I got my first cane.

[SierraWolf]

I would like to add my insight on the use of canes. First when using the cane providing that you have a willing partner or sub. Start off slowly either on thier bottom or thighs. Initially it will give a slight stingy feel and watch how they respond to its feel. Then increase the intensity of the strokes, again watching the reactions. If you start too fast you might scared the HELL out of them and you may not get to use it again, so work it in. The cane can be a wonderful toy or and ugly tool.

 

[cymbidia]

Ahem. Wolf, there, he knows about canes and how to use them - and i've got the just-healed welts to prove it.

 

[lilredwolph]

Wolf,

I would be very interested in your opinions about canes (matieral, length, weight, what's a good/bad cane ect...), my Dom has no knowledge in this area. He never bothered to find any because I was always "NO,NO,NO", so there was really no point. But my interest has been peaked lately, so anything you can tell me would be helpful.

Thank You, lilred

Topic #2

I buy/make all toys/items used on me because I have to live with and get to know each and everyone of them before they can be used on me. I have to be comfortable with something before I can accept it's effects. Does anybody else do this?

lilred

 

[LittleMissMafia]

Cym, I always feel comforted by your words of caution, it feels like there is a guardian angel watching over us.
The man who will cane me is locally renowned for his skill,and has been highly recommended to me by Mr. Blandings and others who know him personally.

I wish so much my partner would try this on me.
I want him so much to be the man in our relationship and dominate me in my sex life........*sighs:caning:
;(