Just an opinion peice

[WriterDom]

Oh no no, I take full and complete credit for tearing down and exposing this little wannabe-somebody who's not.

What is a wannabe sub? About all that's required to be a submissive is a pulse and brain waves. You can call her a bad sub, but that's just your judgement.

The banana up your ass, as you showed in the Dom Lounge, is that she's flirting with the Het Doms. Or more specificly, one or more of the Het Doms that you don't like.

 

[zipman]

Re: Re: to unregistered

Actually, and with all due respect, if the two weren't such good buds, Unreg has almost the same type/style of humor that Lancecastor has.

Ironic how folks here think Lance is funny and this person somehow isn't. To me, the brand of humor is one and the same.

Oh well, on to more interesting things ~

Actually SC, when I first read the post, I thought as you did that they had similar syntax etc. However, while I have found some of Lance's posts to be funny as hell, I did not see any humor in the trolls posts. They were mean and hurtful, and had no humor in them that I can see.

For the record, I am not defending Lance here, as he needs no one to defend him, and my personal view is that the only person whose posts I have to worry about are my own.

I just wanted to calrify that I do not see humor in the troll posts.

I doubt anyone else would either.

 

[Trainerman]

unregistered

Oh no no, I take full and complete credit for tearing down and exposing this little wannabe-somebody who's not

What? Let me get this right......you want to take credit for a very poor piece of writing and yet you don't wish to use your screename?? This simple question might just overload your solitary braincell, but if there were any credit due (which manifestly there isn't)..how can you gain credit from it when there is no name..no 'Lit persona' to credit?

In any case you have exposed nothing except your own lack of class, honour, integrity and an amoeba like intellect. Any moron can throw crude insults....look, you just proved it !

I also agree with Lance on this one...to use one anonymity to hide another is farcical.

Finally, re the earlier "she can't defend herself' rubbish. It is good that she has...as I earlier invited.....treated all this with due contempt. Silence is not agreement..merely the strength to ignore trivial insults.

I..on the other hand.....regard Rose as a friend and my friends enemy is my enemy. Therefore I feel free to post MY rebuttal(s) of your idiocy. Have you got that or shall I try to find some really small words to explain it to you?

Now go away , you silly LITTLE person

 

[zipman]

Easy sir-to-k

You don't know who you're messing with. I have cruised the GB and this guy with the name "unregistered" is all over the place. He posts on most of the threads there. I don't know what kind of job he has that he can hang out online all the time but he just posts and posts and posts.

Of course, most of his posts are as idiotic as the ones he put here!

 

[SexyChele]

Re: Re: Re: to unregistered

Actually SC, when I first read the post, I thought as you did that they had similar syntax etc. However, while I have found some of Lance's posts to be funny as hell, I did not see any humor in the trolls posts. They were mean and hurtful, and had no humor in them that I can see.

For the record, I am not defending Lance here, as he needs no one to defend him, and my personal view is that the only person whose posts I have to worry about are my own.

I just wanted to calrify that I do not see humor in the troll posts.

I doubt anyone else would either.

Quite frankly, I do not find the troll's post humorous at all. But then, personally, I don't find Lance to be humorous, witty, or funny either.

I find neither funny nor amusing. That was my point. Just noticed a similarity in desire to cut other people down in an attempt to be "funny". I've never thought that type of humor to be anything but confusing and annoying.

Besides, the more this person is "fed" the more his/her ego is being puffed up. There is an old saying here at Lit: "Don't feed the trolls - they'll keep coming back." Might be best just to ignore this person?

 

[Trainerman]

Re: Easy sir-to-k

You don't know who you're messing with. I have cruised the GB and this guy with the name "unregistered" is all over the place. He posts on most of the threads there.

Oh no..its a superman !! lol
Nice one Zipman !

(hey..psst maybe there is more than one !! Oh no..circle the wagons...we are outnumbered !!)

Sexychele..I do agree in general about don't feed the trolls but I am afraid that personal attacks of this level of vitriol cannot be left unchallenged. I think that also encourages but in a different way.

So <<<<John Wayne voice>>>> A mans gotta do what a mans gotta do !

 

[SexyChele]

Re: Re: Easy sir-to-k

Sexychele..I do agree in general about don't feed the trolls but I am afraid that personal attacks of this level of vitriol cannot be left unchallenged. I think that also encourages but in a different way.

So <<<<John Wayne voice>>>> A mans gotta do what a mans gotta do !

I can respect your opinion, and only you know what is right for you to do. However, choosing one's battles wisely works well at Lit. These people, registered or not, will always be here regardless of what people think of them. The question is, how much energy does one wish to expend on them?

 

[Trainerman]

Re: Re: Re: Easy sir-to-k

....... The question is, how much energy does one wish to expend on them?

thanks for your response Sexychele. The answer lies in three parts

1) I do pick and choose when and why I respond.
2) They take no energy from me. They are far below my mental horizon and I find it therefore to be a little light relief.
3) IF it were necessary in defence of a friend or something that I hold dear to use ALL of my energy then I would do so. Without a second thought. As I have said before...for the evil to triumph needs nothing more than for those of good will to stand back and do nothing. I DO pick my shots. Doing nothing and letting the bad triumph by default is not my style.

Thanks. Have a good day

Dave

 

[A Desert Rose]

Be off with you now, before someone drops a house on you, too.....

I think you all would agree with me when I say that in my observations here, Trolls hit a time or 2 and then run off, not to be seen again for awhile. And when they do reappear, it's to try and harm someone else.

I refuse to be harmed by an unknown. I can do enough harm to myself, all by myself that no ONE anonymous mean person can do to me. That was pretty convoluted, did anyone understand it? I am not sure I did.

Thank you all for the postings here and elsewhere. It will go away, and return again in another carnation to spit at someone else. I am just a name on the screen to him, just as this mindless creature is to me.

Rose

 

[cymbidia]

Re: Re: Re: No this is not it

BTW I am not sure what a het Dom is

Heterosexual dominant, Richard, is the specific definition.
I'm a bifemsub--a bisexual female submissive.
You see how these things go?

 

[A Desert Rose]

And might I add...

I know who my friends are. I know them well enough, even in this short of a time frame, to know they would never post anything this mean to anyone, especially to me.

Rose

P.S. Lance, that AV absolutely scares the bejesus out of me. Just my humble observation.

 

[Richard49]

IMHO

If a person is so much of a coward to identify themselves
then they are not worth my physical,emotional or spiritual energy

but then
what do I know

 

[Daddyslilpet]

IMHO

If a person is so much of a coward to identify themselves
then they are not worth my physical,emotional or spiritual energy

but then
what do I know

I'd have to say you know alot Richard. JMHO tho.

~smiles~
dixi

 

[Lancecastor]

The Prime Minister of Canada

P.S. Lance, that AV absolutely scares the bejesus out of me. Just my humble observation.

If you think George Bush and Dick Cheney are scary, then you haven't met The Prime Minister of Canada, The Right Honourable Jean Chretien, an undoctored picture of whom is currently my AV.

Big Jean. "The Little Guy From Shawinigan" (he's French, from Quebec) is currently visiting Dubya....a pic of them together is today's big newspaper pic across Canada...one in which Dubya (no genius himself) is obviously thinking "WHAT a retard!"

He is still very popular in Canada after 40 some years in politics, and talks a lot like John Cleese as The Frenchman in The Holy Grail, except sillier.

"Fetchez la vache!"

And he shares my birthday, so you KNOW he's funny, genius-smart, stubborn, a natural leader, a shit-disturber....and as you can see, oh so very handsome.

He's never lost a political battle and recently announced he's going to retire in February 2004 (!!!)....just so the logical successor (who he hates) will be too old to be credible.

*Sigh* I think he's dreamy.

Cheers;

Lance

 

[rosco rathbone]

As you know, I lurked for a month before I posted in here. I wanted to get a feel for the ideas expressed and IF they would be helpful to me regarding those things I felt I needed to learn and improve on. I also wanted to get a feel for the individuals posting here (the people I felt who would be open to answering my questons and understanding my naivete, kind people, if you will.) I discovered 6 individuals that I felt would be welcoming to me and would accept my overtures and my questions and kindly direct me.

I posted a bit and even got brave and PM'd a few of them. And as I had hoped, those 6 people were as friendly and kind and helpful as I had thought they would be. I felt welcomed and embraced and somewhat understood by them, as understood as one can ever be in an online atmosphere in which people don't REALLY know one another.

I felt left out and ignored by the women in here. Certain females here would not respond to my posts. I was/am not sure why that happened. However, it's no longer germaine to my train of thinking. I decieded that my opinions were valid, my questions were not stupid ones and they could ignore me and it would be fine with me. I never posted an unkind thing towards anyone. And I never will. I won't engage in forum arguements. I read a post and if I don't agree, I will usually not respond in any way.

I wanted to learn from the Doms. I wanted to nuture that part of me that was awakened only a short couple of years ago. I posted threads directed at the het Doms, for my benefit. Yes, for MY benefit. I wanted so to learn what I had failed at and how not to make those same mistakes again. There is already a wealth of information here from subs and I appreciate it and I read it, but there seemed to be so little input from the Doms. So, this was my reason for asking them (the Doms) to give me their views on this lifestyle - and how to make it successful for me.

Who responded to my threads? Dommes and subs. Occassionally Artful. Maybe my threads were too simplistic. Maybe they were too childish. Maybe they were old and worn out topics. Maybe for whatever reason, the Doms don't like me. I have no idea. But I have learned more from the Dommes than anyone here. (Thank you Eb, MsWorthy and Shadowsdream.)

**** Now we arrive at the real purpose of this thesis: I am hurt that I have been ultimately shunned and ignored by the het Doms in here, aside from Artful, who has been very kind and supportive. I will not throw barbs at any one of you. You are all smarter and quicker witted than I. I cannot even begin to compete in an intellectual battle with any one of you. Furthermore, it is counter-productive to do so. And it is passive/aggressive behavior. I will not be accused of that by men who do not know me. I have here stated my feelings on this matter and respectivly so. I will say no more about it. I am not a flamer.

I did not post this thread to be provocative, or to start an argument or to glean responses from any one of you. I have been posting for a month, reading for a month before that and I have an opinion or 2. This is one of them. This is how THIS newbie feels about the level of acceptance in this forum, especially from the het Doms. I have asked for education and information and you have ignored me. This is not a "poor me" thread. It was written to bring to attention to how this newbie views the level of acceptance here.

I am not passive/aggressive. I have, what I think, is a dry, wry and sometimes slightly sarcastic sense of humor. (like that aliteration?) I am not a pillow princess. I yam what I yam- a work in progress, a woman who wants to be the best she can be in a lifestyle she feels is right for her. I know who and what I am, I need not explain myself to anyone.

I will continue to read here, call it lurking if you like. I may even post occassionally. However the het Doms, have shown me my place in this forum and I will stay there. They can analyze me and dissect my words and determine I am neurotic or in the words of one -"a wounded bird" or that I am passive/aggressive or a pillow princess or a mattress maven or a liar. They can post threads that are more inflammatory than educational, in my opinion, i.e. Are you a Pillow Princess? And they can ellude to whomever they think fits that particular title. Perhaps it is me, however, I know who I am, and that is all that matters in the end.

Just an opinion peice- MINE,
Rose

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Get in touch with Jon Jacobs, the Dom's Dom. Here's his site:

http://www.submissivewomenspeak.com/converse.htm

As far as I know, he's pretty much willing to communicate with all comers (submissive womanwise), but he may or may not be taking on new disciples or mentorees or whatever the fuck it's called at this point.

rascoe

 

[Lancecastor]

Don't Accept Pale Imitations!

Worried about the authenticity of your insulting posts?

I put the *LanceCastor Squeal of Approval* on all my posts....it's your assurance of nothing but the highest-grade internet pron hoo-hah.

And Remember.....If it doesn't say LanceCastor....it just ain't!

Cheers;

Lance "The One The Only, Spank Your Lucky Starz" Castor

Actually SC, when I first read the post, I thought as you did that they had similar syntax etc. However, while I have found some of Lance's posts to be funny as hell, I did not see any humor in the trolls posts. They were mean and hurtful, and had no humor in them that I can see.

For the record, I am not defending Lance here, as he needs no one to defend him, and my personal view is that the only person whose posts I have to worry about are my own.

I just wanted to calrify that I do not see humor in the troll posts.

I doubt anyone else would either.

 

[Daedalus77]

Rose

I am a het dom and fairly new to this board but I've posted in other bdsm groups for 4 years and it seems het doms as a group just don't post that much.

In my regular group some of the subs will call me out for not posting enough so I post more often but dwindle off after a while. It's not that I don't like the subs it is I just don't post that much. There are so many boards in Lit. that I doubt even if I post twice a day I don't think I would be noticed. I usually won't reply to a broad general topic such as a "what do you like" post but do enjoy more specfic discussions like this one.

My point is that you may be taking lack of response more personally than intended. You can pm me anytime.

 

[PlayDoe]

Bend don't break

You know it's funny Rose, I just got online today and the first thing that caught my eye as I looked through the posts was your name! I said to myself, "Alright, I wonder what Rose has to say?" I was actually excited to see the length of your post.

But then ..........................


Kaboom!


You dropped a bomb on me. (another song and maybe some light humor to cheer you up)


Geez, what's the turnover rate in this place?

 

[rosco rathbone]

In July I would have been at the big Cherry Festival and seen Foeigner & Kansas (For a laff), George Benson and Natalie Cole (for real).

This fall I'd enroll in some modern dance classes at NMC....

I'd be planning a trip somewhere like Montreal or San Fransisco...

I'd be at local singles dances if I were you, too.

Kink is everywhere......just go do the things you like to do.

You know the drill!

Lance

The hottest bitch I ever fucked was the girlfriend of a band-mate whom I met answering an ad on a bulletin board in a fanzine store. She was the love of my life. The second hottest, I met in Tai Chi Class.
Another one worked downstairs from me-she was an intern in a recording studio. I met a ballerina who lived in a house under a gigantic bush when I was a door-to-door Bible salesman in Sausalito. She baked me some cookes, and wanted to blow me and be beaten, but I saw a portrait of her smiling kids and husband and lost my will.

Keep your head up.

rosco

 

[Richard49]

The hottest bitch I ever fucked was the girlfriend of a band-mate whom I met answering an ad on a bulletin board in a fanzine store. She was the love of my life. The second hottest, I met in Tai Chi Class.
Another one worked downstairs from me-she was an intern in a recording studio. I met a ballerina who lived in a house under a gigantic bush when I was a door-to-door Bible salesman in Sausalito. She baked me some cookes, and wanted to blow me and be beaten, but I saw a portrait of her smiling kids and husband and lost my will.

Keep your head up.

rosco

Bible salesman?

 

[Rubyfruit]

Bible salesman?

My thoughts exactly, Richard.

 

[Lancecastor]

cookies?

She baked me some cookes, and wanted to blow me and be beaten, but I saw a portrait of her smiling kids and husband and lost my will.

Keep your head up.

rosco