I love being told what to do...does anyone like to be told or to tell?

[JessAdventure]

I have a question. I'm new to the BDSM world..or well not sure if what I like fits in. But I do like being told what to do and being not allowed to touch myself. I'm not if I'd like physical pain. So, does this count as BDSM?

But more connection to the thread - being told what to do gets me very wet. Being told by a man is great, being told by a woman is even better.

 

[MarknJill]

In fact I do, and great timing. I just texted my wife from work and gave her 4 specific steps/orders tonight. One of which of course involved cumming. She loves this.

-mark

 

[sereneone4u]

Depends on the context, but yes...

 

[MarknJill]

In fact I do, and great timing. I just texted my wife from work and gave her 4 specific steps/orders tonight. One of which of course involved cumming. She loves this.

-mark

Ok here u go Mark ...your wish is my command...or is it your command is my command? I was told to take a pic of my ass and post it...so here it is

 

[DanielaRo]

I love beeing forced.to do something.

 

[maliciousmagg0t]

well i am a young guy. im new to the forums but have been reading for a while now. off and on for a couple years. i live in kind of a conservative part of florida and i'd actually like to find a woman who could dominate me. i guess im just tired of doing all the dominating. i feel a lot more comfortable pleasing a woman. i dont necessarily like humiliation but i do like pain and other than humiliation and scat im pretty much ok with whatever my misstress would want. it sucks i dont have anyone around here to help me with my... fetish... as people would call it because its something i've wanted for SO long. i cant even get someone to email or text or even talk about it. any of you experience this kind of probelm?

also. are there any articles you all would recommend to someone who wants to read a story about a guy being dominated by a woman?

 

[willinggirl]

love being told what to do. then hearing my favorite words "good girl"

 

[aim2plz412]

love being told what to do. then hearing my favorite words "good girl"

My girlfriend loves this as well. My favorite thing to do is to praise her while she watches herself in the mirror. You condition her by lightly lapping her clit as you do so. She cums in no time, each facet compounding the sensation

 

[Linith144]

I like dominating

I like to dominate, i like to feel like im in charge. It's the best when I'm role playing and dominating harshly.

 

[Eliphaz]

I hate being told what to do. Can't stand it. Very occasionally, with just the right person, this can lead somewhere very interesting. But usually it's irritating, and that's just a turn-off.

 

[Cinner]

I'm beginning to think that for me being controlled in any way is only a nice fantasy. In real life, and even in the relationships that I have formed here on Lit, I find that I do not do well with this at all. I'm more a live and let live kind of girl; leave me alone and I'll do the same for you.

 

[cock3523]

Tell me

I am a fan of both ways, although I much prefer to be the one telling her/him what to do.

I'lldo whatever you say

 

[Wimp4use]

I like to dominate, i like to feel like im in charge. It's the best when I'm role playing and dominating harshly.

My kind of woman.

 

[cock3523]

I'm beginning to think that for me being controlled in any way is only a nice fantasy. In real life, and even in the relationships that I have formed here on Lit, I find that I do not do well with this at all. I'm more a live and let live kind of girl; leave me alone and I'll do the same for you.

I want to fuck you now more than ever!

 

[Wimp4use]

I like to dominate, i like to feel like im in charge. It's the best when I'm role playing and dominating harshly.

Would love to chat with you sometime, if your willing.

 

[Heidi123]

love being told what to do. then hearing my favorite words "good girl"

Love this said by my special someone really puts me over the top at times...

 

[Blase]

I'm beginning to think that for me being controlled in any way is only a nice fantasy. In real life, and even in the relationships that I have formed here on Lit, I find that I do not do well with this at all. I'm more a live and let live kind of girl; leave me alone and I'll do the same for you.

You might find that you could enjoy it with someone of a similar temperament, cinner. Not everyone who enjoys being in control makes you feel like you're being looked down upon, or that there will be negative consequences if you don't accept or succeed in following their instructions.

I guess you don't hear those stories bandied about much, because for so many people here the thrill is in the consequences , but there are D/s relationships where the sub's journey is more like a directed voyage of discovery into aspects of themselves that they may have previously been out of touch with. Usually with a particular emphasis on their sexuality, of course.

 

[namaste7]

Adore being told what to do...

 

[aim2plz412]

Your avatar gives me an idea or two for certain.

 

[afinefellow]

My sub and I are more scenic. She is willing to do anything I tell her, but I don't tell her to do something just to test her submission. No sadist here, either, though that's not to say there's no pain... pain for pleasure, and often a bit more than expected to keep it erotic... It makes HER orgasms come HARD and repeated... that makes me fuck her HARD and repeatedly... that makes my orgasms better... I share her with others for the same reason...HER pleasure brings mine... it's better watching her being a slut whore than watching anon porn, I guarantee!

The d/s reaffirms our relationship, and strengthens the trust and care that we share. Outside of the sex, she and I are a couple of professionals... pretty much equals in intellect and emotion (though she's MUCH younger than I). When it changes to the d/s, it's powerful for us both...

 

[BBottom]

Love it!

Love being told what to do. Makes me very excited. And very submissive.
And yes, 'good boy' are wonderful and rewarding words for me.

 

[Mackenzie2323]

I love being told what to do, I especially like messaging and talking on the phone with someone as they tell me what to do to myself. It's a huge turn on for me.

 

[direct_my_hands]

I love being told exactly what to do.
I'm pretty new at... well everything really, school days weren't kind to me so I never got to 'go out and play'... which has left my mind to wander alot. I eventually started cam-slutting to get some kicks, but never found it as great as I thought. Until one night, I wasn't asked, or begged. I was told exactly what to do. Praised when I did what he wanted. Did the kind of things I always balked at. Told not to come, to stop, to pinch here, grab there, this many fingers, this fast.... One of my favourite experiences ever, which I try to repeat but never have been able to. Its what made me realise ' Hey, I think I actually might be into this BDSM stuff me and my friends joke about'....

Since then, I have read up, researched and watched and fell deeper into this world. My opening line now If I cam slut is something along the lines of ' Tonight I will be your slut, master. I await my first command'

 

[Edith_UK]

I love being told exactly what to do.
I'm pretty new at... well everything really, school days weren't kind to me so I never got to 'go out and play'... which has left my mind to wander alot. I eventually started cam-slutting to get some kicks, but never found it as great as I thought. Until one night, I wasn't asked, or begged. I was told exactly what to do. Praised when I did what he wanted. Did the kind of things I always balked at. Told not to come, to stop, to pinch here, grab there, this many fingers, this fast.... One of my favourite experiences ever, which I try to repeat but never have been able to. Its what made me realise ' Hey, I think I actually might be into this BDSM stuff me and my friends joke about'....

Since then, I have read up, researched and watched and fell deeper into this world. My opening line now If I cam slut is something along the lines of ' Tonight I will be your slut, master. I await my first command'

I REALLY fuckin hope you charge for this shit, cos otherwise your missing a trick.

 

[direct_my_hands]

I REALLY fuckin hope you charge for this shit, cos otherwise your missing a trick.

Haha , nawh, I did it for my own amusement.... although....