In control of the BJ

[Sexy_Me0508]

This came about from a comment a female friend made ages ago, which niggled at me. She said she didn't like her guy standing during a BJ as it made her feel submissive and him in control. In all my experiences of getting BJs whilst standing, I've never felt even remotely in control, especially when I'm getting close to orgasm and clutching at her for support as my legs go, and definitely not after when I'm a helpless wreck. I was wondering what other people think? Same for standing titfucks-is the guy in control at all? Guys-do you ever feel in control, and if so for how long? Ladies-what about you?

Considering that giving BJs is one of my favourite sexual acts, I'd have to say that giving a BJ with my partner standing can be highly submissive for my man but at the same time give him an element of control he may not have if he is lying down...
Nothing like taking time with a man if you are feeling naughty and playful..the way he moans and squirms knowing he is in a vulnerable position and won't cum any time soon turns me intensely on...alternating slow and fast..bringing him right to the point where more would make him cum but stopping just short of...
On the other hand, if I am feeling like being controlled, he'd have a great time fucking my mouth hard..hand holding my head tightly..making me gag, streaks and streaks of saliva running down my chin and neck..tears in my eyes and my moans coming out as a jumbled gargling sound...

 

[gypseywolf]

Actually

For me it is all about the angle that I can get, with some men I prefer them standing, other siting or laying down, or even them on their hands and knees over the top of me or them kneeling and me laying down with him fucking my face... I love sucking cock and I have noticed cocks are different and each needs to be sucked different, I wanna go as far down without gagging as possible so I will do what ever it takes to achieve depth. And swallowing depends on taste and texture for me... Texture being the most important, but taste is close second... I have tried numbing sprays and loved them, just need to find one in something besides cherry or grape...can't stand those flavors but other than that.. Yes please to cock sucking..lol

 

[SweetShal303]

Considering that giving BJs is one of my favourite sexual acts, I'd have to say that giving a BJ with my partner standing can be highly submissive for my man but at the same time give him an element of control he may not have if he is lying down...
Nothing like taking time with a man if you are feeling naughty and playful..the way he moans and squirms knowing he is in a vulnerable position and won't cum any time soon turns me intensely on...alternating slow and fast..bringing him right to the point where more would make him cum but stopping just short of...
On the other hand, if I am feeling like being controlled, he'd have a great time fucking my mouth hard..hand holding my head tightly..making me gag, streaks and streaks of saliva running down my chin and neck..tears in my eyes and my moans coming out as a jumbled gargling sound...

Oohh I totally agree with that....

 

[Pj2424143]

I had never tried this position for a blow job and tried it with my husband yesterday. He didn't really enjoy thrusting into my mouth as he said he was afraid he would hurt me. But I did maintain the same position and sucked his balls while stroking him until he came on my chest. I enjoyed it, even if he didn't.

That sounds amazing...

 

[eliasrotica3]

Each time I've given a blow job it's been very submissive. I've been dolled up sissy and I'm either on my knees or laying next to him in the bed (not 69). I can understand how the sucker has power over the suckee because you're acting on him, but for me, my head game is very sissy submissive.

 

[rosco rathbone]

The CEO doesn't dictate the small details of day to day operations in his organization.

Same way with oral. I make an executive decision (I need oral service) and leave the details of implementation up to the fellatrix as I lie back and relax. Why micromanage a master of skills?

 

[BaconBot]

I never understood how giving a BJ is submissive. You've got his dick in your mouth and balls in your hands. How are you not the one in charge?

 

[NaughtyAngel7]

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[Porkwarrior]

Oh my God there's just something about dropping to my knees in front of a man. I tend to be a little shy and I guess it is being submissive, but it's such a rush. I tune into the reactions of the man - his moans, his breathing, the touch of his hands, his posture. Getting my head positioned just right to deep throat took alot of practice but it was so worth it. There's just something about the position of kneeling between a man's legs and pleasing him and fingering myself. It's kind of a primal feeling for me- I don't really care if I cum or not, but I usually do.

Um...damn...hi there.

Standing is probably the position I receive the least...but with the right woman, the right mood...it is definitely a fav. You do need a gal that is enthusiastic about a really good face fuck, and trusts their partner not to make things...uncomfortable. But having the freedom of movement, and seeing her eyes looking up at me in that wanton, driven way...right before I watch & feel myself slide into her mouth...ALL the way. Oh hells yes, I'll take seconds please.

 

[devinity7]

I find a man standing to be more submissive as well. I enjoy giving more when I am on my knees or my head lying off the edge of the bed while I'm on my back. I love it when he's sitting in a chair and I can kneel before him and do what comes naturally.

 

[dougsan]

The way the porn industry portrays blowjobs is a real turn off for me. I don't want to squirt cum on anyone's face or fuck into someone's mouth as if it were a vagina or ass. I want all of the sexual acts to be reflective of love and respect. If domination is your gme, wonderful. It isn't mine.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Although I tend to be submissive, I find that I like to control a bj, I want to elicit as much pleasure as possible, feeling every twitch, every time his cock swlls just a tiny bit more and reacting by changing the pressure, the suction. Deciding whether to make him cum quickly or allowing for a long drawn out session. It is the one element I am in charge of and very much enjoy it.

 

[Mammaplease]

I love to control my man while I am sucking his cock. I'm pretty sure I could get him to agree to anything while he's that euphoric. Although sometimes I wish he would just stand up and fuck my face! Love that cock thrusting down my throat

 

[Asian_Flower]

Oh my God there's just something about dropping to my knees in front of a man. I tend to be a little shy and I guess it is being submissive, but it's such a rush. I tune into the reactions of the man - his moans, his breathing, the touch of his hands, his posture. Getting my head positioned just right to deep throat took alot of practice but it was so worth it. There's just something about the position of kneeling between a man's legs and pleasing him and fingering myself. It's kind of a primal feeling for me- I don't really care if I cum or not, but I usually do.

Yes, I very much agree with this comment! I just cant deep throat, but love nothing better than kneeling and taking a man in my mouth

 

[Kudram123]

Oh my God there's just something about dropping to my knees in front of a man. I tend to be a little shy and I guess it is being submissive, but it's such a rush. I tune into the reactions of the man - his moans, his breathing, the touch of his hands, his posture. Getting my head positioned just right to deep throat took alot of practice but it was so worth it. There's just something about the position of kneeling between a man's legs and pleasing him and fingering myself. It's kind of a primal feeling for me- I don't really care if I cum or not, but I usually do.

Yes, I very much agree with this comment! I just cant deep throat, but love nothing better than kneeling and taking a man in my mouth

Well, that does sound good! And its such a nice visual

Especially if she looks up and keeps eye contact

 

[SweetnSassssy]

I fucking enjoy being on my knees in front of him. I love him being in control. Grabbing my hair, thrusting himself deep down my throat. He is also able to control his orgasm that way. Building up to an orgasm and them jerking my head away so he can pull back, allowing for longer playtime.

The only time I enjoy being in control of his blow job is when we have a FFM and I make her suck him like I instruct her to.