Insulted or degraded

[DalliancesWithWolves]

Absolutely, but purely during sex.

 

[sterculius]

To derive pleasure by purposely inflicting discomfort on me is cruel and I don't admire or invite this, but to be impersonally treated by someone as a tool to be "used" for their sexual gratification and release thrills me! I don't want them to intentionally WANT to hurt or offend me, but it excites me to imagine that they don't care if they do. That my feelings are irrelevant!

 

[StrongMaster7]

Very early in my online life, I was in an AOL chatroom and randomly began chatting with an English lady. I think she mentioned her "best friend" once or twice and for some reason I just seized on that to say how sexy her friend was compared to her. And she melted into a puddle of arousal. I told her how much prettier and sexier her best friend was and how her husband secretly wanted to fuck her friend and that he thought about her friend while he fucked her.

I went through every body part and told her that her friend was sexier. And I told her that her friend was more talented sexually than her. And that her friend laughed at her and pitied her for how ugly and plain and unsexy she was.

And this English lady said she came and came as I degraded her. We chatted several times like this and each time it was a huge turn-on for me to degrade her, even getting into abusing her by spanking and slapping her (in chat) and forcing her to use (sometimes painful) household objects as dildoes because that was all she deserved. I had never done any kind of verbal cruelty, but found I enjoyed it!

As happens, I lost track of her after a few chats. And I decided to try verbal abuse with the next lady I chatted with. We were just getting started and I used the word "bitch". She immediately informed me that our chat was over and how dare I use such a nasty demeaning word to her. And that's when I began to learn that kink is not a one-size-fits-all thing.

 

[lovelaughter93]

I love being degraded in messages! It turns me on big time and my pussy becomes dripping wet. I love being someone's dirty little whore or filthy cum slut.

 

[Yardley]

Very early in my online life, I was in an AOL chatroom and randomly began chatting with an English lady. I think she mentioned her "best friend" once or twice and for some reason I just seized on that to say how sexy her friend was compared to her. And she melted into a puddle of arousal. I told her how much prettier and sexier her best friend was and how her husband secretly wanted to fuck her friend and that he thought about her friend while he fucked her.

I went through every body part and told her that her friend was sexier. And I told her that her friend was more talented sexually than her. And that her friend laughed at her and pitied her for how ugly and plain and unsexy she was.

And this English lady said she came and came as I degraded her. We chatted several times like this and each time it was a huge turn-on for me to degrade her, even getting into abusing her by spanking and slapping her (in chat) and forcing her to use (sometimes painful) household objects as dildoes because that was all she deserved. I had never done any kind of verbal cruelty, but found I enjoyed it!

As happens, I lost track of her after a few chats. And I decided to try verbal abuse with the next lady I chatted with. We were just getting started and I used the word "bitch". She immediately informed me that our chat was over and how dare I use such a nasty demeaning word to her. And that's when I began to learn that kink is not a one-size-fits-all thing.

Hahaha.

I had a similar experience with "cunt." I am not in the habit of using it in casual conversation, and always refer to the part not using it as a slur for the woman herself.

It became a thing with a girl I was seeing that when she was really turned on (and only then) she loved it. It was only when we were playing rough.

So much later, I meet a new girl and she is liking all the same things as the other girl and in the course of some rough dirty talk I said something about shoving may hard cock into her eager cunt or some such, and she shut me down hard.

 

[BareBackRider2]

I want it to go a step further.

I want my wife to drink my drink and spit it back into the glass for me to drink after.

Or to spit in my food. Or my face.

She's drooled into my open mouth but that's as close as its got.

 

[BettyPoop]

I'm surprised this thread died.

 

[whenagain]

yeah, my gf used to lightly mock me during sex, it would turn me on. then she'd up the ante.

 

[lonelyslave]

mistress cosey once she placed a Hershey’s kiss in her asshole and commanded me to pull it out with my teeth and eat it. I’m not sure if the act itself was humiliating or the fact I was wearing black thigh highs when I did it.

 

[bluesky496]

I'm surprised this thread died.

so it isnt just me who notices these grammatical errors .

 

[bluesky496]

i confess i love the verbal humiliation ,someone telling me what a slut i am and how much i love what they are doing to me and making me admit it ,i find it such a turn on .

 

[LoversPlayToy]

Damn right I do.

I makes me feel so much more inferior and weaker which adds to my submissiveness.

 

[sazzyslut69]

i confess i love the verbal humiliation ,someone telling me what a slut i am and how much i love what they are doing to me and making me admit it ,i find it such a turn on .

Exactly this. LOVE LOVE LOVE it. It makes sex 100x better if I'm being told what a slut/whore I am.

 

[betabrad]

I admit, I do get turned on by a little humiliation, as you might be able to tell from my profile.

I would love for a woman to tease me about how small my dick is .

My fantasy is - when a woman sees my small penis for the first time, she tells me that my dick is too little to fuck . She tells me that I should lock it up in chastity and wear panties and only be allowed to please her with my tongue.

 

[turbocs37]

cumslut

I love being called names while I'm sucking some guy off. Gets me so hard when he verbally abuses me. Cumslut, bitch, whore, faggot, cocksucker. All that and whatever else he can think of.

 

[Xojlene2015xo]

I wouldn't stop mite just make me wetter

 

[BJ476]

insulted & degraded

I currently have sex with a lady who loves degrading me. She knows my favorite obsession is to suck her pussy while she is fucking so she calls me on the phone when she is with someone and invites me over. Her favorite line is "I have a big cock in my pussy right now would you like to clean it when he is finished?" She makes me tell he what I want and then I get to come to her house and wait while she fucks him in the bedroom. Each time he cums she leaves him and brings her sweet pussy to me in the living room. I never get to see his face but eventually she will blindfold me and lead me into the bedroom where he is waiting.

 

[BettyPoop]

i confess i love the verbal humiliation ,someone telling me what a slut i am and how much i love what they are doing to me and making me admit it ,i find it such a turn on .

Have we ever chatted or role played? Maybe we should.

 

[UKMichael46]

I have dominant desires. My wife's vanilla. But the other week while fucking, I started telling her what a hot, dirty cunt she was - it turned me on so much when she began thrusting back hard.

 

[rhod101]

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[bluesky496]

I love being degraded in messages! It turns me on big time and my pussy becomes dripping wet. I love being someone's dirty little whore or filthy cum slut.

i know how you feel , i love that feeling too.

 

[34DDasian]

......

 

[Aluris]

Degradation/humiliation is great when part of play. I have a fantasy of being taken to a group party and being one of, or the only, 'staff' who waits on them with drinks and food, to be treated as part of the furniture as the night goes on. Finally I'd be taken by each of them in all of my holes, only cast aside when I'm full with their cum, to clean up their mess...

... that's what I think about on my quieter nights Although there's nothing wrong with one on one either. It gets oh-so-intense that way.

 

[honey1989]

insulted

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

willing knows how I feel about this. And willing knows I keep coming back for more