How many of you like being called degrading or kinky names?

I don't like that at all, only if it is combined with something sweet or showing respect ... so not "slut" but "sweet slut" e. g.
 
She’s very sensitive about it and fears crossing a line. To me there is a difference between humiliation and degradation. I’m not into being degraded. I like to be teased more than anything.
 
It’s one of these things that I’d never just start saying completely out of nowhere - but if I know it’s something that the person I’m with enjoys (or that becomes apparent while we’re having fun), then I certainly enjoy gratifying them with it. And as @Venefica says, I really do enjoy being able to pair it with something suitably respectful and complimentary.

But much better when you’re both of the understanding that it’s something she’ll only start being called as things get more and more heated and kinky. Once you’ve crossed some imperceptible rubicon where the sex itself has become more and more urgent, kinky, depraved even, and the way you’re each talking to one another similarly crosses that threshold. Almost like your collective, mutual, kinky pleasure has earned you indulging in that sort of degrading language, so to speak. And in those circumstances then I certainly wouldn’t be holding myself back :giggle:
 
Depends. Timing, context, and who's doing it, are all factors in the mix. It's one of those things that has to be just right in order to pull off, a d be a turn on instead of a turn off
This.... exactly this....
He doesn't call me "cunt" but we do use it in sexy vocabulary ....

I like babygirl most..... but as long as he's calling me, I don't mind so much what he says
 
She humiliates me.
I love that. I've had two women in my life who were good at that, knew just which buttons to push and when to push them. It turned me on so much.

(Of course, in high school, it wasn't girlfriends or sexual partners— sometimes not even friends— but it seemed like half the girls I knew were good at this. I don't know if they talked to all the guys that way, or if they just sensed a certain something in me... It turned me on so much, and I had to hide how turned on I was. Took me years before I understood they were flirting with me.)
 
I couldn't agree more. Your point about respect needs to be paramount and so frankly, it's something I'd basically never say until/unless I was pretty much certain that it was being gladly received
 
Married closet sub bottom. I go cruising at least twice a week. I serve some regulars but most of my sex is with total strangers. And most of those are nice normal considerate guys looking for a a bit of naughty fun and the kinda sex they can't get at home. I'll do my very best to give them what ever they want and make sure they leave with a huge satisfied smile. Then there's the other guys, the ones that tell me what to do and remind me that I'm a pathetic cocksucker their faggot bitch and as the degradation increases so does the intensity of the sex
 
Married closet sub bottom. I go cruising at least twice a week. I serve some regulars but most of my sex is with total strangers. And most of those are nice normal considerate guys looking for a a bit of naughty fun and the kinda sex they can't get at home. I'll do my very best to give them what ever they want and make sure they leave with a huge satisfied smile. Then there's the other guys, the ones that tell me what to do and remind me that I'm a pathetic cocksucker their faggot bitch and as the degradation increases so does the intensity of the sex
Oh fuck that is so hot.
 
Degradation is SOOOO subjective...
My Goddess Wife whipped my ass (with a new dowel rod that we just purchased) in the parking lot of Menard's this afternoon, in broad daylight, in front of God and everybody.... all I felt was pride and joy in being OWNED by HER!
 
Degradation is SOOOO subjective...
My Goddess Wife whipped my ass (with a new dowel rod that we just purchased) in the parking lot of Menard's this afternoon, in broad daylight, in front of God and everybody.... all I felt was pride and joy in being OWNED by HER!
Not to mention inside the store to the amusement of the cashier. 🤣🤣🤣
 
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