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dramafreetx
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It's a tough call... In every serious relationship that I have been involved in since high school, we have always had an agreement that she could fuck anyone that she wanted, as long as I knew about it and we could be sure that it was someone who was clean, wouldn't harm her physically, did not have the intention of trying to come between us, and did not seem prone to becoming infatuated with her.
On the other hand, watching my girlfriend/wife with another man is one of my biggest turn-on's, and I know that the simple sexual nature of the situation would, on a baser, raw, primal level, make me horny as hell! On several occasions in the past, in order to ease some of our more inexperienced, shy, or nervous male playmates into letting me watch or into fucking her with me, we agreed that she could fuck the guy alone the first time, but I always knew who, where and when in the interest of her safety.
If it were a stranger, I think that it would be less of an issue for me, as that would be easier for me to believe that it was just someone that she met that she thought would be a fun fuck or that she wanted to surprise me with. After all, she would have to know that I was due home, and if she really wanted to hide it, why bring him home?
If it were someone we knew, it would complicate things. If it were someone who knew that we were swingers, why did they not have enough respect for me and for our relationship to clear it with me first? If it were someone who was not aware of our extra curricular, bedroom practices, it would show that they had no regard for our friendship or for my feelings. If they did, then why would they be trying to fuck her in the first place? Also, whether they knew we were swingers or not, I would also have to wonder why she would put me in the position of dealing with the betrayal of someone i thought i could trust and would cause me to question her loyalty and commitment.
The truth of the matter is this: If it were a stranger, I would, most likely, be shocked initially, but would also be turned on if he was any good at what he was doing and, after making sure they knew I was there, would watch if they carried on and wait for an opportunity to join in the fun. Afterward, we would all have to sit down and discuss the ground rules for any further activity. If he had any problems with any of the conditions, he could leave and not come back. If he wanted to try to argue the point with me, I would have to crack his head open like a ripe melon and boot fuck his face until he saw things my way.
If it were a friend/acquaintance, I'd probably still fuck her with him, because if I did find that it was more than just a passionate mistake and was, in fact, a betrayal of friendship/trust on both their parts, then it would probably be the last opportunity for that kind of adventure for a while as it would result in the end of my relationship w/ my girl by revealing her obvious lack of commitment to our relationship and absence of love for me. As for the friend/acquaintance, see the above paragraph beginning with everything following, "If he wanted to try to argue the point with me..."
On the other hand, watching my girlfriend/wife with another man is one of my biggest turn-on's, and I know that the simple sexual nature of the situation would, on a baser, raw, primal level, make me horny as hell! On several occasions in the past, in order to ease some of our more inexperienced, shy, or nervous male playmates into letting me watch or into fucking her with me, we agreed that she could fuck the guy alone the first time, but I always knew who, where and when in the interest of her safety.
If it were a stranger, I think that it would be less of an issue for me, as that would be easier for me to believe that it was just someone that she met that she thought would be a fun fuck or that she wanted to surprise me with. After all, she would have to know that I was due home, and if she really wanted to hide it, why bring him home?
If it were someone we knew, it would complicate things. If it were someone who knew that we were swingers, why did they not have enough respect for me and for our relationship to clear it with me first? If it were someone who was not aware of our extra curricular, bedroom practices, it would show that they had no regard for our friendship or for my feelings. If they did, then why would they be trying to fuck her in the first place? Also, whether they knew we were swingers or not, I would also have to wonder why she would put me in the position of dealing with the betrayal of someone i thought i could trust and would cause me to question her loyalty and commitment.
The truth of the matter is this: If it were a stranger, I would, most likely, be shocked initially, but would also be turned on if he was any good at what he was doing and, after making sure they knew I was there, would watch if they carried on and wait for an opportunity to join in the fun. Afterward, we would all have to sit down and discuss the ground rules for any further activity. If he had any problems with any of the conditions, he could leave and not come back. If he wanted to try to argue the point with me, I would have to crack his head open like a ripe melon and boot fuck his face until he saw things my way.
If it were a friend/acquaintance, I'd probably still fuck her with him, because if I did find that it was more than just a passionate mistake and was, in fact, a betrayal of friendship/trust on both their parts, then it would probably be the last opportunity for that kind of adventure for a while as it would result in the end of my relationship w/ my girl by revealing her obvious lack of commitment to our relationship and absence of love for me. As for the friend/acquaintance, see the above paragraph beginning with everything following, "If he wanted to try to argue the point with me..."
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Context: you have already talked with your wife\girlfriend about her fucking another men while you watched. Though it never happened.
Situation: you arrive home from work and she is being fucked hard in the couch by some guy without any previous agreement.
1) Guys: how would you feel, what would you do.
2) Girls: what would your reaction be when he sees you, what would you say or do?
Kisses and Hugs
Since I had already put the bug in her ear, one of two things.
I'd either get a drink and settle in to watch, more likely I would strip join in and help spit roast her.
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Ok so recently this has become a big fantasy of me and BigDaddy....not so much as him catching me or me catching him, but to be alone with someone else, then come home and tell the other person ALL about it.
Now with that being said....as much as I would like for it to be with out my knowledge....the jealous bitch in me would have a freakin fit and go whack some chic if I didn't know about it before hand =)
and as much as I would do it for him....I think he should know who I'm going with for safety sake....there really are some crazies in this world!
Now with that being said....as much as I would like for it to be with out my knowledge....the jealous bitch in me would have a freakin fit and go whack some chic if I didn't know about it before hand =)
and as much as I would do it for him....I think he should know who I'm going with for safety sake....there really are some crazies in this world!
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Ok so recently this has become a big fantasy of me and BigDaddy....not so much as him catching me or me catching him, but to be alone with someone else, then come home and tell the other person ALL about it.
Now with that being said....as much as I would like for it to be with out my knowledge....the jealous bitch in me would have a freakin fit and go whack some chic if I didn't know about it before hand =)
and as much as I would do it for him....I think he should know who I'm going with for safety sake....there really are some crazies in this world!
Lol, your just plain bad lol
I recently kissed a friend of mine in the mouth in front of him and it was a lot of fun lol As long as we know what we feel and the limits we both have I know we are safe
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I would be upset that I didn't have front row seats from the beginning to end
The only bad part would be the lack of "foreplay" before it happened. The events leading up to it: making love to her at night while she talked about how badly she wanted him to fuck her....watching them undress each other and make love....then watching her take him by the hand and lead him to the bedroom and shut the door for a private night of continued fucking...culminating in both of them taking a shower in the bathroom together and fucking one last time before she was all mine the next day
I wouldn't want to miss all that
The only bad part would be the lack of "foreplay" before it happened. The events leading up to it: making love to her at night while she talked about how badly she wanted him to fuck her....watching them undress each other and make love....then watching her take him by the hand and lead him to the bedroom and shut the door for a private night of continued fucking...culminating in both of them taking a shower in the bathroom together and fucking one last time before she was all mine the next day
I wouldn't want to miss all that
Hidden_Feelings
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Nice view... i like the way u think lol
Ha ha I can totally answer this, and on my honour it is totally true.
We had a female friend staying with us, she had busted up with her husband and was in a right state.
I came home early one day and he was lying naked on the couch and she was kneeling naked on the floor doing an awesome trick with a mouthful of ice (tried it myself, teeth two sensitive, nearly choked).
I was startled more than anything, they both froze and looked at me, then I heard myself say "Is this a private orgie or can anyone join in?"
Seems it was not private.
We had a female friend staying with us, she had busted up with her husband and was in a right state.
I came home early one day and he was lying naked on the couch and she was kneeling naked on the floor doing an awesome trick with a mouthful of ice (tried it myself, teeth two sensitive, nearly choked).
I was startled more than anything, they both froze and looked at me, then I heard myself say "Is this a private orgie or can anyone join in?"
Seems it was not private.
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I'd just say ,"hi baby, come over and join us" holding out a free hand and pouting a kiss....
My Immortal
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SO sexy to watch the girl you love act on her desires! Me, I am a one-woman man but the flip side is I would find it just as erotic watching my wife/girlfriend make love to another guy (or guys) as it would be to make love to her myself.
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My Immortal
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I totally agree here. Perfect scenario is to walk in while my wife is in the midst of a passionate open-mouthed french kiss while her sweet pussy is being fucked hard. Cock-sucking never really did much for my fantasy as she wouldn't be totally giving herself to the other man like she would be if she was inviting him into her body. Jeez Im hard as hell just thinking about this
I've read through the responses and find it interesting the scope of openness/acceptance to jealousy/"outrun a 9mm slug"(great quote!).
I think my first reaction would be more "what the hell is going on?" because my wife is now not the type to go out and do that kind of thing (Catholic upbringing by a former nun who was defiled by one of the greater dirty old men I know).
However, if she found herself needing to do that, it would most likely be someone from work. I'd have to let the shock wear off and the jealousy simmer down, because like many here, if she's going down that road, hell, I'm jumping on that bike and enjoying the ride! And somewhere inside her, I think she'd really enjoy it. When we were younger, she was open to just about anything.
I can say that if it was a reverse situation, me with another woman, that would be the end of that. My wife wouldn't be so understanding. Too bad.
I think my first reaction would be more "what the hell is going on?" because my wife is now not the type to go out and do that kind of thing (Catholic upbringing by a former nun who was defiled by one of the greater dirty old men I know).
However, if she found herself needing to do that, it would most likely be someone from work. I'd have to let the shock wear off and the jealousy simmer down, because like many here, if she's going down that road, hell, I'm jumping on that bike and enjoying the ride! And somewhere inside her, I think she'd really enjoy it. When we were younger, she was open to just about anything.
I can say that if it was a reverse situation, me with another woman, that would be the end of that. My wife wouldn't be so understanding. Too bad.
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