Idea of feeling Wife/Girlfriend while they are sleeping??

[Netzach]

I fixed this by giving permission to do so. At the end of the day, however, I wake up first if there's no alarm involved.

I'm a big fan of using the "purple-headed alarm clock" (as it has been called) as a wake-up device. Lots of fun. It's actually a moderately common thing on the weekends.

And I've done sleepsex once. Said partner was particularly responsive to certain physical stimuli, and could be put into subspace just by touching the right areas. I wanted her quiet so as to not disturb anyone else sleeping, so when she started to wake up, I would touch those spots. She came multiple times, but never quite woke up.

She woke up a little while and was confused as to why she was "all wet". I explained what had happened and she immediately need to come very badly, and it was a strong orgasm. Seems the idea turned her on quite handily. Good stuff.

Being woken up in the AM by nudging morning wood is one of life's grand pleasures. A dick in my face in the middle of the night you're freaking kidding.

 

[Pineapple2]

Basically. A few nights a week I go to bed a couple hours after she does and I'm so used to fucking her before going to sleep that I do it whether she's conscious or not, and whether she wnats it or not. Once in a while she'll take ambien, which makes her really groggy -- like sometimes she'll come to in the middle of it but be too out of it to try to resist. Other times she'll come to and then fall asleep again almost immediately. When she hasn't taken pills she tries to resist me maybe a little less than half the time because she's "too tired". Doesn't matter to me, I'm just looking to fuck before bed.

Am I missing something, or did everyone just ignore the rapey post?

 

[cloud_leopard]

I love it on the weekends! Not during the week, though. 5am comes early, and the last thing I need is interrupted sleep.

 

[thesan]

Am I missing something, or did everyone just ignore the rapey post?

No and got kinda turned on by it.

Ummm... do you know what forum you are in? lol

 

[Keroin]

Being woken up in the AM by nudging morning wood is one of life's grand pleasures. A dick in my face in the middle of the night you're freaking kidding.

HAR! Seconded.

I am such a light sleeper, I wear eye shades and ear plugs every night, my husband snores like the dickens, I chew on melatonin pills like they're M&M's, and I suffer frequently from insomnia. Every moment of sleep is precious to me and once I'm awake, that's it, I'm awake for the rest of the night. I stumble through too many days sleep deprived, so this particular act would NOT go over well.

Morning time, fair enough, have at 'er.

 

[Pineapple2]

No and got kinda turned on by it.

Ummm... do you know what forum you are in? lol

Yeah, but that post was most definitely creepy.

 

[JennyNo1]

This sounds incredibly arousing to me - I'm adding it to the list of things I want my lover to do to me......

 

[unknooown]

Yeah, but that post was most definitely creepy.

I get it. But she's my soon-to-be fiancee, a self-described masochist (and knows how sadistic I am), and has expressed her appreciation for this on mutiple occasions. Nothing to worry about.

 

[satindesire]

I have Somnophilia, but I consider consent to be one of the most important things in our relationship, so I have never done anything to him while he was asleep. I've often fantasized about it but could never bring myself to do it to him IRL, just too squicky, akin to rape to me.

ETA: I won't even sleep with him when he's drunk. I find that without a wholly present and sober mind, I find my own self resistant to the idea of sexual congress. I wouldn't want him to feel the way I felt when rape was forced onto me. Too traumatic to even think about it!

 

[keatonb]

GF has done it to me several times and I have returned the favor. it beats waking up to an alarm clock !

 

[Bill3250]

I wouldn't dare touch Lady Claire while she sleeps. Even when she is awake, I must have her permission before I may touch her.

Bill

 

[123Josh]

I have Somnophilia, but I consider consent to be one of the most important things in our relationship, so I have never done anything to him while he was asleep. I've often fantasized about it but could never bring myself to do it to him IRL, just too squicky, akin to rape to me.

ETA: I won't even sleep with him when he's drunk. I find that without a wholly present and sober mind, I find my own self resistant to the idea of sexual congress. I wouldn't want him to feel the way I felt when rape was forced onto me. Too traumatic to even think about it!

Can you say weird?!
Don't worry! Won't be "PMing" you to cyber!

 

[Tawny_Temptress]

Sounds good to me.

 

[Kikori]

WOULD sound good to me if I wasn't such a light sleeper.

It'd be an interesting way to wake up, though.

 

[Homburg]

I have Somnophilia, but I consider consent to be one of the most important things in our relationship, so I have never done anything to him while he was asleep. I've often fantasized about it but could never bring myself to do it to him IRL, just too squicky, akin to rape to me.

I generally feel the same way, but, as I mentioned above, I obtain consent to do so at some later point. I give fair warning to my partners that it is entirely likely that I will want to wake them up at some point in this fashion. Assuming they're cool with it, it's not a problem.

ETA: I won't even sleep with him when he's drunk. I find that without a wholly present and sober mind, I find my own self resistant to the idea of sexual congress. I wouldn't want him to feel the way I felt when rape was forced onto me. Too traumatic to even think about it!

I won't do sexual things when my partner is drunk either. No thanks. Can't get informed consent when the other person is plastered.

 

[ownedsubgal]

I won't do sexual things when my partner is drunk either. No thanks. Can't get informed consent when the other person is plastered.

but not even to your own slaves? as they belong to you, isn't the consent rather a given?

tho he prefers me awake and lively (better blowjobs that way lol), Daddy has often used my body when i've been drunk, even passed out drunk. He says it's a different kind of thrill, and there are times when he has purposely had me drink or ingest other inebriating chemicals in order to experience this. sometimes he tells me about it afterward, sometimes not.

 

[latina_princess]

Nothing more erotic that having that kind of spontaneity.
I miss being able to slip under the covers administer that type of wake up call.
Not to mention how erotic it is to know that even in a state of sleep my body can become so aroused being touched.

 

[Homburg]

but not even to your own slaves? as they belong to you, isn't the consent rather a given?

tho he prefers me awake and lively (better blowjobs that way lol), Daddy has often used my body when i've been drunk, even passed out drunk. He says it's a different kind of thrill, and there are times when he has purposely had me drink or ingest other inebriating chemicals in order to experience this. sometimes he tells me about it afterward, sometimes not.

Not really. It's just not my thing. I don't really have a consent-based issue with it, just a personal one.

Note - I've done it, I just generally avoid it.

 

[okatty35]

We do this from time to time....she tends to try to resist at first but gotta be very persistant. love they way it feels when i kiss her when she is mostly asleep....she also seems to moan and whimper more when she cums after being asleep.....very hot.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Not really. It's just not my thing. I don't really have a consent-based issue with it, just a personal one.

Note - I've done it, I just generally avoid it.

oh okay. the "informed consent" thing just threw me. i can totally get a Master refraining from sex with his unconscious slave because it's just not very physically enjoyable for him, i don't get a Master refraining from sex with his unconscious slave because she is unable to give "consent."

 

[subish2009]

I woke up years ago in the middle of the night to my husband straddling my face, trying to get his cock in my mouth. Something about the way he was acting made me think he was asleep, but I was half-asleep myself and confused and just went with it. He woke up about halfway through and felt really embarrassed and bad afterward. I thought it was hot.

A few years later, I woke up to him having sex with me in the middle of the night. That time he was awake and knew exactly what he was doing. Even hotter. I wish he'd do it more often. I LOVE the idea of being used in my sleep. The objectification thing, I guess.

 

[Homburg]

oh okay. the "informed consent" thing just threw me. i can totally get a Master refraining from sex with his unconscious slave because it's just not very physically enjoyable for him, i don't get a Master refraining from sex with his unconscious slave because she is unable to give "consent."

Yeah, unconscious I don't mind. Consent is assumed in our dynamic, period. When alcohol is involved, I get widgey. It's just me. Hell, if one of them got drunk and I was in the mood, sex would happen. I just won't do things that involve anything more complex than rough sex when alcohol is in the picture.

I've also got a splitting headache, so it is entirely possible that I'm not explaining this well. If so, my apologies.

I guess the basic idea is that consent is assumed in this relationship, but the alcohol thing is a personal rule of mine. It is, in essence, my lack of consent, not theirs, at that point.

 

[islandguy]

Love the idea of pressing my naked body against hers, as she sleeps and caressing and sucking her nipples softly arousing her.. reaching and very gently wanting to caress and rub her pussy ..not wanting her to wake up and yet please and pleasure her... if possible lick her to an orgasm as she sleeps sound so HOT...

 

[Tasty_GA_Honey]

I loved being awoken this way (especially when I sleep on my tummy)!!!!

One former lover used to slip his hand under me, palm up, while I was sleeping and tease my clit very slowly while he wrapped his other arm around my body and slid another finger, or two, inside me at the same time. It was the most peaceful, calming way to wake up ever.

 

[cowslinger64]

I've never asked for consent beforehand. Most women I've been with, sleep on their stomach. I start with light kissing and sucking on their neck just below their hairline in the back...then on to the shoulders and down the spine. I do it very lightly, quietly and slowly. By the time I've licked my way down to her ass, ain't NO WAY she's turning me down...I never get shot down for morning sex...my favorite time as it is a gift from GOD.