Impregnation (or at least taking the risk): Hot or not?

Complicated subject because it's a consequential thing!



But I put it to you: Guys and girls. It's not (usually) something you find out turns your partner on in the beginning but with time often follows trust and trust begats candor.



You're probably barebacking if your partner harbors a special desire to at least mention this during sex (I can tell you, condoms felt a little like rejection--like it was unfortunate that I "had" to do that--you can't imagine what reading posts from girls who swoon at the thought of taking semen does to me!), so what happens when (s)he abandons caution and starts talking (gasping, grunting, etc., depends on whether it's the girl or the guy) about the "p' word (and it ain't "pussy") during the act?



Bucket of cold water? More readily-flammable material thrown on the fire? "I've never had to deal with this before" confusion?



I'll confess: Since I was [REDACTED], "oops" and "OMG, no!" have been turn-ons for me. As I aged, "yes, do it" replaced female reluctance/fear and as a result, sex got better!



And I've been fortunate (skilled?): I've "read the room" when I was the first to bring it up: I never got the "get the fuck out of my bed" reaction that I feared since that redacted age.



Maybe every girl was receptive (in every sense)--while I doubt it, the mere possibility it was true kinda haunts me. But the ones who, safely ensconced behind the best contraceptives science has ever created for human females, "went there" are the girls I think about when I jerk off.



Long post. Comments (especially from girls, who are terribly outnumbered here, as they are whenever it is necessary to confess that, yeah, I feel something in my mind and between my legs when I think about this stuff--noti really a problem with Lit females!) are not only welcomed, they are urged.
For me it has always been a huge turn on. Granted not ready to earn the mommy title quite yet so I am on birth control but happy to play the game and say the words when in the throws of passions. It can also be a lot of fun to not always tell the man I am with about being on BC and see how they react when the topic of breeding comes up.
 
For me it has always been a huge turn on. Granted not ready to earn the mommy title quite yet so I am on birth control but happy to play the game and say the words when in the throws of passions. It can also be a lot of fun to not always tell the man I am with about being on BC and see how they react when the topic of breeding comes up.
naughty 😀
 
For me it has always been a huge turn on. Granted not ready to earn the mommy title quite yet so I am on birth control but happy to play the game and say the words when in the throws of passions. It can also be a lot of fun to not always tell the man I am with about being on BC and see how they react when the topic of breeding comes up.
im happily married for 17 years and we are very intimate in a me providing oral way but i’ve been denied piv for 12 years plus and caged and denied orgasms and yet louise is on the pill for other men off and on. it’s not really breeding but similarly they don’t know ..
 
Had many partners with this "kink" but it was limited to dirty talking or role-playing... When things get serious and real, typically they get a bit scared. Can't judge them though, I understand when things get too far is a big commitment lol
 
For me it has always been a huge turn on. Granted not ready to earn the mommy title quite yet so I am on birth control but happy to play the game and say the words when in the throws of passions. It can also be a lot of fun to not always tell the man I am with about being on BC and see how they react when the topic of breeding comes up.
Exactly! Agree 100%
 
Complicated subject because it's a consequential thing!
Discussed beforehand, with consent, and with a contraceptive plan in place unless we're actually trying for a child we intend to raise for 18 years together, in my opinion, totally acceptable as a form of kink and roleplay.

I get excited by the thought of it. I love sex without a condom, the feel of cumming while making the connection with my partner is very intense.

However, I wouldn't do it as a surprise. All consent must be obtained in advance.
 
turn on for me

part of it is the risk the other part is the possessive nature that comes with it i think especially if i'm very into him.

this is with fantasy / online / role play of course, like most people, if this was real life the conversation would be very different (shouldn't need to be said, but just in case).
 
I used to fuck this girl, 23, a coworker of mine, at the apartment she shared w/her boyfriend. Came inside many times. It was kind of a turn on for both of us, albeit very stupid. They later married and had kids.
 
I hate condoms and I love sex without a condom. I get more sensations when fucking bare and the feeling of cumming deep inside and filling her up with my seed is very hot. They also like to feel my cum filling them insides too.

I had several affairs when I was married and never used a condom once. Only one wasnt on any bc and she gave me a scare but I think that was just to get back at me for dumping her right after. I had guilt problems at that time.

The fantasy of fucking bare with the risk of impregnation is still very hot tho
 
I had a few unplanned one night stands when I was in my 40's. Did not even think about a condom until I felt his cock throbbing inside of me. At that point nothing to do but take it and enjoy it. Each time it happened when I realized he was cumming in me, it triggered another orgasm. Super hot doing it but of course there was some worry for a few weeks after.
 
I had a few unplanned one night stands when I was in my 40's. Did not even think about a condom until I felt his cock throbbing inside of me. At that point nothing to do but take it and enjoy it. Each time it happened when I realized he was cumming in me, it triggered another orgasm. Super hot doing it but of course there was some worry for a few weeks after.
Thats hot. There is always the morning after pill lol
 
I do not think that was a thing back then. My husband was snipped and I found it quite hot when I realized I was being bred.
Yeah thats true. I am have been snipped since I was about 43 although not when I had a few one night stands. Didnt even think about the risks until after but was hot
 
not for me. pregnancy and then subsequent babies can change life dramatically, including your sex life. so even just the thought of a scare ruins it mentally for me because i have trouble understanding the concept. i kind of understand why a man would think it's hot and possessive, but i would be too stressed the entire time to take a chance.
 
not for me. pregnancy and then subsequent babies can change life dramatically, including your sex life. so even just the thought of a scare ruins it mentally for me because i have trouble understanding the concept. i kind of understand why a man would think it's hot and possessive, but i would be too stressed the entire time to take a chance.
I know what you mean and I would never force a pregnancy on a woman, but when the woman is on bc but doesnt tell you or you role play that she isnt and going bare is so hot
 
I had a few unplanned one night stands when I was in my 40's. Did not even think about a condom until I felt his cock throbbing inside of me. At that point nothing to do but take it and enjoy it. Each time it happened when I realized he was cumming in me, it triggered another orgasm. Super hot doing it but of course there was some worry for a few weeks after.
All part of the fun isn’t it. 🥵
 
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