I'm Married, Let's Chat in Secret

[osprey44]

Hey! I'm looking for a woman friend

Hey all you seekers of shared sexual thoughts and romantic perversion... I'm just an old married guy in a sexless marriage, always looking for an outlet.
I'm in the PNW, would love to chat with married women, 50ish and older who may be interested in the sharing of thoughts and experiences. I do masturbate most every day, and have had lovers from time to time. I am fussy, needs to be a "spark" before I pursue a new playmate.

I travel frequently, following my camera lens... many hobbies, very active... and yes, still considered attractive.

 

[bigphilly4u2]

Let’s vhat!

44 MWM looking for a lady interested in chatting. We can talk about anything, from how your day was to some dirty cyber. Hope to hear from you soon. My kik is funtimesinabq4us2

 

[dougmarting]

I think you should think about me...

I am thinking about you....

 

[Keep_Us_Secret]

Monday?? Why Not?

I'm always open to a message from a lady who enjoys playing in secret. Building a connection that leads to some erotic voice play is always a good time.

A chat with a lady who also enjoys being secret together would get more attention from me than this baseball playoff game would.

 

[Csilv78]

Mwm, 41. Always looking for a lady to chat with.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I’m not married but I do find teasing married guys to be funny.

Just chat though, here or on gmail (start here).

30 F

Feel free to send me a message.

You devil!

 

[Wanking_Frank]

43 married male 6ft 120 pounds lets chat in secret ladies!

Skeletor?

 

[MidnightRyder007]

New York/ New Jersey (Border ) 54 male / Div/ Presently single-College-educated, professional with many interests. Lets see if there is a common ground and build from there?
Open to chat platforms wickR

 

[L_Snow]

Throwing my hat into the ring, why not. Tall, mwm, 42, new england area please. Looking for any women 40+ to carry on a discreet conversation, let's see where it takes us.

 

[702Hotwheeler]

48 in a sexless marriage looking for a female friend to write. Open to any topic in life.

 

[KeenVoyeur]

?????

I think you should think about me...

The post is over 4 years old now - I wonder why Kate doesn't want to see who's been thinking about her in the meantime?

The attached pic certainly has me thinking about her

 

[seeshelly]

Why the wife never knows

I love sex chat but my husband knows what I am doing here on literotica. If I was on here fucking around with guys and keeping it secret from my husband that would tell me that my marriage is off the rails.

Why are there SO MANY men that have to sneak around for sex? I think guys should really work at helping their wives get past the social sexual taboos that are causing this problem. Both men and women need sexual variety. It is in our DNA.

Fighting natural cravings is unhealthy and it leads to things like sneaking around.

While I don't do things behind my husbands back we do have to keep our sex life in the closet. I hate sneaking around for sex because of what society would think.

Society is messed up regarding sex and needs to change. At the time of marriage I think husbands should tell their wife that they are free to spread their legs for other men and wives should encourage their husbands to enjoy other pussy. It is just sick jealousy and possessiveness that makes sex so taboo.

 

[guns444]

Married man 32 years old. Wife is pretty conservative and vanilla, and not into sex alot. I have so many fantasies and kinks I can't seem to get out of my head, which has brought me to lit. I'd love to chat with women about these things.

 

[dacoach44]

Well Shelly.........

I love sex chat but my husband knows what I am doing here on literotica. If I was on here fucking around with guys and keeping it secret from my husband that would tell me that my marriage is off the rails.

Why are there SO MANY men that have to sneak around for sex? I think guys should really work at helping their wives get past the social sexual taboos that are causing this problem. Both men and women need sexual variety. It is in our DNA.

Fighting natural cravings is unhealthy and it leads to things like sneaking around.

While I don't do things behind my husbands back we do have to keep our sex life in the closet. I hate sneaking around for sex because of what society would think.

Society is messed up regarding sex and needs to change. At the time of marriage I think husbands should tell their wife that they are free to spread their legs for other men and wives should encourage their husbands to enjoy other pussy. It is just sick jealousy and possessiveness that makes sex so taboo.

You are so right. I have dated a few women since my wife died suddenly, and only 2 are not jealous. Both are 8 hours + away, so its no wonder I also date sissies.
Jealousy and drama...thats mostly what I see with women.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

Married man 32 years old. Wife is pretty conservative and vanilla, and not into sex alot. I have so many fantasies and kinks I can't seem to get out of my head, which has brought me to lit. I'd love to chat with women about these things.

Thats where we were at 3 years ago. Talk to her about it - it may light her fire.

 

[Soma99]

I love sex chat but my husband knows what I am doing here on literotica. If I was on here fucking around with guys and keeping it secret from my husband that would tell me that my marriage is off the rails.

Why are there SO MANY men that have to sneak around for sex? I think guys should really work at helping their wives get past the social sexual taboos that are causing this problem. Both men and women need sexual variety. It is in our DNA.

Fighting natural cravings is unhealthy and it leads to things like sneaking around.

While I don't do things behind my husbands back we do have to keep our sex life in the closet. I hate sneaking around for sex because of what society would think.

Society is messed up regarding sex and needs to change. At the time of marriage I think husbands should tell their wife that they are free to spread their legs for other men and wives should encourage their husbands to enjoy other pussy. It is just sick jealousy and possessiveness that makes sex so taboo.

I’m always baffled by this attitude.

I’ve never even lived with a guy and it’s so obvious that this is horseshit.

I’m sure many marriages are great and sexy, but it’s also really obvious why many many others are not.

Life isn’t sexy, and that’s what a marriage is. Your sharing a life.

Mortgage payments that are a stretch to make this month are not sexy.
Health issues are not sexy.
Shared bathrooms that neither person cleans as much as they should are not sexy.
Kids who throw tantrums or are at the age of fighting for their independence are not sexy.
The stress of caring for an aging parent is not sexy.

Yadda yadda yadda.

This idea that “talk to her, then she’ll love buying you a ball gag” is foolish.

Come on- if your even around people in any normal way it’s really easy to see why married guys come here. It’s a fantasy.

I’m 100% sure that EVERY guy who messages me and I tell them about the last dick I sucked thinks I’m

1- way better at sucking dick then I am
2- much better looking then I am

So anyways- if you want a little break from reality send me a message, I promise not to lecture.

 

[Fuzzy1975]

I’m always baffled by this attitude.

I’ve never even lived with a guy and it’s so obvious that this is horseshit.

I’m sure many marriages are great and sexy, but it’s also really obvious why many many others are not.

Life isn’t sexy, and that’s what a marriage is. Your sharing a life.

Mortgage payments that are a stretch to make this month are not sexy.
Health issues are not sexy.
Shared bathrooms that neither person cleans as much as they should are not sexy.
Kids who throw tantrums or are at the age of fighting for their independence are not sexy.
The stress of caring for an aging parent is not sexy.

Yadda yadda yadda.

This idea that “talk to her, then she’ll love buying you a ball gag” is foolish.

Come on- if your even around people in any normal way it’s really easy to see why married guys come here. It’s a fantasy.

I’m 100% sure that EVERY guy who messages me and I tell them about the last dick I sucked thinks I’m

1- way better at sucking dick then I am
2- much better looking then I am

So anyways- if you want a little break from reality send me a message, I promise not to lecture.

lol awesome post. and sooo true...

 

[Stillrandy]

Many people are conditioned by the environment in which they grew up. The Internet is only 20 years old or so, at least about the form we now have it. Erotica and porn are even newer on the web. There's a ton of stuff that I never even dreamed were possibilities back in the day. I hope 21st century marriages and relationships are a lot more sexually edified than ours of the mid-20th century.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I’m always baffled by this attitude.

I’ve never even lived with a guy and it’s so obvious that this is horseshit.

I’m sure many marriages are great and sexy, but it’s also really obvious why many many others are not.

Life isn’t sexy, and that’s what a marriage is. Your sharing a life.

Mortgage payments that are a stretch to make this month are not sexy.
Health issues are not sexy.
Shared bathrooms that neither person cleans as much as they should are not sexy.
Kids who throw tantrums or are at the age of fighting for their independence are not sexy.
The stress of caring for an aging parent is not sexy.

Yadda yadda yadda.

This idea that “talk to her, then she’ll love buying you a ball gag” is foolish.

Come on- if your even around people in any normal way it’s really easy to see why married guys come here. It’s a fantasy.

I’m 100% sure that EVERY guy who messages me and I tell them about the last dick I sucked thinks I’m

1- way better at sucking dick then I am
2- much better looking then I am

So anyways- if you want a little break from reality send me a message, I promise not to lecture.

I could not hold back the tears....of the laughter.

So much of this is sadly true!

Fantasy you say, I think you are on to something. This may be a form is escapism, a little bit of “calgon take me away,” moment.

I am however impressed at how some couples talk here about their couple swinging with no hang ups.

It’s refreshing, no need to wear your social mask!

 

[30bandits]

I’m always baffled by this attitude.

I’ve never even lived with a guy and it’s so obvious that this is horseshit.

I’m sure many marriages are great and sexy, but it’s also really obvious why many many others are not.

Life isn’t sexy, and that’s what a marriage is. Your sharing a life.

Mortgage payments that are a stretch to make this month are not sexy.
Health issues are not sexy.
Shared bathrooms that neither person cleans as much as they should are not sexy.
Kids who throw tantrums or are at the age of fighting for their independence are not sexy.
The stress of caring for an aging parent is not sexy.

Yadda yadda yadda.

This idea that “talk to her, then she’ll love buying you a ball gag” is foolish.

Come on- if your even around people in any normal way it’s really easy to see why married guys come here. It’s a fantasy.

I’m 100% sure that EVERY guy who messages me and I tell them about the last dick I sucked thinks I’m

1- way better at sucking dick then I am
2- much better looking then I am

So anyways- if you want a little break from reality send me a message, I promise not to lecture.

could I get the BJ and a lecture?

 

[Soma99]

could I get the BJ and a lecture?

If that’s your thing I’m ok with it.

That’s like the 9th weirdest thing a guy has been into this week.

 

[dacoach44]

Well Soma.........

If that’s your thing I’m ok with it.

That’s like the 9th weirdest thing a guy has been into this week.

You are right. I think the heat goes out of a relationship, or even a marriage, in a couple of years. Work, kids, bills.......you have to renew the deal constantly. I am widowed, been on dating sites and yes, its work.

 

[Vitriolhack]

could I get the BJ and a lecture?

It is not polite to talk with your mouth full!

Sorry, to easy of a comeback ...

 

[Rradmax]

Saw your post on here and this might work. I’m a MWM 50, in a sexless marriage. I have a very flex schedule and can skype or whatever during the day, Monday through Friday. Would love to get each other off and be friends about it. I’m very open minded and very willing to please. Let me know please.

 

[Soma99]

It is not polite to talk with your mouth full!

Sorry, to easy of a comeback ...

HAHAHA- I guess I walked into that one.

What are you planning on filling my mouth with big boy???