How would you seduce a bi curious guy?

[malecasual]

Honestly, I think I would just dress up in something sexy and very feminine, drop to my knees, and tell him desperately I wanted his throbbing cock in my throat.

Too direct?

That's a damned compelling argument. You'd win my vote (and my unzipped pants)!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Seduction

That's a damned compelling argument. You'd win my vote (and my unzipped pants)!

I'd have a hard time sYing no, I think.

 

[Stacy_TG]

I have no doubt you on your knees begging for my cock would do the job!

That's a damned compelling argument. You'd win my vote (and my unzipped pants)!

I'd have a hard time sYing no, I think.

Then where the hell are you guys in my real life?!?

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Then where the hell are you guys in my real life?!?

Waiting for you love! though seemingly in the wrong place, given the size of this big round ball. Though sure wish you were sucking on my balls!

 

[SexyLitForAll]

Honestly, I think I would just dress up in something sexy and very feminine, drop to my knees, and tell him desperately I wanted his throbbing cock in my throat.

Too direct?

No, not too direct. Hell I got hard just visualizing this, sweetie.

 

[SexyLitForAll]

My first experimental experience was at a teen. Whenever I knew my friend was coming over, I would conveniently be laying in my room taking a nap or getting ready to shower. Any chance I could get to let him see me naked. I would walk around my room innocently showing myself off. Of course, I would be somewhat hard. He told me later how hot it was. I could also see the lump n his pant. I still get turned on by the memories

Your approach worked with me, but I was the one watching my boy confidently strut about, nude.

 

[yukonnights]

Honestly, I think I would just dress up in something sexy and very feminine, drop to my knees, and tell him desperately I wanted his throbbing cock in my throat.

Too direct?

That's not seduction...it's irresistible temptation

 

[yukonnights]

My first sex with a man involved a very nice form of seduction. The guy kept telling me, "I am not going to ask you to do anything you don't want to do," but inwardly he knew that I loved sex as much as any man, and that I would like getting sucked to completion by him. So, he took his time, kept repeating that mantra, turned his offer of a massage into naked fun, and ended up with me furiously fucking his mouth.

I was 20 or 21 years old at the time.

That's a good description of how seduction should always be done...tender, gentle, and encouraging ~ (May I ask: How did he know you were ready for m/m sex? Had you known him for awhile and discussed it, or?)

 

[coati]

That's a good description of how seduction should always be done...tender, gentle, and encouraging ~ (May I ask: How did he know you were ready for m/m sex? Had you known him for awhile and discussed it, or?)

No, I had not known him at all. He was a clergyman in a small California town I was hitchhiking through. He stopped to warn me that hitchhiking was illegal within the town limits, and offered to take me just outside of town. He lived at the edge of town, and then offered to have me stay at his place for the night, since it was getting late.

As I helped him do his farm chores, he noticed I was limping from a hip injury. He offered to give me a massage. And thus the seduction was in play.

As to how he knew I was ready for m/m sex, I thought later that he just knew I was ready for any sort of sex after being on the road for a long time. I was a typical homophobic young man at the time, so I was very conflicted at first. I remember the debate going on in my mind. But he just kept getting me more relaxed with the situation, and I remember that turning point at the end of my internal debate where I just thought, "This feels really good. Just go for it."

What he didn't know is that I had never had sex with anyone before, only masturbation on my own. I was an awkward virgin, but man, did I ever get off with him! I never saw this guy again after leaving his place the next day.
He appeared to be bi, because he made several remarks about his desire for a woman who lived nearby.

Within two weeks, I also started having sex with a woman who lived in the same building as me. It was excellent, also. So, I never went through a bi-curious stage really. I just started out bi, even though I never planned it that way. It was not very "cool" to be bi back in those days, but I never regretted it and still don't.

 

[Astroman72]

As a bi-curious guy who would like to be seduced, but is very guarded in his sexuality, what would work on me would probably be a low-pressure scenario.

Assuming the guy is an acquaintance you see fairly regularly (as opposed to picking up someone in a bar), if you made some subtle allusions to liking or at least being curious about gay sex yourself, and then you asked me if I ever thought about it...that would probably get the ball rolling. Then, if you gave me some open-ended offer, like "well, if you ever want to try anything sometime, I could probably help you out." That would work better for me rather than putting the pressure on me to make a decision on sex right at the moment.

In that scenario, if I did have sexual desires for the guy, I still might not agree to anything that night-- but after I had time to assess the situation I'd probably be calling him back and sucking his cock (or letting him suck mine) in the very near future.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I too value the seduction scenario - though certainly wouldn't reject Stacy_TG's more direct approach! Part of my problem is, I don't actually have any male friends that I hang out with and being married makes it a bit of a challenge hanging out in spaces where I might meet someone.

I am kind of turned on by a random encounter though - by someone I don't know seducing me. Sitting in a cafe we start chatting, he lightly touches my knew, drops ideas about how he makes better espressos in his nearby condo with an Italian machine, excites my mind with the kind of engaging conversation we are having that I accept his invitation to try his espresso...

 

[yukonnights]

No, I had not known him at all. He was a clergyman in a small California town I was hitchhiking through. He stopped to warn me that hitchhiking was illegal within the town limits, and offered to take me just outside of town. He lived at the edge of town, and then offered to have me stay at his place for the night, since it was getting late.

As I helped him do his farm chores, he noticed I was limping from a hip injury. He offered to give me a massage. And thus the seduction was in play.

As to how he knew I was ready for m/m sex, I thought later that he just knew I was ready for any sort of sex after being on the road for a long time. I was a typical homophobic young man at the time, so I was very conflicted at first. I remember the debate going on in my mind. But he just kept getting me more relaxed with the situation, and I remember that turning point at the end of my internal debate where I just thought, "This feels really good. Just go for it."

What he didn't know is that I had never had sex with anyone before, only masturbation on my own. I was an awkward virgin, but man, did I ever get off with him! I never saw this guy again after leaving his place the next day.
He appeared to be bi, because he made several remarks about his desire for a woman who lived nearby.

Within two weeks, I also started having sex with a woman who lived in the same building as me. It was excellent, also. So, I never went through a bi-curious stage really. I just started out bi, even though I never planned it that way. It was not very "cool" to be bi back in those days, but I never regretted it and still don't.

I regret that I missed out on some oblique offers in my youth...now I can see what these older guys were hinting at more clearly

As a bi-curious guy who would like to be seduced, but is very guarded in his sexuality, what would work on me would probably be a low-pressure scenario.

Assuming the guy is an acquaintance you see fairly regularly (as opposed to picking up someone in a bar), if you made some subtle allusions to liking or at least being curious about gay sex yourself, and then you asked me if I ever thought about it...that would probably get the ball rolling. Then, if you gave me some open-ended offer, like "well, if you ever want to try anything sometime, I could probably help you out." That would work better for me rather than putting the pressure on me to make a decision on sex right at the moment.

In that scenario, if I did have sexual desires for the guy, I still might not agree to anything that night-- but after I had time to assess the situation I'd probably be calling him back and sucking his cock (or letting him suck mine) in the very near future.

I like this approach. Gentle and careful and willing to pass if the guy isn't ready~

I too value the seduction scenario - though certainly wouldn't reject Stacy_TG's more direct approach! Part of my problem is, I don't actually have any male friends that I hang out with and being married makes it a bit of a challenge hanging out in spaces where I might meet someone.

I am kind of turned on by a random encounter though - by someone I don't know seducing me. Sitting in a cafe we start chatting, he lightly touches my knew, drops ideas about how he makes better espressos in his nearby condo with an Italian machine, excites my mind with the kind of engaging conversation we are having that I accept his invitation to try his espresso...

Three totally different pathways. No wonder it's so hard to seduce someone

 

[load69]

I am so curious to. I wish someone could try to seduce me. They would have no trouble. I have even tried exhibition in public showers, and only got lots of looks.

I am with you...would love to be seduced and need to find the right environment for it to happen.

 

[partsecond]

If he's "curious", why would he need to be seduced?

I think a straightforward proposition of, "Do you want to have sex?" would suffice.

because seduction is fun.

Is this in the office? If so, just a second or two extra of eye contact can start it. Then a meeting about a shared project.
then, Lets talk about this tonight.....

Then suck him.

 

[Davor2]

I am with you...would love to be seduced and need to find the right environment for it to happen.

Yeah, if I realised it was happening (I can be a bit slow on the uptake!) I'd absolutely indicate my interest...

 

[Mqoi]

No, I had not known him at all. He was a clergyman in a small California town I was hitchhiking through. He stopped to warn me that hitchhiking was illegal within the town limits, and offered to take me just outside of town. He lived at the edge of town, and then offered to have me stay at his place for the night, since it was getting late.

As I helped him do his farm chores, he noticed I was limping from a hip injury. He offered to give me a massage. And thus the seduction was in play.

As to how he knew I was ready for m/m sex, I thought later that he just knew I was ready for any sort of sex after being on the road for a long time. I was a typical homophobic young man at the time, so I was very conflicted at first. I remember the debate going on in my mind. But he just kept getting me more relaxed with the situation, and I remember that turning point at the end of my internal debate where I just thought, "This feels really good. Just go for it."

What he didn't know is that I had never had sex with anyone before, only masturbation on my own. I was an awkward virgin, but man, did I ever get off with him! I never saw this guy again after leaving his place the next day.
He appeared to be bi, because he made several remarks about his desire for a woman who lived nearby.

Within two weeks, I also started having sex with a woman who lived in the same building as me. It was excellent, also. So, I never went through a bi-curious stage really. I just started out bi, even though I never planned it that way. It was not very "cool" to be bi back in those days, but I never regretted it and still don't.

I was hitchhiking while freezing once in the middle of an ice storm and got picked up by a guy that was on the road for a business trip. After 10 minutes or so, he said that his price for giving me a ride was a blowjob. I was good with that from start as I'd been suck cocks for a few years at that point, but didn't tell him that. I unfastened his paints, pulled his cock out, leaned over his lap and did my best to suck the chrome off his trailer hitch. I swallowed all of his cum and kept sucking for a bit in case I'd missed any.

While I was sucking him, he played with my cock. When I sat back up, he wiped a little cum off of my lips and and stuck it in his mouth. He made a comment about going to stop at a motel a couple of towns ahead and I should be able to get ride from there. I asked him if he'd be interesting in another blowjob and that if he'd want to share a room, I'd be his for the night. He grinned and we ended up spending a night of cock sucking together. I'm still not sure who seduced who in that one. But it ended up being a night I'll never forget.

 

[suckonsimon]

I've not read earlier contributions but here's my suggestion about the original question:

Get him to talk about his experience of receiving oral from women. If it was me you got to talk, I'd soon be telling you how I adore how much a woman loves to suck my cock, how much pleasure she seems to get as well as give me ... and eventually I'll be admitting that just sometimes I have envied her pleasure sucking and that's got me wondering ...

That's my two cents' worth.

 

[bikurinpa]

Of course, I still wonder - how do you know if another guy is bi or not???

That is the biggest problem is finding out a guy, he may have same thoughts about you, but same, he dont know how to figure out you!

 

[stargame]

Show him my panties

 

[yukonnights]

I was hitchhiking while freezing once in the middle of an ice storm and got picked up by a guy that was on the road for a business trip. After 10 minutes or so, he said that his price for giving me a ride was a blowjob. I was good with that from start as I'd been suck cocks for a few years at that point, but didn't tell him that. I unfastened his paints, pulled his cock out, leaned over his lap and did my best to suck the chrome off his trailer hitch. I swallowed all of his cum and kept sucking for a bit in case I'd missed any.

While I was sucking him, he played with my cock. When I sat back up, he wiped a little cum off of my lips and and stuck it in his mouth. He made a comment about going to stop at a motel a couple of towns ahead and I should be able to get ride from there. I asked him if he'd be interesting in another blowjob and that if he'd want to share a room, I'd be his for the night. He grinned and we ended up spending a night of cock sucking together. I'm still not sure who seduced who in that one. But it ended up being a night I'll never forget.

I read this with interest...it's coincidental, but I've had a new story idea about this very situation. My "driver" is more of a "hero" though and rescues the poor frozen young man and they eventually fall in love....but. I'm a sap for love - haha! Anyway, at least now I know it's a very believable premise for a story

 

[yukonnights]

Show him my panties

No fair! Just like Stacy, this isn't seduction...it's irresistible temptation ! It's like a magic potion...a stupefying elixir... It's like...who can compete with only mere seduction

 

[Gods_Favorite]

If you had a chance to seduce a bi curious guy, and give him his first m/m sex, how would you go about it? Assume he knows you're bi, and you know he's curious... so the situation is ripe and ready. How do you make him comfortable enough to drop his pants and go with his desires?

Invite him over for a beer? ... a nude hot tub... go to the gym together and make sure he sees you naked? Offer him a massage? Invite him to an all male party?

I think I'd have him over for a beer and hot tub. I'd leave gay magazines out where he could see them. I'd get in the tub naked, and direct the conversation towards gay sex, somehow.

Or maybe I'd keep it simple, and let him know that I'd love to suck his cock, and nobody else would ever know.

I’d have him over for wine and offer him a thorough body massage. Once I feel the moment is right I would offer him a blowjob with no rectification.

 

[load69]

Yeah, if I realised it was happening (I can be a bit slow on the uptake!) I'd absolutely indicate my interest...

That might be my problem too. I might not realize that a guy was trying to check my interest level. I was out last night and one of the guys with me might be bi or curious. I was trying to throw little hints to see where it went but if he is bi, or curious, he didn't take the bait. His girlfriend was joining us so that definitely could have impacted the discussion.

 

[ass_bum]

I’d have him over for wine and offer him a thorough body massage. Once I feel the moment is right I would offer him a blowjob with no rectification.

With the wine and massage, I think I would love to get seduced and even I wanna try sucking you as you suck me.

 

[SexyLitForAll]

With the wine and massage, I think I would love to get seduced and even I wanna try sucking you as you suck me.

A GOOD massage will do it! Been there.