Keeping the spark alive

[BoredAsianWifey]

Tell me he didn't? Hate to say it but having been through same thing, your marriage is in big trouble, if not over.
You two ladies are Absolutely Gorgeous!!!

Since he was the boss and for some reason when snow storm is coming people act like they have to get weeks of food. One of our stores ran out of Toilet paper and bread. He left after dinner and my friend and I decide to go hangout.

 

[yourhornyfriend]

Try and start things earlier in the evening. When work is busy and your sorting the kids and housework. I find Im tired and not in the mood at bedtime. Though I do make an effort if my wife seems horny.

So, go bed a bit ealier. Have a nice chat and maybe a drink. Then take things from there.

 

[Travler99921]

Unexpected result

I know it sounds strange, but what revived the spark for my wife and myself was when I started having sex with men. I did so with her knowledge. My desire for her increased as did her desire for me.

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

Different

Well, I try something totally different.

I met a guy from Lit a couple days ago. At a hotel near the airport. He change his connection flight to meet me and we got stuck in a snow storm. Karma?

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

Married 25+ years; it was her second marriage and had two kids from previous (she's more than 10 years older than me). It was usual married sex while the kids were around, and I always expected things would ramp up when the kids moved out, but instead it went down to eventually nothing.

It's been nothing for quite a while now. Pretty sure it's going to be like that for the duration.

Sound like how mine is.

 

[RockHardKP]

BoredAsianWifey,
I am certainly no expert in this area so take this for what its worth, which is a man's point of view.
I understand the rut that many couples get in with work, kids, etc. Lived it.

If you are looking for ways to spice things up for you and your husband, I commend you. Everyone is different so perhaps he will not appreciate the same things that I do, but I like it when my wife initiates sex, and I love dirty talk. The idea is to strike quick and be spontaneous. Here are a few ideas you might try to get things started.

- Whisper in his ear something naughty. Perhaps you are out in public at the grocery store and you are waiting in line. Lean in and whisper in his ear...."I wanna suck your dick". My wife used to do that and I always thought it was a good idea.

- When crawling into bed, ask him what time he is getting up for work and then tell him...."I am going to set my alarm (1/2 hr earlier). I am going to fuck you before you leave for work. We are going to start tomorrow off right" ....

- When he is sitting on the couch and relaxing before bed (kids in their rooms), approach him and hold a finger, that you just had in your pussy, under his nose. Let him smell you....kiss him and rub his crotch....then whisper in his ear "My pussy needs a good licking. I will meet you in the bedroom". Then turn and head to the room. .. He will be close behind.

PS: You are stunningly beautiful

 

[OldFred65]

Try to spice things up last night. Went to dinner with hubby and another girl. But hubby got call back to work since it got busy because people got scared of the incoming snow storm.

I would have risked losing my job to stay with you two.

 

[mortis]

Talking openly look for a yes no maybe list to share I also have heard of some apps that you can share fantasies that match.

 

[Bigbobnc]

Try to spice things up last night. Went to dinner with hubby and another girl. But hubby got call back to work since it got busy because people got scared of the incoming snow storm.

Holy cow, drop dead gorgeous for sure !!!! and a great smile to go with it

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

New outfit

New outfit

 

[PleasePeesMe]

If that

doesn't reignite the spark, I don't know what will.

 

[RockHardKP]

New outfit

WOW! You are a Beautiful Woman

 

[keeperofsecrets69]

maybe its an actual chemistry thing and his loss of drive or desire is a testosterone issue. Its not uncommon especially in men over 40ish. I highly doubt that he isnt attracted to you but if there is no water in the well pumping the handle isnt gonna work. I have responsibilities when it snows also, but if I was in that situation my wife and her friend would have been drug to the office with me to be taken on my desk or in the cab of a plow truck.. just sayin

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

Mommy night out

https://ibb.co/8ctXt0z

 

[Uneklensane]

Try to spice things up last night. Went to dinner with hubby and another girl. But hubby got call back to work since it got busy because people got scared of the incoming snow storm.

Just a small note....DAMN!!!! Both of you are crazy wicked beautiful.

 

[StickMN]

https://ibb.co/8ctXt0z[url][/QUOTE]...ention Well deserved :heart: :rose: :kiss:

 

[WhO2]

We are in the same boat - we just had our 30th and so have been trying some of these for a few years

- I used to tell her early in the day "I'm getting laid tonight. I'd love you to be a part of it, but you aren't required...". It would lead to talk throughout the day, and we would both make the time that evening

- she would ask me to go to the store with her. I would agree but she had to point out at least 1 woman, and one man she would like to have sex with. We never did anything like real swapping but it still caused some great discussions

- She's a teacher, so in summer when she was sleeping in and I was going to the office I would leave her a task in a note on her night stand. Sometimes it was masturbate in the jacuzzi while fantasizing about her friend 'Kasey'. When she came she would have to tell fantasy Kasey, Kasey you're making me cum!". When done, she would send me a text with "Done" and the lips emoji

- Sometimes her task was to watch a video I left her on the laptop (usually BBC vids) that she had to masturbate while watching. She sends the same "Done" text messages.

Now she sometimes sends the texts even though I didn't leave her a task. These are all about setting aside time, anticipating how fun it will be, then talking about it.

Good luck!

 

[Shenanigans90]

https://ibb.co/8ctXt0z

You are stunning!

 

[99Freedom]

Try to spice things up last night. Went to dinner with hubby and another girl. But hubby got call back to work since it got busy because people got scared of the incoming snow storm.

Leaving the two of you would be very difficult.

 

[smtst5]

New outfit

For me, mornings are usually better. Less stress and more energy. Plus I’m usually rock hard. Reach over and rub your hand up one of his thighs and down the other and back. Repeat if necessary.

 

[HarleyFarmer]

Being married 20 years, 2 kids, and him working 7 days a week (12+ hours days), I work 4 days a week. Its getting hard to keep the spark alive.

How does everything keep there sex life active?

We’ve been married almost 40 years and I’ve been trying for years, many years to spice things up and add some spark but every time I try to introduce something new she either dismisses it or it gets watered down to the point of actually being the same as before!! It gets pretty frustrating and I’m on the verge of just giving up and we’ll do it whenever and however she wants because I’m too old and too tired to try and come up with something new that she might like!’

 

[Vman55]

New outfit

No way I go back to work with you looking like that. They would just have to wait.

 

[dz2681]

New outfit

Gorgeous! Feeling more than a spark after seeing that pic. If that doesn’t light his fire I don’t know what will.

 

[Uneklensane]

Direct

With full respect I ask this question. Do you by any chance have a cock?

 

[DesmondinExile]

New outfit

Catching up on this thread and just had to say that picture is jaw dropping hot