Husbands denial

[Carolinaguy45]

I agree with the hiding it, worse case you can just grab it but I wouldn't be able to not go get it in the heat of our sessions. With the candle at any point I know if one of us give in to our own desires its still two hours out if we light all the candles!

After this many years of marriage while he is locked, it's like our first month together. It's almost for him he has endless energy to please me. Last night again after I came he stayed up for who knows how long as I fell sleep with him running his hands over my lower back/ butt.

He mentioned how he's waking up around three times a night just from the pressure and tightness of the cage which I don't notice but I know I wake up to his arms wrapped around me and I feel safe and secure again in our relationship. I wonder how long he can go before he begs to be released or if he even would knowing my needs are being overly met.

This so unbelievably hot and erotic!! Omg I can’t breathe how strong I’m responding to this!! I love it and may have to ask my wife is she’d be up for it. Hot af!

 

[95sunsets]

Thank you for that! I haven't thought about writing a story as so far I'm just sort of blogging about it, possibly after I could consider it. Each time he is locked up could really just become a chapter in a series...

 

[Wordlover59]

Thank you for that! I haven't thought about writing a story as so far I'm just sort of blogging about it, possibly after I could consider it. Each time he is locked up could really just become a chapter in a series...

Make him light the candle….. imagine his disappointment when he finds out he lit the wrong one and has to delay his release once again

 

[Wordlover59]

Thank you for that! I haven't thought about writing a story as so far I'm just sort of blogging about it, possibly after I could consider it. Each time he is locked up could really just become a chapter in a series...

Or ….. send him a video while he is at work showing you lighting all three candles and them blowing them out

 

[LtxGdss]

You write well. Have you thought about turning this experience into a story and posting it? It would be perfect in the Romance section of Literotica

I agree, I think you could develop this very well. Dare I say include a little wax play

 

[Amazonian_Mistriss]

Finally gathered the courage to make a post about my husband and I playing with a chastity cage. We have done several days at a time and each time I get more into the idea of him being caged!

It's only day one of this time locking him and I have been soo wet all day waiting for him to get home! The amount of attention emotionally as well as sexually when he is locked up is like a dream. We have three of the exact same candles and lit them and let them melt for over 3 hours before dropping in the keys to his cage this morning. The second he said he dropped them in I started thinking of tonight!

I will pick one at random and only light one each day. They are all black so you cant see the key in it. Once he comes to bed to feel my dripping pussy I'll let him go down on me to taste my wetness from today before checking if the candle has melted enough yet to expose the key or determine if I picked the wrong one. If the key isn't exposed yet I'll have him use a toy and I will have an amazing orgasm from the whole day of thoughts.
While I feel so bad the anticipation of checking for the key is so erotic and just builds up to a possible release for him or a complete tease! I love the feeling of all the attention and getting an orgasm while I can see his cock dripping out of the cage.

Now I'm wondering as I write if I pick the wrong candle tonight should I mix all three up again or each day leave it out to increase his odds of release.

That's an interesting idea; I may try that. I usually wear them around my neck and taunt them, but I like your method better. I don't allow my submissives to masturbate, though; I like them to build up tension. I use a rewards point system; if they perform tasks, they earn points that they can use for me to unlock their cage. For example, they earn 25 points for toe sucking (to suck my toes I mean). It takes 500 points for them to earn the key and they can choose what to do. I may mix it up and try this out.

 

[95sunsets]

I told him he is in charge of picking the candle tonight and checking on it just so he builds up more and more to see if it reveals itself or not. I like that idea if it's not in there, he'll get his anticipation crushed on his way back to the bed to please me for the night.

I'll have to look into wax play and possibly toe sucking. Never done either!

I can't imagine how he's feeling, I'm only writing about it as well as getting multiple releases and I'm checking the clock wondering is it time for bed yet...

 

[Kevinjkson]

Fabulous "blogging"! Thank you for sharing your journey.

Let me start out by saying that male chastity in specific and male training in general, is not my "area of expertise" as it were. So take the following with a grain of salt.

It seems to me that you are over the first "hurdle" of establishing a power dynamic between the two of you. He has accepted the cage and your control over the key. You are both turned on by it. You have introduced the element of chance in the unlocking process, and it has gone well. So now what?

If this was me and a female submissive, the next step in her training would be to leverage the cage, the chastity; to slowly increase the power dynamic between us. In your case, for you to slowly become even more Dominant, and for him to become even more submissive to you. For you to take more "advantage" of his desire for release.

What does that mean? Well, it depends on what turns you on of course.

It might mean more actively orgasm torturing him - e.g. unlocking and teasing him and then locking him back up without release. Unlocking him, making him hard, ruining his orgasm and the locking him back up. Unlocking him, milking him without sexual release, and then locking him back up. And so on.

It might mean driving the psychological elements of Domination. In my case, I want my submissive begging. Literally. If that would turn you on, then use his desire to be unlocked or allowed to cum to move him towards being more psychologically submissive to you. Make him crawl to you. Tie him lying down and ride his face in a way where you are completely in control.

It might mean physical punishment, or impact play, if that turns you on. You might require him to take a certain number of spanks or lashes before he is unlocked, or allowed to touch you, or allowed to service you, or allowed to cum.

All of this depends on the direction that you want to go - on what turns you (and him) on. You have already learned the most important lesson - that experimentation leads to joy and pleasure - the only question now is what direction to you want your experimentation to go in?