I want him bad

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I just met a guy at work 4 weeks ago. The first week he looked for me very often and the following 2 weeks he kept on sending me messages talking about subjects that are of interest to us. At the beginning I didn't really notice him and didn't pay attention to him except as a good friend. But the last week I started to realize how much I want to see him and how much I like him. I made the mistake of going out with him during the weekend (which I initiated) and I say mistake because I can't stop thinking about him now. I want him really bad, I would do anything to kiss him (and more) and just thinking about him drives me crazy. I sort of told him that I like him and he was also telling me about someone he was trying to forget... after I spoke to him on the weekend he has become a bit colder with me and I am afraid he doesn't like me anymore. What do I do? I don't think is correct for me to invite him out anymore, I don't want to scare him or something, but I am really craving to see him. It makes me very sad to think about him. The problem is that if I make a move and he doesn't want to correspond me, we will still have to work together and that'll be very tough for me. Help!!
 
You both are mature adults, right? Honesty is the best policy in my opinion. Tell him you enjoyed your date, and that you have been thinking of him often since then. Then, leave it at that. If he is interested, he will let you know. There is nothing wrong with letting him know you are interested. If you're shy, do it with a card, or email. He'll get the picture. Something along the lines of,

"I really enjoyed our evening together. My mind often wanders to thoughts of you."

And leave it at that. Believe it or not, men can be very shy...even the hot ones...;)
 
Make your advancements in a way that can be construed as sexually interested as well as friendship-only, that way neither one of you can become embarrassed (e.g. like Rory has suggested)
 
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