How many men after marriage?

Number

A number is nothing but a number. It is called getting a piece because nobody ever got it all. The memories are really what matters.
 
I've had sex with over 70 men since we've been married. As far as I know, my husband has only been with 1 other woman. He knows about 12 of them.
 
With my full encouragement my wife fucked my best friend.They had a fantastic affair which lasted 9 months. This was over 20 years ago and since then I’ve been her very happy cuckold. The number of cocks she had since then must be over 70. I know about most of them. I’ve watched her many times and joined-in several times.
 
We have dabbled in the swingers lifestyle on and off for around eight years now. In that period I would guess I had sex with about a dozen different men and a few women too. All but one of those men he knows about but that guy was just a fling I had before the pandemic hit.
 
Happy Saturday! Guys, I’m curious. Since you got together with her, how many other men have fucked your wife?
 
At least nine --little business trips kept the average up

I always kind of wished my wife’s career took her away on business trips like this. She knows she has my full approval to enjoy herself when she meets a man she likes. So that scenario, a hotel room to herself she’d take full advantage of.
 
Earlier I posted that my wife had two, but when I talked to her about it, she reminded me about the two that I forgot. Her total is four, all with my permission. I forgot the two that happened when I was out of town on business trips.
 
I have been with 6 men after getting married. The first 3 he did not now about until I told him a few years ago and 3 in the last 18 months with his knowledge and blessing. I guess the number is not very high for 63 but all but one of them was multiple times.
 
Still at zero

At one time I would have said zero and it should always be zero and will always be zero. But now I think it would be nice to run up the score a little.
 
If I can believe what I read...

I have read that over 50 percent of married women end up cheating at least once. If that is true it proves that many wives live with a sexual frustration and a need for more sexual variety. Of course man cheat just as much. So, it seems that we are hardwired for sexual variety. Why fight it. I don't want to cheat on my husband so the number may stay at zero. But if he comes around to the idea then I want to run up the score a little while I am still young enough to enjoy it.
 
I have read that over 50 percent of married women end up cheating at least once. If that is true it proves that many wives live with a sexual frustration and a need for more sexual variety. Of course man cheat just as much. So, it seems that we are hardwired for sexual variety. Why fight it. I don't want to cheat on my husband so the number may stay at zero. But if he comes around to the idea then I want to run up the score a little while I am still young enough to enjoy it.

I agree. I have known men and women that loved their husband or wife. But still cheated on their spouse. Even when the sex was good as well.
 
I have read that over 50 percent of married women end up cheating at least once. If that is true it proves that many wives live with a sexual frustration and a need for more sexual variety. Of course man cheat just as much. So, it seems that we are hardwired for sexual variety. Why fight it. I don't want to cheat on my husband so the number may stay at zero. But if he comes around to the idea then I want to run up the score a little while I am still young enough to enjoy it.

Hi Rackofdawn,

I haven't ever cheated as such, so I can't comment on that issue, but in our situation, with him a confirmed voyeur and me a sex-loving show-off, we have found our niche. In this way, and with a profound sense of respect and love for each other, we have settled into a many-year-long routine of me selecting partners to 'play with' and have join us also when the mood takes us. To answer the question posed by the topic of this thread, I am guessing it would now be in the 2-300 mark. I fully support you 'running up the score a little' while you are still young enough to enjoy it if you and your husband can share the interest!
 
I have been with 6 men after getting married. The first 3 he did not now about until I told him a few years ago and 3 in the last 18 months with his knowledge and blessing. I guess the number is not very high for 63 but all but one of them was multiple times.

So great that your husband understands you, and approves! Does he have partners outside the marriage, as well?
 
So great that your husband understands you, and approves! Does he have partners outside the marriage, as well?

He does not have any other partners other than the couple that we did a swap with. He is free to do so if he chooses but seems quite content to indulge his voyeur fetish.
 
He does not have any other partners other than the couple that we did a swap with. He is free to do so if he chooses but seems quite content to indulge his voyeur fetish.

It sounds like you have both worked it out, and understand each other's needs and desires. Communication is so important in a relationship. When you're on the same page about what you need sexually as well as emotionally, things are way easier.

I'm not married now, but if I was- and I talked this over with my partner of three years, before we parted late last year- I would want to be open in our relationship to having other partners from time to time. With the approval of both of us, of course. She thought it was an exciting concept.. too bad we didn't last long enough, due to other stuff, to try it out. I have enjoyed having affairs before, but I haven't had the opportunity to explore my own voyeur fetish. Maybe someday.
 
My wife has not added anyone new for a bit but I did just have breakfast with her and her friend and then dropped them off at his place. Not a new guy as she has fucked him a number of times before but she always comes home sated.
 
Good morning! Let’s hear them. How many lucky guys got to enjoy your wife after she vowed to forsake all others?
 
hey...

I have read that over 50 percent of married women end up cheating at least once. If that is true it proves that many wives live with a sexual frustration and a need for more sexual variety. Of course man cheat just as much. So, it seems that we are hardwired for sexual variety. Why fight it. I don't want to cheat on my husband so the number may stay at zero. But if he comes around to the idea then I want to run up the score a little while I am still young enough to enjoy it.


Ya know what, one thing I've never heard from an Older person male or female, saying--,

"I remember when I was young and I could enjoying the pleasure of having sex."

OR

Its such a hassle feeling this orgasm.
 
Ya know what, one thing I've never heard from an Older person male or female, saying--,

"I remember when I was young and I could enjoying the pleasure of having sex."

OR

Its such a hassle feeling this orgasm.

I think you are right. A good orgasm is a good orgasm no matter what the age. As we age we may need to make some adjustments but still being intimate is enjoyable.
 
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