I get aroused listening to my roommate and her boyfriend having sex. Am I weird?

[lil_jenni]

Very hot. Did the couple notice you were masturbating while they went at it, or not?

If they did, she never told me, the same as I never told her I heard them.

 

[neon_noodle]

If they did, she never told me, the same as I never told her I heard them.

Cool. Hope you came hard.

It's always a nice bonus when you're by yourself in a hotel, jacking off, and then you hear a couple in the next room fucking away.

 

[LostHorizon]

Our rooms are upstairs and late at night when my friend has her boyfriend over, I can hear them having sex, especially my friend's moaning.

They are not overly loud and I don't think they know I can hear them. However, my question is… is it normal that I get aroused while listening to them?

I get turned on and then I feel weird and almost like a creeper. That's my best friend and her boyfriend, I shouldn't be getting aroused at the fact they are having sex.

There is nothing wrong at all listening in and getting aroused. That happened all the time with my roommates in college among other places

 

[Gambit33]

My last two years of college, I shared a three bedroom house with three other girls. The master bedroom had a king bed and its own bathroom, so it was the designated room for us to bring someone home (I didn't use it because junior year I just had my fun elsewhere and most of senior year I had a BF (now my Hubby) who had an apartment to himself). We would rotate where we slept depending on if the main room was being used for fucking. One of the other rooms had a queen bed, and it was also used for fucking, but not as much. The third bedroom had a bunk bed with a twin mattress on top and a full size beneath.

As you can imagine, I heard other people fucking a lot. And yes, it almost always turned me on. The time it dod the most was when both bedrooms with the bigger beds were in use so one of my roommates decided to use the bunk below the one I was sleeping in. They tried to be quite, but of course they woke me up. I fantasized about joining them and got myself off as they fucked. If I'd been drinking that night (and not still in denial about being bi), I probably would have joined them despite the fact I thought the guy was a real fucking asshat.

When I was in college, my fiance at the time(now my wife) would have sex in her dorm room, except it was only one room with one other bed. We thought we were being sneaky, and I always imagined her roommate hearing us, getting turned on, and then joining us. But, that is not how she felt. It turns out she did hear us, did not enjoy hearing us, and asked my fiance to stop having me over at night.

 

[neon_noodle]

When I was in college, my fiance at the time(now my wife) would have sex in her dorm room, except it was only one room with one other bed. We thought we were being sneaky, and I always imagined her roommate hearing us, getting turned on, and then joining us. But, that is not how she felt. It turns out she did hear us, did not enjoy hearing us, and asked my fiance to stop having me over at night.

Ahh the fantasy is always better than the reality!

Fantasy - she wanted my cock too!

Reality - she wanted me to shut up

Hope it turned you on while fucking your wife and made you cum hard.

 

[Gambit33]

Ahh the fantasy is always better than the reality!

Fantasy - she wanted my cock too!

Reality - she wanted me to shut up

Hope it turned you on while fucking your wife and made you cum hard.

Oh it's so true isn't it...

But it was definitely an added bonus, I came pretty hard those nights.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Woohoo! Confirmation bias rules!

Also sex sounds are hot.

 

[Jordanjack]

No, you're not weird. It's incredibly erotic to hear people have sex.

 

[Bottomlover]

Getting turned on by what you hear and pleasuring yourself if you want in your own space is entirely within bounds. Anything beyond that requires a specific invitation. They might know that you hear, but sometimes lust defeats caring about that. Knowing someone can hear may also turn them on more.

Either way, if you hear them and are turned on, deal with it privately and leave them be. Remember, the day may come where you're the one having insanely great unhibited sex while a room mate isn't.

If they bring it up in conversation, only you can evaluate the way it's presented.