How many virgins have you been with?

[Justfantasies]

In my teens, too many. Since then, one, and I regretted it deeply.

why regret?

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

I can't say.

 

[Treeview]

Never a vaginal virgin

Four anal virgins

 

[Swuq]

None

I have broken in several tops that never fucked a bottom.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Just the one

 

[ZfrkS62]

One.

Took each other's V cards.

 

[UnexpectedLuggage]

One. Girl I lost my virginity to.

 

[Lucien_Al]

3 when I was at school. One of which had never masturbated nor seen a cock.

Wasn't something I particularly enjoyed. Much preferred experienced partners.

 

[Rockymtnman]

One. Didn’t particularly find it pleasurable to be honest. It was a lot of ouch, that hurts, slower. She was really trying but it was kind of awful for both of us. Pain during sex, for either partner isn’t something I find arousing. So I was quite worried I was doing real physical damage. We messed around a bunch of times after that and it became quite fun. However, I’ve passed on being anyone else’s first after that.

 

[lily_wall_]

One, we're still friends

 

[LMWM321]

One. Didn’t particularly find it pleasurable to be honest. It was a lot of ouch, that hurts, slower.

Same... And whenever she said, "ouch, that hurts.." I'd loose my erection b/c causing her pain made me feel awful - it was supposed to feel nice... It took probably 5 evenings of trying to get through it before we finally succeeded.

As an aside... I find the whole fetishizing of Virgins to be fucking gross and misogynist, anyway. You can't elevate women who've never had sex without de-valuing women who've already had sex. Nothing reveals men's insecurities more than their fetishizing of virgins.

Personally, I'd prefer a partner who has tons of experience. ...And I couldn't care less if it was acquired with 40 different guys.. Nor do I care if her best orgasms were with one of those other guys... She's chosen me now, and that's what matters.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Virgins are over rated. Give me a girl who knows what she wants.

 

[ClockworkFox]

My husband had never been in someone’s ass before he met me. Otherwise zero. Well… maybe the guy who took my anal virginity. I never asked if he had fucked someone in the ass before.

"I never asked if he had fucked someone in the ass before."


It's so unromantic to ask, BackwoodsMama:

"So, honey, how many bad girls' bad-ass bad asses have you ridden in your time?"

But it might well have souped up the moment if you had asked him while he was hill-deep in there:

He might have growled "It's Number Five for me, sweetie, but no back door virgins until today, so shut the fuck up and clamp down on your Number One, like those bad girls did before you."

For example.

 

[stiv837]

I have never been with a Virgin.

 

[magic_rat]

probably 3. Not a favourite, give me an experienced woman any time.

 

[OldnCurious]

Two including my wife. My wife had some history with other boys, but technically a virgin when I met her at the age of 18. She was never penetrated by two prior boyfriends because of fears of getting pregnant, however she hone in on her oral skills.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

1

 

[aya_amano]

5 men that told me.

But I think I had a few more but they didn't say/admit it.

 

[drobert44]

1

 

[Nightscream89]

1,
She was 19 I was 22. (I wasn't a virgin anymore)
She grew up religious, her family was stricktly against sex before marriage, so she told me no sex before marriage.
I accepted that and never asked her or pushed her for it.
We did alot of other stuff though (oral and handwork) until like 6 months into the relationship, she told me that she wanted to have sex.

Her reasonings were.
- She wasn't as religious as her family
- Adam and Eve weren't married either
- She believed she would stay with me for the rest of her life anyway.

I told her to think about it for a week.
A week later, she was still sure she wanted to have sex, so I took her virginity.

And for who wants to know: After a relationship of 3 years, she was the one to break up with me.
She still blamed me for losing her virginity though.

 

[rogerped]

Never had a virgin

 

[JDredd711]

Two including my wife. My wife had some history with other boys, but technically a virgin when I met her at the age of 18. She was never penetrated by two prior boyfriends because of fears of getting pregnant, however she hone in on her oral skills.

Sounds like mine. And definitely 3 I can remember off the top of my head, but probably more. They can be just as enthusiastic as experienced women, you don't have to break their bad habits due to some loser previous bf.

 

[CockSparrow]

Just one. We made the leap together. And, for about three years, we were each other’s ‘one and only’. But then life got complicated and we both wandered. After another three or so years, we both married – though not to each other. Sadly, neither marriage lasted. Sixty years later, I still have fond memories of ‘the first time’.

 

[UtilityCurve]

None, sadly. I'd like think I would have let her/them with good memories, but I get that there are uncontrollable variables.

Has always, I don't know what, disturbed/angered/guilted me that women's bodies, particularly their reproductive system, while capable of enormous pleasure are also a source of enormous discomfort. Perhaps there would be less ambivalence about sex among them if it were otherwise.

Anyway, way above my paygrade: I'm in sales, not engineering and design.

 

[Rockymtnman]

Same... And whenever she said, "ouch, that hurts.." I'd loose my erection b/c causing her pain made me feel awful - it was supposed to feel nice... It took probably 5 evenings of trying to get through it before we finally succeeded.

As an aside, and not to flame anyone... I find the whole fetishizing of Virgins to be fucking gross and misogynist, anyway. You can't elevate women who've never had sex without de-valuing women who've already had sex. Nothing reveals men's insecurities more than their fetishizing of virgins.

Personally, I'd prefer a partner who has tons of experience. ...And I couldn't care less if it was acquired with 40 different guys.. Nor do I care if her best orgasms were with one of those other guys... She's chosen me now and that's what matters.

Couldn’t have said it better myself.