would visit her office on business and she did say he stimulated her. For the next two years I would taunt her about this young man, but she kept denying her yearning to be with this person. A year later she was invited to New Orleans by this black man's company to attend a conference on their new digital system which was being installed shortly after the conference. The conference was a week long and after the first night there she said it would be best for her to call me to say good night because of the company entertaining their clients after hours. My wife began called me at 7:00 p.m. to say goodnight because she said she might get tied up later in the evenings with the entertainment. On the third night I called her hotel room at 10:20 p.m. and a man answered the phone and I heard my wife in the background yell, "don't answer that". The man then hung up and within a few minutes my wife called our home. I answered as if I were awakened by her phone call and asked if everything was okay. She just said she wanted to say goodnight again because she came back to her room earlier than she had anticipated. I told her to have a great night and we then hung up. When she came home she was changed in some ways, just acting different in bed than before she left. I did joke about her being with the black man while she was away and she got very upset with me about this issue. I believe she did have an affair with this man and after she got mad I stated, "Oh calm down, hell, if you got laid by this guy in New Orleans, remember, what happened in New Orleans stays in New Orleans". She smiled and gave me a kiss on my cheek and I said, "Now that's my girl". We have not talked about it, but I do believe she did have an encounter and every so often she has to attend meeting after work about once a month which she never did before. I am happy for her if she is getting her fantasy with this black man, it is not hurting me and she is more loving now in our relationship.

 

[klippert]

15....Mid-80s in college, wasn't unusual for her to have one-nighters, sort of the thing to do. the only ones that make me smile are the guys with the big cocks...hehe. There was 4 of those....one was huge...didn't much enjoy trying to fuck him.

 

[massageguy1]

So, a co-worker was saying to me the other day, 'I never had sex with my wife before we were married! Did you?'

I replied 'I don't know - what was your wife's maiden name?'

 

[maverick51]

So, a co-worker was saying to me the other day, 'I never had sex with my wife before we were married! Did you?'

I replied 'I don't know - what was your wife's maiden name?'

Great response. Is that the last time your co-worker asked you a personal question?

 

[jackielicker]

My wife had half a dozen or so that she's talked about. I like hearing about it because I know how hot my wife is in bed. Some of the poor bastards just didn't know how to enjoy her properly. Two - count them - two guys did not want to get head, and 4 did not want to go down on her, except for special occasions. Her best had the smallest cock, and her worst had a monster.

Prior to my wife, I dated a girl who had fucked countless guys. I was still too prudish to admit to her how much it turned me on. I'm sure she fucked a few while she was seeing me. These days, I would gladly lick her clean.

 

[maverick51]

I've been married twice. My first wife and I grew up in the same neighborhood and were married young, 19 & 20. I was her first and only until she had an affair after almost 18 years of marriage. She felt life had past her by. The president of the local bank, Ted, known as a ladies man, with whom she had a business relationship showed and interest in her and after a month of innuendo's she had "lunch" with him. Actually it was a funch. I learned about this 6 months after she'd been spending Wednesday afternoons with him. She told me she just wanted to see what it was like with another man and had intended to have sex once and end it. We had actually talked about her having sex with another guy, but it was more of a fantasy. A couple of years later we were on a cruise and a guy hit on her and she told me that she got that same rush and tingle she had with Ted. I told her if she needed it to do it. She had sex with him three times on the 10 day cruise and we had fantastic sex 8 of the 10 days. She passed away a few years later.

I dated for a year and enjoyed the benefits of being an eligible guy with a bevy of ladies. I dated a hot redhead 10 years younger than me and a widow. Before me, she had sex with six men the last being the guy she dated two months before meeting me. Sex is great and no, we don't discuss past "lovers".

 

[joelafayette]

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[jakelc]

I once asked my wife about her previous sexual partners, she told me that she had been with four other guys while in relationships and a few one night stands. She told me all about one of the guys and what they used to do and once she saw how turned on I was we ended up having sex and the conversation was forgotten.

 

[Beck31]

At least two that I know of. (Ex)

 

[mnbreastluver]

To me it is also irrelevant.

I am with you, nothing good, will come of it,from the woman's perspective!

 

[Massacre]

I dont have a wife but my girlfriends number never mattered to me. It just ment she had pratice for the big game with me. It normally made for better variety of sex we had.

 

[RDRUMMER]

She's said she lost count.

 

[Lazy_lay]

She's said she lost count.

i already want to do her...

 

[Yachtsman69]

I have no idea how many my wife had before we met. I think it was quite a few because my now sister in law used to bust my chops when I first started dating her, saying that she blew through men and I shouldn't get too attached.

I would enjoy seeing her with other men but she has no interest...

Actually when I 1st met her she was regularly sleeping with another guy as well as me. I knew about him but he did not know about me. It eventually freaked her out and she dropped him.

The funny thing was how she reacted to finding out about women I had slept with. When we 1st met I was a restaurant manager so I had quite a few opportunities to have one night stands and casual sex with waitresses and customers. When she found out about some of the women I slept with I got the " you slept with her ... really!" attitude. Some double standard there. I thought it was funny.

 

[jeninflorida]

To me it is also irrelevant.

I think some guys want to know as they get turned on my it and could use it to talk about a mfm menage.

however, there are also a lot of jealous guys that can't handle the truth

 

[Pervertedhub]

If my memory is correct, one before we married and some heavy petting and playing with another bf. Been married 24 years, and did some swinging, love seeing or hearing about her with others, so since we started that, I would say 20-30 guys over the years. Too bad she quit that lifestyle about 4 years ago. I still have the memories though.

 

[jeninflorida]

The rule of threes. When a girl tells you her number, multiply by three to get the real number. When a guy tells you his number, divide by three.

hum ...

part of the issue is culture and society stupid double standard rules

part of it is religion


part of it is jealous men

 

[Up4fun&69]

I love this! The Rule of Three.

The rule of threes. When a girl tells you her number, multiply by three to get the real number. When a guy tells you his number, divide by three.

great!

 

[jeninflorida]

i already want to do her...

hey sweetie!

most guys are all for the fmf thing...but do you think more women are open to a mfm or mf&mf? just curious on your thoughts.

I think most men have fantasies about watching.