How should I finish a handjob?

[van_delay]

Perfect...love your thinking...and add kissing

Yes. The soft encouragement in my ear always sends me over the edge.

 

[Nellie60]

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

I much prefer you to continue stroking until i am completely done. And restart its cam be a turn on.

 

[bobsch703]

I prefer to keep jerking it, maybe grip it a little harder and go a little slower, but yeah, keep going

 

[UtilityCurve]

OMG, do NOT stop stroking me!

His preference is his preference/need and you are right to respect it, even if you question its rarity here.

As for me, as much as it is MY preference/need to keep going until I am done (by all means, slow down when it starts--ain't nothing gonna stop it at that point!), I love the variety of things a girl can do with a spurting cock, even if it's just watching the fireworks. It would be my hope to hook up with one who enjoys that variety herself and uses the opportunity to indulge whatever SHE prefers/needs at that particular time. (I'm already in paradise. She should enjoy the experience as much as possible too!)

 

[bigsexybna]

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

Finish off any handjob with your mouth.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Just as he tenses before he comes, keep wanking but put your lips over the end. He'll love it and you don't get messy sheets.

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

Such practical homemakers advice from Lucy..............anything to save on the laundry

 

[ArseGratiaArtis]

Thanks for the input, from the responses so far it sounds like most guys do like to be stroked while they're ejaculating. I never did really understand why my ex made me stop when he came, but regardless he still seemed to have really strong orgasms that way. It was like he was stopping right at what's supposed to be the best part!

Like several other posters, I get very sensitive just after I cum, and any further stroking can be uncomfortable. It was more intense when I was young, but still true in my 50s. I tell my partner what I want and when. One of the things that feels really good is for her to hold the tip firmly but not too hard just after I cum. This is true after I pull out from cumming in her pussy, too.

Have you noticed that a lot of men stop thrusting as they cum? I usually do, then follow that first jet of cum in, hard.

 

[stevesthename]

Just as he tenses before he comes, keep wanking but put your lips over the end. He'll love it and you don't get messy sheets.

Oh, God yes!

 

[SmokingFap]

Okay. So. The reason a man orgasms (and not just ejaculates) is that his cum forcing its way up through his shaft massages the nerve endings, causing the feeling of orgasm. Most men know that you can ejaculate without having that orgasmic feeling. You cannot have that same orgasmic feeling without ejaculating. The thing is, if there is external pressure while your jizz is pumping through your shaft, such as from a hand, mouth, pussy, or an asshole, the orgasmic sensation is intensified. So a hands-free or ruined orgasm will never be as powerful as a continuously stroking (or fucking) cum.

Here ended the lesson. Carry on.

 

[Series 6]

Okay. So. The reason a man orgasms (and not just ejaculates) is that his cum forcing its way up through his shaft massages the nerve endings, causing the feeling of orgasm. Most men know that you can ejaculate without having that orgasmic feeling. You cannot have that same orgasmic feeling without ejaculating. The thing is, if there is external pressure while your jizz is pumping through your shaft, such as from a hand, mouth, pussy, or an asshole, the orgasmic sensation is intensified. So a hands-free or ruined orgasm will never be as powerful as a continuously stroking (or fucking) cum.

Here ended the lesson. Carry on.

I’m not sure that is true. I’ve heard that some men who have had prostate surgery can still experience the sensation of having an orgasm, but don’t release semen. They experience what is called a dry orgasm.

https://www.missgigiengle.com/blog/orgasm-without-ejaculating-dry-orgasm?format=amp

 

[Swuq]

Just as he tenses before he comes, keep wanking but put your lips over the end. He'll love it and you don't get messy sheets.

This is the correct answer.

 

[Oniafox]

My guy had me squeeze the base of his shaft, then let second-spurts shoot out

 

[Artfan2]

My guy had me squeeze the base of his shaft, then let second-spurts shoot out

Was this the guy from Sunday?

 

[Oniafox]

Was this the guy from Sunday?

Yes. I think it also helped to keep it up, maybe

 

[lucy_sometimes]

It depends on whether you want to give him maximum pleasure or prevent or ruin the orgasm.

Keep stroking gently when he starts to swell and shoot. There are ways of making sure he doesn't get any mess on him. A towel? Or a mouth?

To ruin, pour ICE water on his 'area' at the moment of truth.

 

[UtilityCurve]

I do like to shoot my load onto her, anyplace onto her.

That is an odd reflex isn't it? I thought I was the only one, but it just seems ... less ... if somehow she doesn't take or get my cum.

No one's ever commented, yes or nay, but I've always wondered if that "need to give" urge is welcomed by my partners.

 

[nutoseen]

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

as i start to climax what works for me is for you to jerk faster with gusto, don't touch my nut sack. as i shoot my load keep jerking and holding tight so i can shoot more. it is awesome. drain me... slow your motion, but don't stop though. you may touch my nut sack as you lick my little dick, your hand, my belly, cleaning me off with your mouth.

 

[Nellie60]

OMG, do NOT stop stroking me!

His preference is his preference/need and you are right to respect it, even if you question its rarity here.

As for me, as much as it is MY preference/need to keep going until I am done (by all means, slow down when it starts--ain't nothing gonna stop it at that point!), I love the variety of things a girl can do with a spurting cock, even if it's just watching the fireworks. It would be my hope to hook up with one who enjoys that variety herself and uses the opportunity to indulge whatever SHE prefers/needs at that particular time. (I'm already in paradise. She should enjoy the experience as much as possible too!)

Most definitely do not stop! why would you suddenly stop like some chicks...like I am rubbing your clit then as you start to cum, I suddenly stop..no..no carry on please!

 

[bobsch703]

If the mouth isn't involved, keep jerking it and let the cum run down all over your hand - unless he shoots for distance, then keep jerking and let it land on his belly