how many women?

[Bandit58]

threesomes are more normal for me now then i ever thought they would be, but it is always a girl and a guy. i wouldn't want any guy other then Master to have that kind of access to me

Ditto. Since Sir and I met, I've had no desire to have anything sexually to do with another guy. We've had the occasional threesome with other women, and I've played alone with women, but neither of us have any desire to bring other guys in.

 

[Netzach]

Me three. Love guy on guy action. Love any part of it that involves me, although I've not done a full threesome. Mister Man isn't bi (sniff, sniff), but he has mentioned he thinks the idea of me blowing him while a guy takes me is hot. *fans self* Phew, the possibilities are endless. I doubt it will end up happening though, mostly because Mister Man doesn't do public play and I do not like the idea of inviting someone to his house without really really knowing the person.

At the moment I still have some fun at parties, though I don't go "all the way." I've certainly flirted with the possibility of a scene of some sort with 2 men, but it has yet to materialize. Bi bottom boys are often very very willing to play together for my amusement. Oh, I guess that's not really being "taken" by 2 men. Hmm. Yeah, I don't know, I'm more drawn to the homoerotic stuff.

I could have every hole stuffed full of cock and all I see is me doing the taking in that case. Got me.

 

[intothewoods]

Ditto. Since Sir and I met, I've had no desire to have anything sexually to do with another guy. We've had the occasional threesome with other women, and I've played alone with women, but neither of us have any desire to bring other guys in.

Huh. I could not relate to this any less. Men are so hot, and the possibilities are soooo endless. I tend to feel like what Mister Man fulfills for me is the D stuff, but I still like looking at the pretty boys. Whether I do it is another issue entirely. I wouldn't be totally surprised if I never had full on sexy sex with another person again. But damn I haven't stopped looking, or thinking about it!

I could have every hole stuffed full of cock and all I see is me doing the taking in that case. Got me.

My scene interests (non Mister Man) are still developing. I can't say I'm a natural Top at all. We've had several parties where a few of us bottoms sit around wishing someone would take charge. But we've started to talk about it and find solutions like gee, maybe we'll have a scene where your Domme tells me to do this to you. So you get topped, I get topped, she tops, and we're all happy!

 

[Netzach]

I guess I'm kind of a freak in some ways. I'm not totally casual about sex, it's not that I fall into bed really easily. But romantic love need not be the deal. It has to be worthwhile on some level - intellectually, spiritually, companionship wise, somehow it makes sense.

There are things that ONLY H can do for me, ever. As a slave - there's a completely unique and perfect dimension to that.

M is my partner, my lover. Psychically his role is that of another woman in my life - I ping back and forth between this kind of butch protective thing and the girlier thing with him. It's a lot like my relationships with women and in a lot of ways this makes him ideal as my life partner and living mate. I love him so much it takes the wind out of me at times. I want to wake up with him and go to bed with him and fight and fuck and build a life. He's my best friend, my mirror image, and the best person to watch movies with ever.

Then T is really my male energy. I'm not that hetero at core so it's kind of good that he's the paramour and will not be the husband/partner. I'm insanely in love with him, and he with me, and it fell on us like the ton of bricks and that was that. It wasn't ideal and isn't ideal in so many ways, but there's nothing I'd do to change it.

I think the moment we decided it would be good to run away and live together we'd be DOOMED. It's the longing, tension, wanting, anticipation, and space that keeps it so compelling. No one has ever understood me so well, given me such good advice at such good times. And showed up when no one ever thought he could or would when I wasn't fit for any human company.

Funny thing though - when I masturbate - these are the only three men I really think about if I think about men. I'm very locked into what I'm doing at a given moment. My pussy may have more than one thing in it, but there's a strong loyalty to the uniqueness of each of these men.

 

[Etoile]

If I were in that situation, they would have to not mind touching each other sometimes. Stuff like the "oops we kissed" Snickers commercial from last year, and other related "oh ha ha homophobia is funny" shit turns me off. If I were with two guys who both had the feeling of "ewwww I don't want to be naked with another guy" I'd pick up on that and be pissed off. Seriously, I really hate that kind of thing. (Commercial Closet calls it homo-queasy.)

 

[FurryFury]

If I were in that situation, they would have to not mind touching each other sometimes. Stuff like the "oops we kissed" Snickers commercial from last year, and other related "oh ha ha homophobia is funny" shit turns me off. If I were with two guys who both had the feeling of "ewwww I don't want to be naked with another guy" I'd pick up on that and be pissed off. Seriously, I really hate that kind of thing. (Commercial Closet calls it homo-queasy.)

I agree with you there.

 

[Noor]

I would like to be taken by two men to the wolfgang puck spot at the Walker and then tie their ties together and make them kiss.

Local! lol! Did you try the minature golf?

 

[Netzach]

Local! lol! Did you try the minature golf?

yes we did. Last weekend with M and his newish older boyfriend gent, who I like a lot.

They weren't wearing ties though.

I won, which I never do at mini golf.

 

[Netzach]

If I were in that situation, they would have to not mind touching each other sometimes. Stuff like the "oops we kissed" Snickers commercial from last year, and other related "oh ha ha homophobia is funny" shit turns me off. If I were with two guys who both had the feeling of "ewwww I don't want to be naked with another guy" I'd pick up on that and be pissed off. Seriously, I really hate that kind of thing. (Commercial Closet calls it homo-queasy.)

I don't even fuck straight men one on one anymore. It's just kind of requisite to like cock as much as I do. I'm hetero queasy.

 

[Etoile]

I don't even fuck straight men one on one anymore. It's just kind of requisite to like cock as much as I do. I'm hetero queasy.

Ha, that's a great way to describe it! Absolutely great summary of my homo-affinity.

 

[Noor]

yes we did. Last weekend with M and his newish older boyfriend gent, who I like a lot.

They weren't wearing ties though.

I won, which I never do at mini golf.

I really liked the last hole with the chimes when someone made it.

Hi Bandit , Etoile, Everyone!

I don't fantasized about two men in general, but it has happened, been a long time though.

 

[FurryFury]

That's funny to me too because we are so opposite in this area. I fantasize about so many people. Women walking down the street who look like they need someone to make them feel loved, make them smile and come.

Men at the store who look lonely or just a bit dusty. I want to make them happy. I want to warm them up and dust them off.

Hot people everywhere who aren't too into themselves. The gloss of their hair, the sway of their bodies, the sparkle in those eyes and I'm like, yeah, I could hit that.

I fantasize about groups of people. I think about having so many holes filled trying to figure out the logistics. I think I need some former gymnastics, contortionists and students of the Kama Sutra to come visit. I also could use those specialty pieces of furniture and toys I've devised in my mind's eye.

I dream about people too. I dream about relatives. I dream about I think are gross and wouldn't ever touch with a ten foot pole. I dream close friends I'd never actually want to fuck and mostly, about people I would. I refuse to feel guilty for who I fuck in my dreams!

Hey, I just realized, I've sorta come a long way. Even in my dreams I used to say, "No, I can't. I'm married."

Now I say, "Get over here!" I lift my butt a little and give em a look. It seems to work but then I wake up too soon. LOL!

So who knows maybe someday I'll evolve in RL too. You never know!

I guess I'm kind of a freak in some ways. I'm not totally casual about sex, it's not that I fall into bed really easily. But romantic love need not be the deal. It has to be worthwhile on some level - intellectually, spiritually, companionship wise, somehow it makes sense.

There are things that ONLY H can do for me, ever. As a slave - there's a completely unique and perfect dimension to that.

M is my partner, my lover. Psychically his role is that of another woman in my life - I ping back and forth between this kind of butch protective thing and the girlier thing with him. It's a lot like my relationships with women and in a lot of ways this makes him ideal as my life partner and living mate. I love him so much it takes the wind out of me at times. I want to wake up with him and go to bed with him and fight and fuck and build a life. He's my best friend, my mirror image, and the best person to watch movies with ever.

Then T is really my male energy. I'm not that hetero at core so it's kind of good that he's the paramour and will not be the husband/partner. I'm insanely in love with him, and he with me, and it fell on us like the ton of bricks and that was that. It wasn't ideal and isn't ideal in so many ways, but there's nothing I'd do to change it.

I think the moment we decided it would be good to run away and live together we'd be DOOMED. It's the longing, tension, wanting, anticipation, and space that keeps it so compelling. No one has ever understood me so well, given me such good advice at such good times. And showed up when no one ever thought he could or would when I wasn't fit for any human company.

Funny thing though - when I masturbate - these are the only three men I really think about if I think about men. I'm very locked into what I'm doing at a given moment. My pussy may have more than one thing in it, but there's a strong loyalty to the uniqueness of each of these men.

 

[Netzach]

I really liked the last hole with the chimes when someone made it.

Hi Bandit , Etoile, Everyone!

I don't fantasized about two men in general, but it has happened, been a long time though.

Yep, that's a really beautiful structure.

If you ever wanna coffee, PM me!

 

[Netzach]

That's funny to me too because we are so opposite in this area. I fantasize about so many people. Women walking down the street who look like they need someone to make them feel loved, make them smile and come.

Men at the store who look lonely or just a bit dusty. I want to make them happy. I want to warm them up and dust them off.

Hot people everywhere who aren't too into themselves. The gloss of their hair, the sway of their bodies, the sparkle in those eyes and I'm like, yeah, I could hit that.

I fantasize about groups of people. I think about having so many holes filled trying to figure out the logistics. I think I need some former gymnastics, contortionists and students of the Kama Sutra to come visit. I also could use those specialty pieces of furniture and toys I've devised in my mind's eye.

I dream about people too. I dream about relatives. I dream about I think are gross and wouldn't ever touch with a ten foot pole. I dream close friends I'd never actually want to fuck and mostly, about people I would. I refuse to feel guilty for who I fuck in my dreams!

Hey, I just realized, I've sorta come a long way. Even in my dreams I used to say, "No, I can't. I'm married."

Now I say, "Get over here!" I lift my butt a little and give em a look. It seems to work but then I wake up too soon. LOL!

So who knows maybe someday I'll evolve in RL too. You never know!

I admire that, I really do. I wish my fantasy life were a little less repetitive sometimes! It's actually just not that crazy often. I guess I get enough crazy from talking to all these different people about their most outlandish and most out there thing - so when it's time to think about what I want it's not abstract at all, it's what would you like?

 

[intothewoods]

If I were in that situation, they would have to not mind touching each other sometimes. Stuff like the "oops we kissed" Snickers commercial from last year, and other related "oh ha ha homophobia is funny" shit turns me off. If I were with two guys who both had the feeling of "ewwww I don't want to be naked with another guy" I'd pick up on that and be pissed off. Seriously, I really hate that kind of thing. (Commercial Closet calls it homo-queasy.)

Agreed. My man is straight but not narrow. I do not do homphobes.

 

[Netzach]

Being arrow straight doesn't mean he's a phobe. In fact, it's fine not to want to get naked and fuck me with another guy - but you're not going to fully appreciate me, what I'm about and my whole mindset unless you are very bi into all genders queer. It'd be like me dating someone who doesn't speak my language at all. Possible in an ideal world, but too much room for disconnect for me to be into it.

Done it. Didn't work. He was the least phobic of straight boys I've ever met, the most genuinely adoring of women and wonderful. But when I needed to be *groked* it wasn't gonna happen. Isn't going to with less stellar examples of straight and cool either.

 

[FurryFury]

I admire that, I really do. I wish my fantasy life were a little less repetitive sometimes! It's actually just not that crazy often. I guess I get enough crazy from talking to all these different people about their most outlandish and most out there thing - so when it's time to think about what I want it's not abstract at all, it's what would you like?

That makes sense to me!

 

[intothewoods]

Being arrow straight doesn't mean he's a phobe. In fact, it's fine not to want to get naked and fuck me with another guy - but you're not going to fully appreciate me, what I'm about and my whole mindset unless you are very bi into all genders queer. It'd be like me dating someone who doesn't speak my language at all. Possible in an ideal world, but too much room for disconnect for me to be into it.

Done it. Didn't work. He was the least phobic of straight boys I've ever met, the most genuinely adoring of women and wonderful. But when I needed to be *groked* it wasn't gonna happen. Isn't going to with less stellar examples of straight and cool either.

I get that. But I am at the end of the day basically a straight girl. So that's probably why I date basically a straight guy. A bi friend of mine was lamenting to me how much she was craving women lately. I could not relate at all. I have never once craved a woman! All I can say is I went through a period where I masturbated to the Victoria's Secret catalog. LMAO.

 

[Netzach]

I get that. But I am at the end of the day basically a straight girl. So that's probably why I date basically a straight guy. A bi friend of mine was lamenting to me how much she was craving women lately. I could not relate at all. I have never once craved a woman! All I can say is I went through a period where I masturbated to the Victoria's Secret catalog. LMAO.

I do crave women. And butch boy identified boy-with-vagina types of people. *sigh* I'm very not-straight in spite of my boy collecting - my culture is GLBT, my bar scene is GLBT, my social circles are GLBT primarily - those are a lot of my common references and starting points and to "get" me to the degree one needs to for a really strong attachment, it just helps to exist in that world.

 

[intothewoods]

I do crave women. And butch boy identified boy-with-vagina types of people. *sigh*

They are really hot to me too. Bois, that is.

I actually think it's kind of weird I've never wanted wanted a woman. Like thought about her all the time. I sometimes think the right woman would do it for me though. I do like the chick from Workout on Bravo! Har. There are definitely girls I find cute or hot, but I don't have that physical sexual instinct about them.

Also, the Victoria's Secret episodes only happened when I was pregnant.

 

[Netzach]

They are really hot to me too. Bois, that is.

I actually think it's kind of weird I've never wanted wanted a woman. Like thought about her all the time. I sometimes think the right woman would do it for me though. I do like the chick from Workout on Bravo! Har. There are definitely girls I find cute or hot, but I don't have that physical sexual instinct about them.

Also, the Victoria's Secret episodes only happened when I was pregnant.

Ha, that's really funny.

It takes particular women to really get me into animal lust-on crazy mode, but it takes particular men too, so there's really no mystery about that, I think.

 

[intothewoods]

Oh. My. God.

I think I grew up to be a fag hag after all!

Damn, that just kind of blew my mind.

 

[bridgeburner]

Yep Yep Yep. I like when it's all about me. I haven't had two guys at once in a long time --- the opportunities that presented themselves haven't been quite right --- but the right two guys in the right mood are definitely on my wish list.

I won't ever do MFF again. Firstly, if I'm going to hook up with a girl --- which is exceeding rare --- it's because I'm into that girl. I don't want some dude around mucking things up. Secondly, I'm too insecure and competitive. This means that I drop back into a secondary, facilitating role because I refuse to compete. I end up feeling woefully inadequate, unattractive, unsexy and generally pretty pathetic. Although I know that it's due to the women who were involved and my relationships with them, it's just not something I care to mess around with. It truly makes me hateful.

 

[madetotakeit]

Definitely something I would do again. The first time was fun, but didn't match up with the fantasy. Would love to have the opportunity to change that. I'm greedy though. I want to be the only one the guys have interest in.

 

[PertPerth]

I think the idea of two guys is just as appealing as two girls. For me it would always depend on the situation. I'm not sure how much I'd like it if I was taking one of them - I'd much rather be the single girl joining in the fun...or watching
I'm guessing that it'll be staying in the "fantasy box" for me.