How old is too old?

[jet_nebula]

I've always had a fantasy of being with a much older women. Now I've been with older women before but lately I've been told by some that I'm too young. Exactly at what point does an older women (cougar) not want to be with a younger guy...if the older ladies are out there, I would love to hear from you...

I prefer and have dated older women since my first experience. Do I have anything worthwhile to add to what's already been said? Yes.

Note:I'm sharing my own experiences. I don't speak for everyone.

If you're only interested in a fling then your chances of sleeping with an older woman will diminish. Why? Most older women aren't looking for a fling. They're looking for something that is meaningful and stable. They think in the long-term and usually expect you to do the same. You need to be a man, not a boy. Your life needs to have some resemblance of order. No Corn Pops in the bed or a filthy bathroom with the light taken out to hide it. I met a woman who swore she'd never date someone who was X years younger than her. I changed that. You can, too. I showed her that all younger men are not alike and age really is a number.

Best.

By the way,you might want to stop using the term "cougar." It doesn't fly well.

 

[Annabell4you]

Some older women like young men, others don't. There is no point where older women don't want younger men, it just depends on the woman and what she wants. If you do find an older woman who likes young men, you will also find that she is probably dominant and will likely want a young man who is more submissive. Does the phrase "Boy Toy" ring a bell?

Darn it! If I had a boy toy, I'd want him to be in charge... of my orgasms...

 

[Sinjay13]

Like anything else, it depends on several factors.

Is the point of being with a much older woman because she looks much older? Know what I mean? Like, does gray hair and a lot of wrinkles turn you on? Or is it just hot to find a much older woman who has aged very gracefully and still has that sexual fire and energy to her?

Everyone ages differently. When I was 28 I was slept with a 48 year old. She looked a lot like Elaine from Seinfeld with that spunky personality too. Very attractive woman who looked right about her age. I definitely recall having crushes on a few teachers, who, in comparison, were much older than me at the time. OMG, I had a music teacher get kicked out of school for posing in Playboy. She was scorchin! And her replacement was even sexier. The way she walked...my oh my..I could totally picture her in Penthouse or Hustler. I can't believe I still remember their names.

Anyway, so it depends on the lady whether or not I would get it on with her. If she looked hot as hell but was 60, who cares...she's hot as hell! I would hit that way before and time and time again before doing a disgusting 20 year old.

 

[Cherry_Rose]

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[Lord_of_Farts]

I doubt that cuss you kinda ugly

 

[sweet_lusciousdesire]

fun

Open minded sexiness is always fun at any age.

 

[CNYCarol]

How old is too old?
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Anyone over the age of 150 should use caution while engaging in sex.

 

[jak_jism]

....The oldest woman I have ever been with was 59.

Still a puppy.

 

[roymcavoy]

Shared this story in the Grannies thread a few days ago . . .

"When I was in college...there was a 60-year-old woman at the tennis club who like to "play" with the younger guys. Mind you, she was in great shape for a woman her age...had a deep tan, great skin, and wasn't bad looking at all.

I was about 20 when she walked by and asked if I wanted to "play"...and, proceeded to lead me out to her car in the parking lot. She only lived a few blocks from the club, so we drove over to her place. When we got there, she excused herself, to use the bathroom....and, emerged with a very sheer coverup. She knew we were all inexperienced jerk-offs...so, she gave me the "lesson" of my life that day. To this day, I don't think I've had a better sexual experience with a woman."

I'd love to sack another older woman. Man, she fucked and sucked my brains out.

 

[Little Bird]

For me it would probably be 10 years older than me.
If much older than that, it would have to be something very special.

 

[Iamnotthe1]

I have had guys much younger than me show interest and dated someone once 15 years younger. I think it depends on the person and how mature they are. I would date an old man too if he was young enough for me in spirit.

 

[BrendaBrown]

Love to Have Younger

I am not usre how old is too old, but college age guys turn me on. They are a good 20 years younger than I am.

 

[JayCross]

Bump

I want to here from the more mature woman... especially if there near me in Tampa

 

[Edensgarden]

I want to here from the more mature woman... especially if there near me in Tampa

I wonder if it's easier to notice grammar errors when you are a mature woman?

 

[twister947]

I wonder if it's easier to notice grammar errors when you are a mature woman?

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[QuantumJumping]

Hurrah!

I am not usre how old is too old, but college age guys turn me on. They are a good 20 years younger than I am.

I say go for it honey.
They are legal.
They are horny.
They have stamina.
They are not expecting marriage or a child from you.
I say take off their Rompers and play naked games with them.
If they get hard for you, then ride them hard.
Get a Brazilian and see how many tongue lashings you can take.
Yeeee Haaaa!

 

[DarkPleasures]

I am not usre how old is too old, but college age guys turn me on. They are a good 20 years younger than I am.

I say go for it honey.
They are legal.
They are horny.
They have stamina.
They are not expecting marriage or a child from you.
I say take off their Rompers and play naked games with them.
If they get hard for you, then ride them hard.
Get a Brazilian and see how many tongue lashings you can take.
Yeeee Haaaa!

BrendaBrown was last on Lit on 11-26-2011 and has only posted three times. I doubt she'll get your message.

 

[infinity706]

I'm actually not sure there's a hard limit for everyone. I've actually been told by multiple people over 50 that I'd be marriage material if I weren't against marriage. The women would have had kids with me if they were young enough and I wanted kids. I think part of it is more the going after someone for lust even though they're a poor candidate. A lot of older women like to go out and give in to their desires for promiscuous sex, but they often, in many cases, have learned from their mistakes and aren't going to jump into a poorly matched relationship just because someone's hot.

Of course, I've had a ton of much older people. The ones that wanted to marry me are a small percentage of the total.

 

[JennyNo1]

I have a friend who has a theory called the rule of 7
To find out the youngest you can date: your age/2+7
oldest : (your age-7)*2
for example if you are 40
40/2=20+7=27
40-7=33*2=66

There for a 40yr old person could date some one between 27 and 66 yrs. of age

Of course there are always exceptions

Oh HELL no, I'd be dating 90-something year-old men!!!!! lol
The younger number happens to work out about where I draw the line, though.

 

[QuantumJumping]

Dead is too old