Keeping the spark alive

Being married 20 years, 2 kids, and him working 7 days a week (12+ hours days), I work 4 days a week. Its getting hard to keep the spark alive.

How does everything keep there sex life active?
Well my husband and I do not have anywhere near the stats that you and yours do (congrats on those BTW!) we have always had a non-traditional sex life branching out and enjoying things as we could along the way with open minds.
 
Well my husband and I do not have anywhere near the stats that you and yours do (congrats on those BTW!) we have always had a non-traditional sex life branching out and enjoying things as we could along the way with open minds.

Being from a old traditional Asian family. We were told to work hard and push ourselves (never satisfied). Once I got to college it was a new world for me. While my husband continue the tradition. He believe working 7 days a week and continue building on his business was the best. Once the kids start going to school, it became really boring staying home. You only can go shopping so much and hanging around the restaurants and stores isn't too exciting.

Having other friends whose life is just like mind, we started to branch out. We know it's just for fun, no attachment.
 
Being from a old traditional Asian family. We were told to work hard and push ourselves (never satisfied). Once I got to college it was a new world for me. While my husband continue the tradition. He believe working 7 days a week and continue building on his business was the best. Once the kids start going to school, it became really boring staying home. You only can go shopping so much and hanging around the restaurants and stores isn't too exciting.

Having other friends whose life is just like mind, we started to branch out. We know it's just for fun, no attachment.
My husband came from a very straight laced and traditional family. My family was the black sheep of our family so we were already on the outside and honestly we had way more fun and enjoyed it. My husband met me in college when I was working hard to get my degree but also enjoying the party life. I kind of took him under my wing and broke him out of his shell because someone needed to. One thing we both hated was after we became a couple it seemed like everyone had this list of things we needed to be doing and needed to be considering to be a proper couple. We both hated it so we really kind of began enjoying going against the norm when it came to that. Toss it that with a proper love of sex and down the road we went.
 
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