How many guys have boned your wife?

I only wish she was a complete slut before I married her. Luckily she turned into not a bad one afterwards.
 
Only one other that she admits to

She didn't date much at all in HS but had an several year long affair with the assistant volleyball coach. He was a married guy, about 12 years older. I got to know her as a no dating friend as she was trying to break up with him. I got quite a few details..... He suffered premature ejaculation but she said he was an incredible pussy eater. I prided myself in that regard too but she was patient and coached me on his technique. I was a bit jealous at first but when I heard her refer to my stamina as the "marathon man" I felt much better. She tells me now that I lick pussy better than he did but it could be a lie. I also knew that she did jack off a handful of guys in HS, not as a group but in dating situations. She always referred to one guy as pencil dick.

She was very close with her boss for a couple of years after we were married. Went to a couple of out of town conferences with him but claims that no hanky panky took place. I had suspicions but no proof. She also met the HS coach once in awhile for lunch and I had suspicions but again no proof.

I did have a very hot dream not long ago where I was hiding in the shadows and she was on her knees blowing him. It turned me on in the dream to see her sucking him and bobbing up and down on his hard dick. I caught myself wishing I could see him cum but the dream ended before completion. I told my wife about the dream and it seemed to pique her interest! We had a great session that night!

My ongoing fantasy is to watch and participate as another man fucks her!
 
So.... you can tell us your number Freya, we'll keep it secret.
I can not tell a lie. At least there is not need to on this type of forum. I am afraid I lost track by the age of 25. I grew up in the 60's. Free love was becoming popular and I took to the concept with great zeal. AIDS was not a big issue then. Getting pregnant was the main concern and I lucked out on that at least for quite awhile.
 
I can not tell a lie. At least there is not need to on this type of forum. I am afraid I lost track by the age of 25. I grew up in the 60's. Free love was becoming popular and I took to the concept with great zeal. AIDS was not a big issue then. Getting pregnant was the main concern and I lucked out on that at least for quite awhile.

I also grew up in the 60s, but I'm not sure that sex was more available then than it is now. STDs have made people more cautious for sure, but I think people are more open about their sexuality now than ever. I must admit that I have had my eyes opened here on lit.

Is there a chance that your number will still rise? ;)
 
I also grew up in the 60s, but I'm not sure that sex was more available then than it is now. STDs have made people more cautious for sure, but I think people are more open about their sexuality now than ever. I must admit that I have had my eyes opened here on lit.

Is there a chance that your number will still rise? ;)

I was a young teenager in the summer of love, still dreaming about sex and masturbating at every opportunity. When I finally became sexually active on the early 1970's the pill was more or less readily available so pregnancy wasn't a major consideration and STD'd slthough not unheard of were relatively rare.

I find it interesting that all of those who grew up through the 60's and who had more liberal attitudes to sexual freedom are now reaching retirement age and are participating and sharing their memories on lit. Thank you all.
 
I also grew up in the 60s, but I'm not sure that sex was more available then than it is now. STDs have made people more cautious for sure, but I think people are more open about their sexuality now than ever. I must admit that I have had my eyes opened here on lit.

Is there a chance that your number will still rise? ;)
Sex was not more available in the 60's but I think that is when is started opening up a little. Pregnancy and STDs were an issue but not to the extent I think AIDS herpes are today. Plus I do not think there were quite as many crazy people around then. I used to do some hitchhiking and I can not imagine girls daring to do that today.

My numbers continue to go up just not at the rate of my youth. I have been widowed for about 5 years now and I have had a few intimate encounters over the past few years. I assume I could have more if I wanted to put myself out there but it is just not that big a deal now. I enjoy spending time with a man and still enjoy sex but it seems that a lot of men my age are carrying around a lot of baggage. I have no desire to just become someone's cook, housekeeper or nurse.
 
Lets see. My redhead wife's 1st, Pete, almost every day for a couple years. Then Don....almost everyday for a couple years, then Jason, only 3 times, but she said he was the best in bed. Jason was very VERY good at licking her and taking his time making her orgasm. He knew how to fuck her nice and slow and long. Then Don some more. Then 2 guys at a party. She was drinking and went to a bedroom with them. Well, went with one of them, but the other came along. She didn't know he was going to join them, but she didn't stop it from happening. Sadly, her only "threesome", and she barely remembers it, or so she says. But basically she was passive and laid there and they undressed her and did everything taking turns. ;) So, not A LOT of guys, but A LOT of sex. Which I LOVE that she had. I actually wish she would call Jason or Don now and ........
 
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I had asked her after sex while we were dating how many ppl she had slept with. She said, "Men?" I said, "Oh there have been women?" I was instantly turned on. I said, "Ok, well, both." She said, "5 women and 11 men." She has had sex with other ppl in the years we have been married. I do know that she has slept with 4 women (all more than once) and have actually seen her with 8-9 men but she admits she has sex while I'm at work. She doesn't know the exact number but she said it's close to 40 men now.
 
I had asked her after sex while we were dating how many ppl she had slept with. She said, "Men?" I said, "Oh there have been women?" I was instantly turned on. I said, "Ok, well, both." She said, "5 women and 11 men." She has had sex with other ppl in the years we have been married. I do know that she has slept with 4 women (all more than once) and have actually seen her with 8-9 men but she admits she has sex while I'm at work. She doesn't know the exact number but she said it's close to 40 men now.

Lucky man, to have a slut like that.
 
I had asked her after sex while we were dating how many ppl she had slept with. She said, "Men?" I said, "Oh there have been women?" I was instantly turned on. I said, "Ok, well, both." She said, "5 women and 11 men." She has had sex with other ppl in the years we have been married. I do know that she has slept with 4 women (all more than once) and have actually seen her with 8-9 men but she admits she has sex while I'm at work. She doesn't know the exact number but she said it's close to 40 men now.

you area lucky man
 
Just one before me and I wish he had taught her more.
Been married 20+ years and I'm still trying to bring out the freak in her.
Would love it if she would tell me about fucking her first boyfriend but I have a feeling it was pretty vanilla.
 
from an ex,wifes point of view,im an ex-pro too.....did that at college,stopped for a while and got married.......but drifted in and out of prostitution,with regulars........ended up divorced,and went back to work again........no idea how many guys have ridden me though.
 
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Guys,

Do you know how many guys have fucked your wife. Before you or after you have been together? Has she told you her "number" and do you believe her?

Does her past make you angry or jealous or does it turn you on to think about her with others?

Do you personally know any of the boys or men men who have penetrated her? Have you discussed their experiences with your wife with them?

Personally, I started dating my wife in 1963 when we were both about 15 or 16. We started having sex--she was a virgin--and then her family moved across the country. We agreed we could "date" others--I thought that gave me a pass but she would be faithful. Wrong!

During high school apart she had sex with a couple of other guys--I knew two of them casually from when I visited in the summers.

Then we went to college far apart and she really picked up her activity when she started drinking and became known as the girl who would spread her legs after a few beers. Lots of guys tried her out.

We got married after college--now married for 45 years--and I thought she had been pretty conservative sexually while we had been apart. She admitted to three other guys, but that number grew as more stories came out. She's now said her number is 12 but I think she probably did more than that--maybe a lot more.

When we were younger, her activity made me a bit jealous and angry but now the stories turn me on--I love to hear them. She's had almost as many guys as I've had women.

And she's fucked a few of our friends since we've been married--at least two I know of but she tries to deny it. One of them admitted their affair to me and apologized to me. Turns me on thinking about him between her legs bareback.

I've never given him an actual number, but he knows about all but one, (and that's my secret). Other than that one, I've been completely honest about the number and mostly the who.

He knows a few of them, maybe half a dozen. I have substituted one or two names though. I think he was jealous when I lied at first, telling him I only had one before meeting him, but when he knew the truth, it turned him on, he ask for details. A number, 26 all together.
 
from an ex,wifes point of view,im an ex-pro too.....did that at college,stopped for a while and got married.......but drifted in and out of prostitution,with regulars........ended up divorced,and went back to work again........no idea how many guys have ridden me though.

Restless women with an active social life have always turned me on. I was always drawn to the girl with the reputation, but never for just a one night stand. My biggest problem has been these type of girls always leaving me either for thinking I don't care enough about them or are not man enough for them or simply because they start to develop feelings for the other guy
 
My wife tells me.

the past is none of my business. The present is her secret. The future is still to be lived.
 
My wife had several boyfriends before we got together. I think she was still seeing one or two when we got married. After we were married she occasionally had "dinner" with an old flame. Always came back wet and horny for some reason...
 
At least 12, she went to college 80-85, happy days....and from those 12 she'd like to forget 4-5.... hehe.. She was taken -aback when I told her I was turned on by her sexual past...
 
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