Keeping the spark alive

Being married 20 years, 2 kids, and him working 7 days a week (12+ hours days), I work 4 days a week. Its getting hard to keep the spark alive.

How does everything keep there sex life active?
Careers asking you to work 45-50 hours a week and tossing in keeping up a household does not leave a lot of time for keeping the flame going. For my husband and I we do enjoy sex when we can plus we love going on vacations where sex is a major theme. Both of us love showering together and taking baths and those always go fun. Plus we are both open minded and kinky so threesomes, swinging and naughty games when given the chance keep things fun.
 
He's got to stop working 12 hours per day and seven days per week or he will lose his health and may lose you guys, family is priceless and money is only as good as what it buys. I know I worked myself almost to death, just lucky I have a great wife that stood by me. It's taken about six years to regain better (but not prefect) health. As for the spark, we use role playing with sexy outfits and light bondage that fits into the stories. Plus we really LOVE each other!

He's getting better. He still work a lot. His day start at 5 am and end at 11 pm. But he can sneak out here and there. He is also willing to try different things so that make things more interesting.
 
He's getting better. He still work a lot. His day start at 5 am and end at 11 pm. But he can sneak out here and there. He is also willing to try different things so that make things more interesting.
That is good - when a person finds themselves in a difficult schedule, it's challenging to find ways to focus on your relationships around it - challenging, but it can be done. The willingness to try is half the journey.
 
Hi guys, sorry haven't been writing too much. Been busy recently. I am trying to squeeze this update in. Some of Hubby's friends wanted to move from California to Texas and a couple of them been staying with us for a month (others been staying at a hotel). My daughter graduate from HS couple weeks ago. Mrs. T went to Monaco to watch the Grand Prix. Mrs. L and her husband open their 5th nail salon and they been busy hiring.

Also Ray is very surprise a lot of people like his work. I will try to convince him to take more photos and I will let him introduce himself for the guys and girls who want to know more him. I will let you guys know he is single :)
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More about Hubby's friends. I dated some of them way back before I started dating my hubby. Texas is big, but its a small world. Someone always know someone who know someone. We didn't find out we knew the same people until we started dating/married. Here some of the things that happen since my last update:

Hubby college friend Marc was the first one to stay with us in May. He is retiring from the Air Force and wanted to move his family away from California. He came by himself to check out the area, go to a few interviews, and decide which job to accept. His kids still had school so he just came alone. We knew him since I was in my 20s, and like old close friends, we flirted around from time to time, but nothing serious. I brought up to Hubby, he could be the next guy. Hubby thought for a moment and agree with me. He said it was the a good idea with Marc's birthday was coming up. We setup it up a late afternoon after Marc came back from an interview with Hubby and they came home with me wearing lingerie in bed.

Another friend name Bill came back to Texas from Seattle. Hubby knew him since they were in school. He had try out for the Cowboys practice team back then, but it didn't get anywhere so he accept an job offer in Seattle and move there, but visit from time to time. He came here for work and stay at the Hilton. We hangout with him a few times, he was in really good shape for his age and Hubby saw how I was looking at him when we went to the pool with him. He ask if I was interested. He said he could tell Bill was always checking me out and he suggested why don't I try to seduce him. Well one night after a late lunch/early dinner. Bill was driving his rental car with Hubby sitting next to him and I was in the back behind my husband. After Hubby told me Bill was looking at me I paid more attention and I did notice it. We drop off my Hubby back at his work and Bill was going drive me home. Once we drove away, Hubby told me to go ahead and try to seduce him. Well I notice he was watching me in the rear view mirror so I pull up my dress and I try to be sexy, I show my panties.

More recently Hubby and I went to a friend who has just preparing to open bar/club. It was set for a soft opening soon and when we got there the DJ was playing music and testing the night club lights. It wasn't completely dark and with the red, yellow, etc lights flashing you could see where you going and make out the bar, table, chairs. We walk over to talk to the DJ. She was hispanic and she was behind the DJ booth. After a while Hubby left us to look for his friend and the DJ told him he was probably in the basement checking on the deliveries. I told Hubby I didn't want to go down to basement in heels so I stay and talk to the DJ. A few minutes later, I notice a pair of hands was on my butt when I was leaning over the booth talking. I didn't think much about it. I just thought hubby came back. I turn slightly and said, "you came back quick" but I don't think he heard me through the loud music. The hands started lifting my dress and I try to shake the hands off. I didn't want to make a scene, but he kept moving.

I will go in more details later. Got to clean up the house before Hubby get home. The kids and their bf/gf came back from their trip and of course want mommy to cook something for them to eat.
 
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