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[Jada59]

I'll step in as an uncut man and say, if the penis is fully erect, there's no real sign of a foreskin. The head fully emerges and the foreskin itself tightens back behind the frenulum and becames part of the shaft. At that point, an uncut cock looks much the same as a cut one, and in my case at least, without any odd bends or kinks that might be a consequence of the circumcision. The head is probably more sensitive than a cut cock, for the simple reason that a cut cock will have become desensitised over time, because the head is always exposed.

From what you're describing here,the guy wasn't fully erect. Which is a different problem entirely.

No, he was very erect. Best I can determine, the foreskin was tight and a bit short. All I could see was the tip of his head. I was able to pull it back to expose the head but I had to go slowly and it didn't want to stay pulled back.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

has anyone done bj post bareback anal like we see in some porn clips?

 

[Jada59]

has anyone done bj post bareback anal like we see in some porn clips?

You should start your own thread. Yes, I have but that was looong ago.

 

[ElectricBlue]

No, he was very erect. Best I can determine, the foreskin was tight and a bit short. All I could see was the tip of his head. I was able to pull it back to expose the head but I had to go slowly and it didn't want to stay pulled back.

That does sound like a very tight foreskin, then. Probably best to work with it as you find it - If it's not pulling back easily and staying back by now (as an adult), it's never going to.

Don't overthink it - but make sure he actually likes oral. Some men don't - and if it's all too difficult it's going to be a mood killer for both of you. Maybe ask him to masturbate (while you do too), and watch him, see what he does. That'll give you some clues.

 

[Jada59]

That does sound like a very tight foreskin, then. Probably best to work with it as you find it - If it's not pulling back easily and staying back by now (as an adult), it's never going to.

Don't overthink it - but make sure he actually likes oral. Some men don't - and if it's all too difficult it's going to be a mood killer for both of you. Maybe ask him to masturbate (while you do too), and watch him, see what he does. That'll give you some clues.

Thanks! I'll try the masturbation thing.

Giving head is among my favorite things but wouldn't you know, most of them men I've been with didn't really like it. OTOH, I usually dislike getting oral. So I guess we're even there.

 

[twister947]

has anyone done bj post bareback anal like we see in some porn clips?

I received it once. Disgusting.

 

[uncle easy]

The worst blowjob I ever received was wonderful. I feel sure since you said you loved giving head that you are good at it. Soooo,,,, I would say just relax and enjoy it. I feel that you should learn to enjoy recieving oral also. I have never had a woman that did not enjoy oral from me. I think that is because I love eating pussy!!! Hope things get better for you. I always enjoy reading your posts as you are so real.

 

[Jada59]

The worst blowjob I ever received was wonderful. I feel sure since you said you loved giving head that you are good at it. Soooo,,,, I would say just relax and enjoy it. I feel that you should learn to enjoy recieving oral also. I have never had a woman that did not enjoy oral from me. I think that is because I love eating pussy!!! Hope things get better for you. I always enjoy reading your posts as you are so real.

Thanks! I did love getting it from one guy. I think he did it right. The others all used the same technique which was to use two fingers to isolate my clit and then stab at it weakly with the tip of their tongue. Felt like I was being licked by a dog and was not the least bit stimulating to me. Just annoying.

 

[littlebirdjoy]

Rooting for you, Jada. I have an ex who had, i guess, a similar problem to what you are describing which leg him to "fixing" it very late in life. He was very glad he did. I'm glad you learned something. *nods*
I'm rooting for you.

fma, yes, I have and do. No, it is not disgusting at all, but it is a matter of personal preference. For me it is a form of intimacy, just takes a deeper level of connection. It has all to do with the headspace you are in.

~Angie

 

[Privates1stClass]

No, he was very erect. Best I can determine, the foreskin was tight and a bit short. All I could see was the tip of his head. I was able to pull it back to expose the head but I had to go slowly and it didn't want to stay pulled back.

The foreskin of an adult man should retract and stay behind the head. If it's too tight, it will cause pain. Been there, done that. However, the foreskin is skin, so it stretches, and over time, will retract without pain. It just takes awhile. Go slow and do some stretching exercises for him until it stays in place.

It should work like this: http://www.circumstitions.com/Works.html

 

[Jada59]

The foreskin of an adult man should retract and stay behind the head. If it's too tight, it will cause pain. Been there, done that. However, the foreskin is skin, so it stretches, and over time, will retract without pain. It just takes awhile. Go slow and do some stretching exercises for him until it stays in place.

It should work like this: http://www.circumstitions.com/Works.html

Thanks so much!

 

[PG564E]

Not that it was that bad as he did cum. It's just that I've never dealt with a foreskin before. I did study up on this just in case as he is from Mexico. And indeed he was intact. Someone (sorry, can't remember who) posted very good advice on this. I also read some informative websites and watched videos, but when it came right down to it, I couldn't seem to do what I saw and read about.

For one thing, he is on the short side, even when hard. I found I couldn't deep throat him at all. I could fully take him into my mouth but he had a bit of a belly so I wasn't able to get his balls in my mouth as well. Plus we were in a somewhat restrictive area. If he sat on the bed, he was up a little too high for me to reach while on my knees. I had him lie down but bending over for that long was doing a number on my back. The bed was very small. When he stood up, he was a little too low for me so that didn't work. I don't think I have a really big nose, but I found myself having difficulty with my nose itself. Yeah, laugh! It kept going where I didn't want it to. He also had a jacket on with kangaroo pockets and stuff in the pockets. Got much easier once he took that off.

Must bring him to my house where I have a much better assortment of furniture. Ha!

Here's another problem. His foreskin seemed rather tight and I was fearful of hurting him. At one point, he reached down there and did something but I was getting a drink of water so I didn't see exactly what he did. I think he pulled it further down the shaft.

It seemed to me that my mouth kept getting drier as I sucked him or that the wetness was going down under the foreskin. Could that be? Maybe good for him but I found myself having to stop to drink water. What I couldn't do though was work my tongue down under the foreskin as I had read about. it seemed all my tongue was doing was pushing the foreskin down lower. It seemed I was mostly concentrating on the head and the frenulum.

I didn't know what to do with my hands. I tried cupping his balls. They were rather small too and really I only needed one hand to stroke him and cup his balls at the same time. But that didn't seem to give him any pleasure.

The other issue was that he was silent. Totally silent. Now, I'm not. I get quite loud and I will say that he was distracting me quite nicely to the point where I flat out couldn't concentrate and feared I might accidentally bite him. Luckily I didn't.

My point is, I couldn't tell if what I was doing felt good to him or not. So much so that I think I stopped three times to ask if he wanted me to go on. There was total silence on his part and he barely moved. Now that might just be the way he is.

I thought I tasted pre-cum but it was swallowed up by the foreskin. I only knew he was coming because I could taste it. But not very much because he tried to keep from cumming in my mouth. He almost acted ashamed that he did. Must work on that.

He kept telling me to relax. I was relaxed, but I think I would have been more relaxed had we been in less confining surroundings and if that low ceiling wasn't shining a bright light down on both of us.

I think maybe he wasn't very relaxed. And he was very sleepy. Also he kept his eyes shut throughout and even for several minutes afterwards, just sitting there naked.

I did try licking him after he came. I will always try that twice. I didn't see a look of pain but he did say "No more".

So... What could I have done better or what can I do next time? I'm seeing him again next week and I want to make it good!

I share you love of cock, and the thrill of exciting a man's cock with your mouth. Reading your account, you certainly did nothing wrong, it was the lack of any type of cumunication, or groans of pleasure, that disturbed you and made the blow job less joyful for you. I've had similar experience even with cut cocks. Once, I blew a man for almost an hour before he fed his cream in my mouth. I did everything to make him explode, but his stamina was incredible. I loved his groaning and whimpers, and him calling me a good faggot, but he was not silent and unresponsive to my oral skills.

I hope your second blowjob is more rewarding for you. Sometimes putting even half a finger up his ass while you suck his dick might induce some response. I once blew this guy in a large glory hole room. I stood and sucked him (he stood on a raised platform, and me, his cock sucker, on the floor below) and really made horny love to his rigid dick. From him, nothing - just as you described. Finally, I gave up. I stayed in the room, and two more men sucked his dick with the exact same results. He never moved, moaned, anything.

This guy's bizarre behavior - so what. If you get a load in your mouth, the blow job was worth it, though it is so much better when the man your blowing is obviously enjoying this intimate gift from hungry cock suckers like us.

 

[Jada59]

I share you love of cock, and the thrill of exciting a man's cock with your mouth. Reading your account, you certainly did nothing wrong, it was the lack of any type of cumunication, or groans of pleasure, that disturbed you and made the blow job less joyful for you. I've had similar experience even with cut cocks. Once, I blew a man for almost an hour before he fed his cream in my mouth. I did everything to make him explode, but his stamina was incredible. I loved his groaning and whimpers, and him calling me a good faggot, but he was not silent and unresponsive to my oral skills.

I hope your second blowjob is more rewarding for you. Sometimes putting even half a finger up his ass while you suck his dick might induce some response. I once blew this guy in a large glory hole room. I stood and sucked him (he stood on a raised platform, and me, his cock sucker, on the floor below) and really made horny love to his rigid dick. From him, nothing - just as you described. Finally, I gave up. I stayed in the room, and two more men sucked his dick with the exact same results. He never moved, moaned, anything.

This guy's bizarre behavior - so what. If you get a load in your mouth, the blow job was worth it, though it is so much better when the man your blowing is obviously enjoying this intimate gift from hungry cock suckers like us.

I'm always careful with the ass. It freaks most men out. But thanks!

 

[AnnieLit]

When he stood up, he was a little too low for me so that didn't work

He was too low for you on your knees, right? Then you can try to sit down on the floor, your legs between his. Maybe with a pillow under your ass. Or not, depending on the height where you want your head to be. You can have a bed or a couch befind your back for support too.

You mentioned getting dry mouth and that you think all the soliva and precum were going under the foreskin. I don't think it is possible... It is not like there is a very deep pocket, not much can really hide in there... I don't know how common this is, but I like to get cock thoroughly wet before I take it in my mouth. So licking and licking, all sides, up and down untill it is very very wet. If you can fit the whole thing in your mouth I guess you could wet it up this was as well.

What to do with the tight foreskin I don't know, I am familiar only with rather loose one, but asking him to show you how to deal with it looks like a way to go.

Oh, and about what to do with your hands. The most obvious thing would be to massage his anus or go deeper, if he likes it. (Well, wet your finger first, but you know that, right?)
If he is jumpy about that, you can go for an external prostate massage. Look it up as it is easier to figure out what is where with pictures.

 

[Jada59]

He was too low for you on your knees, right? Then you can try to sit down on the floor, your legs between his. Maybe with a pillow under your ass. Or not, depending on the height where you want your head to be. You can have a bed or a couch befind your back for support too.

You mentioned getting dry mouth and that you think all the soliva and precum were going under the foreskin. I don't think it is possible... It is not like there is a very deep pocket, not much can really hide in there... I don't know how common this is, but I like to get cock thoroughly wet before I take it in my mouth. So licking and licking, all sides, up and down untill it is very very wet. If you can fit the whole thing in your mouth I guess you could wet it up this was as well.

What to do with the tight foreskin I don't know, I am familiar only with rather loose one, but asking him to show you how to deal with it looks like a way to go.

Oh, and about what to do with your hands. The most obvious thing would be to massage his anus or go deeper, if he likes it. (Well, wet your finger first, but you know that, right?)
If he is jumpy about that, you can go for an external prostate massage. Look it up as it is easier to figure out what is where with pictures.

I have confirmed from a guy who has a tight foreskin that indeed things will be dry.

As for the anus, I don't go there unless he has touched me there first. And eve then, most of the guys I have been with would not allow me to touch them there. Actually I've only ever been with two guys who would allow me to do that. The rest were disgusted by it.

Thanks!

 

[martinfs]

Maybe he wass being polite by trying to not cum in your mouth, I always tell guys I want them to cum in my mouth.