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How much masturbation is too much?

They say you'll go blind if you do it too much, but that's what glasses are for
 
I'm happily married

we have a good sex life and still in love (she's 61, I'm 65). And I masturbate every chance I get. Quite apart from being enjoyable, it's been proved to be healthy. I feel sorry for people who don't enjoy themselves. Often.
 
i think for a girl you had to much when it hurts to even touch. had that happen a few times.
 
chase_lecanne said:
I have a vivid imagination. Always had since I was really young, but I seem to be permanently stuck in puberty. I think about sex constantly, even at work, and can barely wait until my boyfriend goes out so that I can watch porn or chat and masturbate. My friends think I'm nuts, but getting off is seriously the best part of my day.

Is constantly getting yourself off even when you get regular sex too much?
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Not at all. Masturbation has lots of health benefits. If it's interfering with your regular life, then it's time to see what's going on, but the problem isn't the masturbating. It's whatever is causing it to dominate your life to the exclusion of other things. If that's not happening, and you are using plenty of lubrication to avoid chaffing, then enjoy yourself, girl.
 
Feel free

Chase, you are fine sexually - it is not too much

AND I love Astrid!
And Alison and Nick

Write when you can

G
 
gabriel16 said:
Chase, you are fine sexually - it is not too much

AND I love Astrid!
And Alison and Nick

Write when you can

G
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OMG you guys read my stories! AWESOME! I didn't even realize it, I've been at work and AWOL from online all day. :[

I think you guys are right and my BF doesn't give me the type of fucking that I want. He will go rough and hard, but TBH his sex drive doesn't match mine, and he would never agree to some of the filthy things that go around in my head. (basically....Astrid!) I've hinted about threesomes, guys or girls, and he noped out of the conversation. Doesn't like to share at all. He thinks me wanting that stuff means that he isn't good enough which isn't true. I just can't GET enough!!
 
Speaking of too much and/or obsessed....

Let's count...

1) Woke up early. Went in the living room with my Lelo and played with myself until I squirted.

2) Emailed 3 XXX fantasies to a chat buddy while at work. My pussy got so wet that my panties were damp for the rest of the day. Got worse when he sent me a picture of his dick oozing precum.

3) Got home to an empty house and got myself off twice. I'm so loud that I'm PRETTY sure one day my landlord or neighbors are going to give my boyfriend a "heads up" that I'm having an affair. Not unless they count my vibrator!

4) Jumped on the boy as soon as he walked in the door.
 
May not seem like much to some, but I get myself off at least twice a day, often three or four. And sometimes I go for endurance, not quantity, repeatedly bringing myself as close as I can, until the slightest touch will send me over. Then I stop, wait, and then repeat the process until I get too close, and then I stroke hard and fast, getting my relief until the next time. Can anyone relate?
 
Technically if you've had "too much" you won't feel like doing it unless you have a compulsion.

I know it's popular to say "just do it" with regards to masturbation and porn, but indulgences always come with a price. I can only speak as a man, but I feel much better when I avoid the two for a while, and focus my energies elsewhere (including but not limited to the pursuit of sex). That doesn't mean I won't do it at all or am against it. I just don't want porn and fapping to be a substitute for the joys of seduction and sex. For me they should be a fun complement to my sex life. But that's just my $.02 as a man, and everyone knows what's right for him/herself.
 
I think too much is when you start to get bored with it,when it comes routine and is not exciteing anymore
 
I'd say too much is when you start to chafe and bleed, it's probably time to stop.
 
chase_lecanne said:
Let's count...

1) Woke up early. Went in the living room with my Lelo and played with myself until I squirted.

2) Emailed 3 XXX fantasies to a chat buddy while at work. My pussy got so wet that my panties were damp for the rest of the day. Got worse when he sent me a picture of his dick oozing precum.

3) Got home to an empty house and got myself off twice. I'm so loud that I'm PRETTY sure one day my landlord or neighbors are going to give my boyfriend a "heads up" that I'm having an affair. Not unless they count my vibrator!

4) Jumped on the boy as soon as he walked in the door.
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Well if you'd ever want another chat buddy (especially while at work), I'm here! :D *That's what I did all day at work as well* Best part of vacation for the boss... I can do whatever the hell I want.
 
chase_lecanne said:
I have a vivid imagination. Always had since I was really young, but I seem to be permanently stuck in puberty. I think about sex constantly, even at work, and can barely wait until my boyfriend goes out so that I can watch porn or chat and masturbate. My friends think I'm nuts, but getting off is seriously the best part of my day.

Is constantly getting yourself off even when you get regular sex too much?
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chase_lecanne said:
Let's count...

1) Woke up early. Went in the living room with my Lelo and played with myself until I squirted.

2) Emailed 3 XXX fantasies to a chat buddy while at work. My pussy got so wet that my panties were damp for the rest of the day. Got worse when he sent me a picture of his dick oozing precum.

3) Got home to an empty house and got myself off twice. I'm so loud that I'm PRETTY sure one day my landlord or neighbors are going to give my boyfriend a "heads up" that I'm having an affair. Not unless they count my vibrator!

4) Jumped on the boy as soon as he walked in the door.
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Strange thing is that I masturbate more when I am getting great regular sex. Or is that strange? As a guy I guess I am supposed to think about sex all the time and I do, but I tend to act on it more when I am aroused by my partner be it direct contact or chat or sexting/MM.

If you'd like another chat buddy PM me I'm alone in my truck driving from job to job every day. Yes I do pull over when its needed.....
 
As long as it's not interfering with your routines or work productivity, I see nothing wrong with frequent masturbation. In fact, a urologist once told me that frequent release, in males, is good for one's prostate. I never bothered, however, to look at his framed credentials on his office wall to see if he actually graduated from a legitimate medical school ... ;)
 
Leigh81 said:
No such thing as to much

L:rose:
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there kinda is, for guys at least. a point of diminishing returns occurs rather quickly, maybe after two in a row. i know i need some recuperative time or else i'm worthless. well, i'm worthless anyway, but...
 
ImagineMe2 said:
Law of Diminishing Returns factors in there somewhere I think for the guys, no such thing for ladies that I can tell.
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that might be true but i've only had experience with a couple girls, one being my wife, and they were both sort of "1 and out" ladies... :(
 
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