if you like a girl who talks dirty

[Julian]

Wow - What A Question

I read through & was thinking about what constitutes 'dirty talk' , and am adding this ideal.

First off, agreement could be considered, since some lovers want to know what they're doing is agreeable and delightful.

Next can be variety, meaning asking for something or offering something, which could include the most porno-movie act such as cumming on the person or going from ass-to-mouth or simply whispering "Yes Daddy" to the man riding or from the woman with you.

The collision with their past could be interesting, telling them how you like it or if someone did it better; this could also be considered a blatant challenge and thus they'd be creaming & gasping & retorting like mad to prove they can "do it better".

Exploration or learning a secret taboo, such as blindfolds, tying someone down and the lust of that. Even a fantasy element could be added if you said "And if Matt Damon (or Tera Patrick, depends on their taste & gender .... but that's open for discussion too) were here with us ... what would happen?" You could almost consider that inquisitive but you're also dying to encourage them and keep fanning the flames of passion.

Try them all.

Blessings,



Julian

 

[Ardeche]

If you like it when a woman talks dirty to you, do you want her to keep up a running commentary or just throw out one or two things per session? Is there such a thing as "too porny" or does it all sound good in the heat of the moment? My guy likes the dirty talk but I worry about overdoing it and not sounding believable.

A little bit here and there at the right moment, works wonders I think. I've been told the effect is lessened when the woman does swear/cuss frequently outside of the bedroom.

People who've known me for ten years have never heard me say "fuck". So when the activity in the bedroom makes me blurt out a "fuck" or two he knows he's doing something good, .

 

[cute_nerd]

I've always wondered that too. I am a "nice girl" or "girl next door" type who will throw in a few nasty words here and there, but does that turn off a guy because I am nice? I've seen/heard guys not use foul language around me in general conversation because I am too "classy" (if you can believe that!). So, what is the consensus on that one? Personally, I like dirty talk on both sides. It turns me on a LOT.

 

[Ardeche]

I've always wondered that too. I am a "nice girl" or "girl next door" type who will throw in a few nasty words here and there, but does that turn off a guy because I am nice? I've seen/heard guys not use foul language around me in general conversation because I am too "classy" (if you can believe that!). So, what is the consensus on that one? Personally, I like dirty talk on both sides. It turns me on a LOT.

It's a turn-on, dear. Especially when you are the kind of girl it's least expected from! I would know. I can still shock my partner with a well placed dirty word. He also makes a conscious effort not to swear/cuss around me, even though I really don't have a problem with others doing it (not just my thing).

Don't overdo it though, as you run the risk of sounding to pornstar-ish. Baby steps and I hope it goes well!

 

[cadman7777]

It's a turn-on, dear. Especially when you are the kind of girl it's least expected from! I would know. I can still shock my partner with a well placed dirty word. He also makes a conscious effort not to swear/cuss around me, even though I really don't have a problem with others doing it (not just my thing).

Don't overdo it though, as you run the risk of sounding to pornstar-ish. Baby steps and I hope it goes well!

That's interesting. I pretty much only talk that way when having sex and if the woman is into it, which many seem to be. Like I said before I love it when a woman talks dirty though

 

[sandandfoam]

me too, when it's for her, I love creating steamy forbidden images and seeing her intensity rise, filming her while I do it is way hot and even when she filmsme

 

[silverwhisper]

i love sexy talk and can never seem to get enough, but i do like it in context. :>

ed

 

[NakedMale]

Some dirty talk is good, my wife does not talk dirty very much which makes the odd word she says have more impact

 

[lindahotstuff]

I like to talk dirty in bed and it really turns my man on. But it can be too much. We start by talking about each other's body, he says I have lovely boobs and a nice pussy, i admire his hard cock. Then as we are having foreplay I say things like 'I am waiting to feel your hardness inside me' and 'my pussy is getting wet'. It's important not to overdo it, otherwise it gets tedious or the guy explodes too soon. Then as he mounts me and we get more vigorous it gets raunchier, 'suck my tits baby', or 'fuck me harder you animal'. We alternate of course, I love being called a whore and a slut. I like to moan a lot and really show how much i am enjoying him. Then when things are going really wild it will be 'fuck me with your hard cock' and 'fuck my cunt'. I think 'cunt' is a word that should only be used in bed, it is not a nice word otherwise, but incredibly erotic when he is inside me. Then as he explodes he will say 'you like my hard cock inside your cunt, dont you?" and by that time I am just giggling and erupting.

 

[ivantheterrible]

i love to dirty talk and to hear it. keeps things interesting.

 

[FaustARP]

Don't just say dirty things you think he'll like. Say the dirty things you're actually feeling/thinking.

Reality is way sexier, even if we appreciate your attempts to spice things up with a little fantasy.

 

[ursaminor512]

definitely love some dirty talk - but if it becomes like a bad porno then i just start to laugh. Here are some that i've heard that worked for sure:

i wanna fuck you in the ass and grab your tits

get on top of me fucking ride me

i wanna cum all over your tits

A couple of things that do it for me, but you can totally overdo if you you're not careful:

oh you're so wet

i wanna fuck you so hard

oh yeah fuck me baby

i wanna make you scream

and then there are the things that are just lame:

oh i'm so hard

you like that baby?

 

[noisymother]

See, I'm a phone sex operator by trade....

and I STILL blush when I try to talk dirty to my SO.

:/

Similarly - I find it much easier to talk dirty online - than in real life!

 

[cadman7777]

Similarly - I find it much easier to talk dirty online - than in real life!

Really? I love it online the same as real life....

 

[noisymother]

Really? I love it online the same as real life....

well maybe we should do something about that . . . .

 

[cadman7777]

well maybe we should do something about that . . . .

Well maybe we should.....what are you waiting for?

 

[noisymother]

Well maybe we should.....what are you waiting for?

You want me to talk dirty out here where everyone else gets to vicariously enjoy it . . . .? Not my style . . .

one on one is preferable . . .

 

[cadman7777]

not a problem

 

[lonelysmile]

I love dirty talk. I moan and make noises more often, but I love to talk dirty to get my girl going. I love to tell her what I'm going to do to her and beg her to do things to me. "fuck" and "cunt" and "pussy" are probably the three words that get the most reaction out of me. I love the "harder," "faster," "more" commands - those get me really hot.

Still - context is important lol

 

[Dreamliner]

Similarly - I find it much easier to talk dirty online - than in real life!

I will pass you my mobile phone number then!

or call my yahoo contact!

 

[Dreamliner]

I like setting a csene and will start two or three days out...the double entendre's, subtle meaning and general raising of sexual tension, using my brain, always gets the desired results....

...and what generally occurs is the woman will be making comments such as ...."fuck me now".....I want you hard cock in my pussy" ..........god I am so wet....soaking wet...


they can get embarrased as at times they have been in a workplace!

 

[tenchikoi]

As a woman, I like it when a man talks dirty. Not in a degrading way by calling a woman a bitch, whore, slut, etc....that would turn me completely off and make me angry. But throwing out the occasional sexy phrase would be hot. It's not sexy if you have to think about it too much, it just sounds staged at that point.

 

[The_Trouvere]

ech!

I don't like it all. I never did.

 

[vidmin]

i love dirty talk, love to hear and do, also like dirty chat.

 

[LFO]

I can't get enough of it, I love it when my girl talks dirty.