How many men after marriage?

[Justfantasies]

I'm pretty sure that there was one guy and possibly two others.

I know of nine -- but we were separated for a while.

 

[davenjenn]

I have probably been with 25 to 30 since we got married. We are active swingers, but he doesn't know about everybody.

 

[CindyCD478]

Recently we've had a couple polls /threads about how many lovers our wives have had before we married them. Now how about after she said "I do".

Ladies - how many men have you slept with after your big day.
Gentlemen - if you have this info, how many men have enjoyed your wife since you married her?

For me, one guy I know of for sure has screwed my wife. I'm beginning to suspect a second.

For us, we have both had more than we can count.

 

[HesterP]

I had way too many before getting married but only a few after. We have had an open marriage for the past 10 years but was just too busy with family and work. Starting to get into it more now that the kids are on their own. I managed to snag two in the last 6 months.

 

[carlsnake]

One man fingered her in a bar. That gave her enough courage to let another man have sex with her, and he only did it once. It happened to be her boss who screwed her.

 

[Nataliefun41]

When I was married only two but it was just blowjobs

 

[screwher]

One man fingered her in a bar. That gave her enough courage to let another man have sex with her, and he only did it once. It happened to be her boss who screwed her.

Nice! I remember my wife telling me how attractive she thought her now ex GM was. He was a former Olympic athlete. I don't think anything ever happened between them. Which is to bad, I wanted him to fuck her.

 

[floatinfantazee]

Nice! I remember my wife telling me how attractive she thought her now ex GM was. He was a former Olympic athlete. I don't think anything ever happened between them. Which is to bad, I wanted him to fuck her.

We've both had a few on our own but,not always full sex. We've fucked nearly all of the ones we've shared though.

 

[Ramone45]

I know of one confirmed. You know how when your parents have friends, and their kids are like your"cousins"? It was him. It was early in our marriage and she was struggling with the idea of monogamy. He was living out west, and she basically invited him to visit. I suspect they fucked before we were married also.
I didn't even see him when he visited. She told me he was just passing through while I was at work. Yeah, right. Just passing through her pussy. She gets all flustered when I mention his name now.

 

[Bigspurt]

38 years and I think the # is zero. She does go away to meetings several times a year but she isn't assertive sexually with me so I doubt that she has been so with any one else. One possible sign though, I have bought lingerie for her in the past and one day I found a cute little chemise in her drawer that didn't come from me. As far as I know she has only bought one other item and that was 20 plus years ago shopping with a friend who had a VS discount. So maybe.

 

[screwher]

38 years and I think the # is zero. She does go away to meetings several times a year but she isn't assertive sexually with me so I doubt that she has been so with any one else. One possible sign though, I have bought lingerie for her in the past and one day I found a cute little chemise in her drawer that didn't come from me. As far as I know she has only bought one other item and that was 20 plus years ago shopping with a friend who had a VS discount. So maybe.

I've learnt from experience that if a wife has bought sexy underwear/clothes and didn't show her husband there's a reason. Last summer my wife went out of town visiting relatives. A few months after her return I found sexy new panties she bought out there and failed to tell me about. Turns out she bought them another man. A man that she let screw her.

 

[DewMee]

Ladies - how many men have you slept with after your big day.

My 1st marriage, one after ten years.
My current one, I haven't counted, but then we have quite an open marriage.

 

[J1biboi]

I know of nine -- but we were separated for a while.

We were separated also, when this took place.

 

[Bigspurt]

I've learnt from experience that if a wife has bought sexy underwear/clothes and didn't show her husband there's a reason. Last summer my wife went out of town visiting relatives. A few months after her return I found sexy new panties she bought out there and failed to tell me about. Turns out she bought them another man. A man that she let screw her.

I went a while after finding it before I asked her about it. She actually had it out and put to the side when she got something else out to "dress up". So I inquired that "I had never seen this one before" and her response was rather vague.
I really do hope that she did have a fling with someone. It could have been another woman I suppose. She has a gay brother and had another but he is gone. I do think there is some genetic predisposition to that and she has some lesbian friends.

 

[mrspank30]

My wife 0

When I was single I slept with probably 20 married women. A couple with their hubbys present.

 

[ChattyAnnie]

A lot! I never kept count but it has to be at least thirty. We've been married for almost 14 years but I didn't start sleeping with other men (except for two times) until maybe five years ago. All but a few were one night stands

 

[justherhusband]

Been married 25 years. Zero for both of us. We talk about it and fantasize a lot during sex these days, but that's it. I wouldn't mind an opportunity for my number to go up, but I'd far rather her number go up.

 

[mrspank30]

A lot! I never kept count but it has to be at least thirty. We've been married for almost 14 years but I didn't start sleeping with other men (except for two times) until maybe five years ago. All but a few were one night stands

There is a reason we are friends... Drooling

 

[luckyseven]

Zero for the first 15 years of marriage. There have been eight over the last three plus years, but only one the last year. All have been part of a swinging or swapping situation.

Over 20 as we have been involved in swinging lifestyle for many years. However I have been with far more women than men

A similar situation as well. At about 17 years into our marriage we wanted to experiment with swapping/swinging so initially she probably had about a dozen guys but after a while we found we mixed with the same couples so now it is four guys but a lot more frequent.

 

[Grindallnight]

Me - none.
Her - one.

It was an affair with a coworker. It almost destroyed us. We worked through it and now our marriage is way better than before.

It also has become both of our biggest fantasies - her fucking other guys is a frequent topic in the bedroom. She loves hearing me tell her how much I want her to, and she loves telling me how much she wants them to.

 

[shewantsmore]

We have been married over 24 years ,i think john has had 5 or 6 partners since marriage, for me iwont say how many but its alot

 

[LizVegas79]

Actually, for those that know me on here you may find it hard to believe but Zero.

Hub's has had two other women. But I had them too so we're sort of even there, although I got together with my ex-gf twice right after we got married. But that's probably a different confession for a different thread!

 

[AmandaJane]

None in the flesh.

 

[happyplayer]

None in the flesh.

That sounds so sweet. The same as myself but still I fantasize !

 

[screwher]

With the poll thread "Men Before Marriage" making the rounds I figure it's time to resurrect this thread.

My wife is now on her third other man throughout our marriage. But this guy is her first lover as part of our new hotwife type relationship.