Just a handjob

[PaulBG]

I have many sensations, memories, etc. of handjobs but one of my favorite experiences with them involved seeing/catching someone else giving another guy one....I was in a precarious position, but a lucky one, and only got to see and sneak moments of quick peeks once I realized what I'd stumbled upon, but it was very...inspirational (lol) to me at that earlier time and beyond.

 

[ender27]

*****

 

[loveupskirt]

I have a strong love of hand jobs. I enjoy bj's and fucking as well as love pleasing a woman with my mouth, but there is something incredible about a good hand job. I can honestly say that if I had to choose, I'd take a slow lingering hand job over a bj. Maybe it is selfish but no more so than a bj or cunnilingus.

 

[deviant81]

It's been ages since I had a good old fashioned handie!

 

[Felix_Jones]

I got a handjob a few times and the whole time I'm thinking: "My dear, I've been doing this since I was 12, and you're doing it worng."

 

[subwannabe]

I have to admit that my first girlfriend gave me handjobs better than I had been doing it myself. I have used her technique ever since. That was decades ago.

 

[mara101]

Dunno if this qualifies, but often when i'm watching porn or especially when I'm in a sex chatroom, i wish i had someone giving me a handjob or a blowjob cos i find it hard typing with one hand..... someone with a good solid grip and a good twisting wank motion.

I don't have a fetish for giving hand jobs, but I've always loved doing it. Its like exercising your abilities. AND you get the cum at the end. But your idea is VERY sexy, I LOVE giving them while a guy watches porn, like I'm not even there.

 

[positivetension]

I have trouble getting how I guy would prefer a handjob to a blowjob, given the choice. As someone else pointed out, sometimes it's the only thing you can get away with. That makes sense to me and sounds rather fun in context. But beyond that, I can't imagine not using my mouth. It would be very difficult to keep myself from doing it. If I were just stroking him, I'd feel like I wasn't doing anything he couldn't do for himself, with greater expertise. I would honestly feel a bit anxious about not doing more for him.

 

[RunningJib]

Damm Straight

I enjoy stroking a man and watching him enjoy it.

I want to hear her voice. Her whispers, her past, her fantasies and her naughty thoughts

I want her to use her hands, belly and tits. I want to watch how her body moves as she strokes me


. . . she just using her other talents

 

[ohsalamanca]

I have trouble getting how I guy would prefer a handjob to a blowjob, given the choice.

It's all about change-of-pace and keeping things interesting. A five-course dinner is nice, but a simple soup and salad is nice every once in a while too. Or tossed salad, if you go that way.

 

[RunningJib]

Why not try something different?

I have trouble getting how I guy would prefer a handjob to a blowjob, given the choice. As someone else pointed out, sometimes it's the only thing you can get away with. That makes sense to me and sounds rather fun in context. But beyond that, I can't imagine not using my mouth. It would be very difficult to keep myself from doing it. If I were just stroking him, I'd feel like I wasn't doing anything he couldn't do for himself, with greater expertise. I would honestly feel a bit anxious about not doing more for him.

see #34

why not try something different?

Surely you've noticed how your lover gets off when you look him in his eyes. But what would it do to him if you to tell him abut a prior lover or tell him about a fantasy?

Perhaps 'oral' is a misnomer. Oral doesn't just mean your mouth wrapped around his cock. Rather, tell him about your first cock, how he's going to fuck you, . . .

 

[positivetension]

It's all about change-of-pace and keeping things interesting. A five-course dinner is nice, but a simple soup and salad is nice every once in a while too. Or tossed salad, if you go that way.

It seems so impersonal and begrudging! It's literally keeping him at arm's length

I understand everyone likes different things, it's just one them that I never really got.

 

[ohsalamanca]

It seems so impersonal and begrudging! It's literally keeping him at arm's length

Handjobs may start at arm's length, but they don't necessarily have to end that way...and with sufficient passion and effort, they can become anything but impersonal. Also, with you focused solely on him, his hands are free to engage themselves elsewhere, which creates all different opportunities for unexpected fun.

 

[Artfan2]

It can be quite intimate...

It seems so impersonal and begrudging! It's literally keeping him at arm's length

I understand everyone likes different things, it's just one them that I never really got.

You can always move your face in close to his while you're doing it and whisper naughty thoughts to him while you watch the intense expressions flash across his face as you vary where you place your hand and your technique.

 

[Houstontexsag01]

totally agree

It seems so impersonal and begrudging! It's literally keeping him at arm's length

I understand everyone likes different things, it's just one them that I never really got.

I couldn't agree more with this assessment. It seems like more of a means to an end than anything. There are at least a hundred other more fun and intimate ways to get off.

 

[Carnevil9]

......If I were just stroking him, I'd feel like I wasn't doing anything he couldn't do for himself, with greater expertise. I would honestly feel a bit anxious about not doing more for him.

Think of it in terms of tickling - tickling yourself is barely a sensation, but getting tickled by someone else is orders of magnitude more powerful. Same with cock-stroking: doing it to yourself is a pale shadow of having it done to you by someone else. Especially someone you love.

 

[loveupskirt]

I have trouble getting how I guy would prefer a handjob to a blowjob, given the choice. As someone else pointed out, sometimes it's the only thing you can get away with. That makes sense to me and sounds rather fun in context. But beyond that, I can't imagine not using my mouth. It would be very difficult to keep myself from doing it. If I were just stroking him, I'd feel like I wasn't doing anything he couldn't do for himself, with greater expertise. I would honestly feel a bit anxious about not doing more for him.

The thing is that great sex is about being in tune with your partner and being able to read them. If your partner enjoys your hand more than your mouth, what difference does it make if you're doing something he could do himself? Besides, everything is different if someone else is doing it to you. And you can have close eye contact, kiss, or talk dirty while you are stroking him. And a mixture of hand and or mouth is always nice for me personally. Getting past your own perceptions to what feels best and actually caring about what feels best to your partner will make anyone a better lover.

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

I love giving a nice HJ.

 

[blkjames]

I love giving a nice HJ.

I love to get them

 

[photobuff56]

I have trouble getting how I guy would prefer a handjob to a blowjob, given the choice. As someone else pointed out, sometimes it's the only thing you can get away with. That makes sense to me and sounds rather fun in context. But beyond that, I can't imagine not using my mouth. It would be very difficult to keep myself from doing it. If I were just stroking him, I'd feel like I wasn't doing anything he couldn't do for himself, with greater expertise. I would honestly feel a bit anxious about not doing more for him.

I'd settle for this, I give my self hand jobs all the time. My wife doesn't like to do either.

 

[sandra753]

I love to give hj and watch the look on their faces.

 

[MissJW]

I love giving handjobs to my man! For me his cock is beautiful, fits my hand perfectly and my fingers just land on the magic spots by themselves. Generous amount of lube and off we go! As others have said, seeing his pleasure, kissing him while at it and just being in complete control by something so simple is incredible!

Well, I consider his cock my favourite toy in the entire world, actually. It's mine, and I can fiddle with it when ever I see fit. It's up to me how far we go and if he orgasms or not - or how many times in a row. It can be casual and spontaneous, or it can be thoroughly planned and executed with care and dedication. As I said, I love it.

 

[amofiga]

Hi folks,

I'm new here, so please be gentle. I'm intrigued as to whether anyone else shares my current 'fetish.' It's become all about handjobs to me. Yes, sliding my cock slowly into a pussy and watching the lips as they stretch around my shaft is a beautiful thing. As is feeling a tongue exploring every inch of me. However, I've recently come to realise that there is nothing quite as exquisite as feeling oil poured onto my hardening cock before it is enveloped by soft fingers and caressed until I explode.

It's on my mind constantly. Perhaps it's pure selfishness but I love it. Anyone else share my view?

Slow handjobs from women who love to watch cum pump out before licking it up and off their hand can be quite quite erotic. The quick pump just to get you off. not so much.

My first sexual experience at an age too young to even think about mentioning here was with the girl I grew up with who lived two houses up. One day, she told me that she knew what boys did called "jerking off" and she wanted me to do it so that she "could see the stuff squirt out." We went down to her basement and I did it for her. A few days later, I asked if SHE wanted to do it for me, to which she gave a positive reply and I also asked if I could stick my finger in her. Again agreed. We shared some sweet fairly innocent times in her basement that summer.

So many times when I masturbate or have it done for me, my memory harkens back to those innocent "play doctore" times of my life.

 

[Erosfan]

Think of it in terms of tickling - tickling yourself is barely a sensation, but getting tickled by someone else is orders of magnitude more powerful. Same with cock-stroking: doing it to yourself is a pale shadow of having it done to you by someone else. Especially someone you love.

This is the best explanation I've seen!