How to Initiate Sex

Tell us about him? Meet guys before that didnt know how to handle a woman. Talked to friend(back in the day) who would ask for advice. Almost sounds like your in a checkmate position. Both wanting but waiting for the other person to make the move. I know i love deep kissing... once that starts, you better unzip my pant and let me grow..
 
You may not know what all of your essentials are, but you do know when some that you are aware of aren't being met.
I know most of my essentials. But it is also nice to check in to with others to see if maybe they have insight into something I am missing.

Tell us about him? Meet guys before that didnt know how to handle a woman. Talked to friend(back in the day) who would ask for advice. Almost sounds like your in a checkmate position. Both wanting but waiting for the other person to make the move. I know i love deep kissing... once that starts, you better unzip my pant and let me grow..
He has no problems making the first moves. Just would like me to makes some moves as well. I know last time we were together he started kissing me on the couch and said he doesn't know why he bothers starting on the couch (which I actually enjoy) because the bed is more comfortable.
 
What were some of your essentials, if you don’t mind sharing?
The ones I remember right off the top of my head are:

Affection and sensuality.

Honesty and willingness to communicate.

Clean and strives to be healthy.

Values humor and compromise over conflict and narcissism.

Financially living within your means.

Willingness to try new adventures and projects.

Works to make the world a better place for everyone who is willing to live in peace.
 
I know most of my essentials. But it is also nice to check in to with others to see if maybe they have insight into something I am missing.


He has no problems making the first moves. Just would like me to makes some moves as well. I know last time we were together he started kissing me on the couch and said he doesn't know why he bothers starting on the couch (which I actually enjoy) because the bed is more comfortable.
Well I guess he's a typical male wants to be more comfortable versus on the couch but if you enjoy starting on the couch you need to work with him also and talk about these things try to be more open on your needs and his
 
The saying that always sticks with me in a lot of relationships somewhat seems to be true maybe not always but... " men love to have sex, women have sex for love."
 
Well I guess he's a typical male wants to be more comfortable versus on the couch but if you enjoy starting on the couch you need to work with him also and talk about these things try to be more open on your needs and his

I was the first one who suggested moving to the bed because it was more comfortable, before we were even having sex. We were making out on the couch and suggested we move to my bed, with the rule that we kept it above the waist. The fact that he was okay with it was an indicator for me that he might be someone worth me continuing to see.
 
I was the first one who suggested moving to the bed because it was more comfortable, before we were even having sex. We were making out on the couch and suggested we move to my bed, with the rule that we kept it above the waist. The fact that he was okay with it was an indicator for me that he might be someone worth me continuing to see.
Well it sounds like you're already on a great progress if you said to him let's move to the bedroom I can't say I've had that heard from my wife ever since we were married LOL
 
Ah, you're making my heart ache with memories of Catholic girls from my past
Forbidden fruit is so delicious. Besides, they can always go to Confession and have their sins absolved by revealing them to a horny man trying to be celibate.
 
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