If everything is ok in sex , why not incest too ?

[DogTrainer]

No, there are things that are wrong no matter the spin someone puts on it.

 

[live4thebj]

No, there are things that are wrong no matter the spin someone puts on it.

IMHO I agree to a point. But again, if the two people are consenting, and the two people (or more) fully know what they are doing and getting into, then IMHO society's views can stay out of it.

For sometimes ones view of wrong really is just a view and not a fact. To me wrong is when you are negatively affecting someone's life. For instance, taking a life is wrong for you are taking a life.

Fucking a family member that wants to fuck, I say is not wrong.

 

[DogTrainer]

IMHO I agree to a point. But again, if the two people are consenting, and the two people (or more) fully know what they are doing and getting into, then IMHO society's views can stay out of it.

For sometimes ones view of wrong really is just a view and not a fact. To me wrong is when you are negatively affecting someone's life. For instance, taking a life is wrong for you are taking a life.

Fucking a family member that wants to fuck, I say is not wrong.

That's exactly my point the "wrong no matter what" things are rape, pedophilia, ect. For consenting adults no shits are given here....I'm too busy to care that much lol

 

[live4thebj]

That's exactly my point the "wrong no matter what" things are rape, pedophilia, ect. For consenting adults no shits are given here....I'm too busy to care that much lol

If you were that busy you wouldn't be posting on a forum focused on sex. Lets be honest here.

 

[DogTrainer]

If you were that busy you wouldn't be posting on a forum focused on sex. Lets be honest here.

You misunderstood my intent when I said 'I'm too busy'. You helped make my point though. By stating in too busy (and being here) I was illustrating that other things are more important.

 

[7LivesManyFaces]

I would say incest is absolutely not okay but I am no one to judge the choices of consenting adults who are fully aware of their choices; any other scenario would be complete sexual, emotional, physical, and psychological abuse. From the material I've read, incest is the result of some sort of psychological maladjustment, past abuse, or ineffective nurturing that leads to a person having a sexual response instead of a more fraternal affection towards their loved ones.

 

[live4thebj]

I would say incest is absolutely not okay but I am no one to judge the choices of consenting adults who are fully aware of their choices; any other scenario would be complete sexual, emotional, physical, and psychological abuse. From the material I've read, incest is the result of some sort of psychological maladjustment, past abuse, or ineffective nurturing that leads to a person having a sexual response instead of a more fraternal affection towards their loved ones.

Oh please over 90% of people going through puberty are turned on by someone in their family; usually one or both of their parents.

 

[7LivesManyFaces]

Oh please over 90% of people going through puberty are turned on by someone in their family; usually one or both of their parents.

LOL I doubt the validity of those numbers. But I wouldn't be surprised if pedophiles are included in there, given the disastrous statistics on childhood sexual abuse.

 

[NewbieHere]

IMHO I agree to a point. But again, if the two people are consenting, and the two people (or more) fully know what they are doing and getting into, then IMHO society's views can stay out of it.

For sometimes ones view of wrong really is just a view and not a fact. To me wrong is when you are negatively affecting someone's life. For instance, taking a life is wrong for you are taking a life.

Fucking a family member that wants to fuck, I say is not wrong.

I have no desire for anyone in my family. But, I have found some stories of incest to be incredibly hot.

 

[live4thebj]

LOL I doubt the validity of those numbers. But I wouldn't be surprised if pedophiles are included in there, given the disastrous statistics on childhood sexual abuse.

Fair enough on the numbers. What it sounds like to me you are mixing sexual abuse with incest. While at times they go hand in hand so does the opposite of love within an incestual relationship. Think about it.

 

[bunny4med]

I would say incest is absolutely not okay but I am no one to judge the choices of consenting adults who are fully aware of their choices; any other scenario would be complete sexual, emotional, physical, and psychological abuse. From the material I've read, incest is the result of some sort of psychological maladjustment, past abuse, or ineffective nurturing that leads to a person having a sexual response instead of a more fraternal affection towards their loved ones.

as someone who lives life as my brothers wife, i can assure you that i have suffered no abuse, lacked any nurturing, or suffer from some psychological maladjustment. we are both doctors who head our respective departments. we did not "get together" until we were in college. we weren't thrown together by any trauma, we did have a normal brother/sister relationship until one day we realized that besides a physical attraction, we completed each other on emotional level. we had both had a normal dating life growing up. the decision to enter into a sexual relationship was mutual,consensual, and the greatest thing that has even happened to us. though we live a secretive life due to the worlds outlook that we share some chromosomes, i would never change a thing. i realize that we are probably not the norm as far people who enter into relationships with a family member go, but as we are not hurting anyone with our relationship i really don't care what people think or judge of us based upon some religious belief.

 

[CindyCD478]

LOL I doubt the validity of those numbers. But I wouldn't be surprised if pedophiles are included in there, given the disastrous statistics on childhood sexual abuse.

I would tend to disagree with those numbers too. It is probably much closer to 100%.

 

[7LivesManyFaces]

as someone who lives life as my brothers wife, i can assure you that i have suffered no abuse, lacked any nurturing, or suffer from some psychological maladjustment. we are both doctors who head our respective departments. we did not "get together" until we were in college. we weren't thrown together by any trauma, we did have a normal brother/sister relationship until one day we realized that besides a physical attraction, we completed each other on emotional level. we had both had a normal dating life growing up. the decision to enter into a sexual relationship was mutual,consensual, and the greatest thing that has even happened to us. though we live a secretive life due to the worlds outlook that we share some chromosomes, i would never change a thing. i realize that we are probably not the norm as far people who enter into relationships with a family member go, but as we are not hurting anyone with our relationship i really don't care what people think or judge of us based upon some religious belief.

I completely see your point and would have to be in your shoes to understand where you're coming from. You said it right that as consenting adults, you are free to do as you please regardless of what society thinks. So this subject is obviously pretty taboo and you will find very few people who agree with your way of life. But good for you to not let that get in the way.

To answer the OP question, I personally couldn't ever see myself changing or evolving the feelings for my siblings, children, or parents into a sexual attraction. As the middle child and oldest sister, I'm very protective of my younger sisters and my older brothers the same way I am toward my child, it's like an instinct. The thought of tainting that relationship into something completely different, whether we're 20 or 70 years old, is just not possible for me.

 

[bunny4med]

I completely see your point and would have to be in your shoes to understand where you're coming from. You said it right that as consenting adults, you are free to do as you please regardless of what society thinks. So this subject is obviously pretty taboo and you will find very few people who agree with your way of life. But good for you to not let that get in the way.

To answer the OP question, I personally couldn't ever see myself changing or evolving the feelings for my siblings, children, or parents into a sexual attraction. As the middle child and oldest sister, I'm very protective of my younger sisters and my older brothers the same way I am toward my child, it's like an instinct. The thought of tainting that relationship into something completely different, whether we're 20 or 70 years old, is just not possible for me.

i can respect your opinion.

 

[unnissa]

why it is an taboo even to talk ?

 

[Ocean33]

why it is an taboo even to talk ?

I have no idea I like to talk about it.

 

[wsahtacrhon1]

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[dacoach44]

Makes perfect sense to me

Oh please over 90% of people going through puberty are turned on by someone in their family; usually one or both of their parents.

Hell, who didnt have cute cousins?

 

[Green_Knight]

I would tend to disagree with those numbers too. It is probably much closer to 100%.

And as a matter of interest, your evidence is...?

 

[JackOffer]

What CONSENTING ADULTS do together in private that causes harm to no one is not a moral issue.

I agree with you 100%. What goes on between consenting adults, regardless of heir relationship to each other, is no one else's business.

 

[JackOffer]

Oh please over 90% of people going through puberty are turned on by someone in their family; usually one or both of their parents.

I know for sure I was turned on by both my parents.

 

[bluesbreaker_69]

Yes ya !
i too feel it in liberal mode but afraid to take the plunge and not ready to divulge the person !
but it is very erotic if i think it !

Enjoy the eroticism

 

[darkside7]

My first time was one summer in high school with my cousin! Her mom and my dad were brother and sister. Our mothers always knew we were kissing cousins but they never knew we went all the way.
We're still best friends many years later, she was always the sister I never had.

 

[Green_Knight]

I agree with you 100%. What goes on between consenting adults, regardless of heir (sic) relationship to each other, is no one else's business.

You may well believe that but I'm not sure the judge will agree with you. If you really believe that, there's little point in campaigning on here, even if you could manage to get everyone on here to agree with you. You need to get out there, put your head above the parapet, and start campaigning for the law to be changed.

Though I have to say that, despite the fact that Trump acts like he's the product of a long line of brother-sister relationships, I very much doubt that you're going to get his support.

 

[Hypoxia]

My first time was one summer in high school with my cousin! Her mom and my dad were brother and sister. Our mothers always knew we were kissing cousins but they never knew we went all the way.
We're still best friends many years later, she was always the sister I never had.

Yeah, keep it in the family. Incest-Taboo is the most popular LIT category so many readers obviously demand / enjoy the vicarious experience of sin. BTW cousins are barely incest, and cousin marriage is common or expected in many cultures, as are even closer avuncular (uncle-niece) marriages. See my piece What is Incest?

I'm slowly cooking a story based on real life about a family whose patriarch had 3 wives giving several kids each over a couple of generations. An older son had an aunt younger than himself, more than a kissing cousin. I'll write of their love.