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How does her stories about her ex make you feel?My wife didnāt have a diary but had plenty of visual evidence of her former lover. He was the āoneā I might add. She didnāt manage to land that fish and had to settle for me instead!
It was a collection of her time at Grad School with him and her assortment of kooky friends all at parties with wine bottles and in various states of undress. An unusual number of cross-dressers if I remember. A few other clippings and things heād given her. Iād ask questions and sheād be pretty coy about it all. Their breakup was only a few months removed from when we met.
I havenāt seen them in years although I know itās around in her special drawer. She has been more open about their relationship over the years. He always seems to be the Ex referred to in stories about her many Exās
How sexy is that! Love it!
Way back then a little jealous no doubt. I could tell she was really into this dude. You just know. They had the same goals in life, both were in an elite grad school in the north east, same politics, just a tailor made match. If I had to put a label on it, he was her ābad boyā type. Rode a motorcycle, had been in the Peace Corp, so had traveled extensively, and oh, did I mention he had a huge cock? Like 9ā!
. Everything a girl wants right?!. He would also squat to pee? Revoke that dudes man card! Since he didnāt go down on her, I fucking blew her mind with that! He was also kind of doochy in other ways, especially the way he treated her.
Itās great that both of you can talk openly about your previous partners in a respectful way and who knows, maybe even use it as a sexual prequel lubricant!Way back then a little jealous no doubt. I could tell she was really into this dude. You just know. They had the same goals in life, both were in an elite grad school in the north east, same politics, just a tailor made match. If I had to put a label on it, he was her ābad boyā type. Rode a motorcycle, had been in the Peace Corp, so had traveled extensively, and oh, did I mention he had a huge cock? Like 9ā!
As I learned more about him I found out he had some weird (to me) habits and the pangs of jealousy faded. For instance he had aversion to oral sex. Giving and receiving! Ok, Iāve heard of dudes that didnāt like to go down on girls but what self respecting man doesnāt like a blow job?!
Ultimately I had to put my big boy pants on and just accept the fact that she was honest about their relationship and he had a part of her heart (probably always will) but now I occupied the other areas and it was all a part and parcel of a new and exciting relationship with this beautiful woman whom I eventually married. Now we talk about our past with no jealousy on either part and even joke about how our Mr&Mrs āRightsā slipped through our fingers.
I donāt think either of us would change a thing!
Thanks! Iāve used that technique to good effect!Itās great that both of you can talk openly about your previous partners in a respectful way and who knows, maybe even use it as a sexual prequel lubricant!
Good for you, enjoy the good times!
Would you mind sharing some details of her past? Of course, if she is ok with it.
This is my first wife I am talking about. Can you be specific about what you would like to know ...
