Keeping the spark alive

Being married 20 years, 2 kids, and him working 7 days a week (12+ hours days), I work 4 days a week. Its getting hard to keep the spark alive.

How does everything keep there sex life active?
ours suffered a slow death over 25 years......in retrospect, i fear she wasn't that into it to start with....*****'s crushing pressures of 4 kids, tons of work, having 3 kids in college simultaneously for 3 years, etc ad nauseum, finally rendered what, for years, was a halfway decent sex life into sheer oblivion.....now once or twice a year one or the other of us mention that "we ought to have sex sometime"......i guess we could coin a phrase of "conversational fucking" or something of that nature.....but the pathetic reality is.....all appearances are....its over/dead/kaput........i think over the years we each made our "push" at one time or another to enhance things, do things better/different etc......but really to no avail. i do know there ARE some couples though who maintain some form of decent sex life well into their old age....so it IS possible. good luck.
 
It looked like you had so much fun!!!
Wish you were stranded in my neck of the woods
 
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