Keeping the spark alive

You're just a dream being hot as hell and then the post above where you're being so nice, you're far more guys reason to masturbate than you'll ever know........

Wait, there was a question, erm, I'll have to come back later
The perfect outfit for her... :devilish:
 
My wife started to get the hormone shots. Almost 20 years, 3 kids and 2 grandkids and well it's like some one turned the lights off. Super sexy all the time and like we went back 15 years.
 
Seem like guys


Seem like guys think the same. He kept on looking at the mirrors and told me to look.
Yep, nothing like watching her/myself/us at different angles with multiple mirrors. Found out a few years ago how great my ass looked with its muscles flexing while pounding a partner from behind just because of the multiple mirrors and views. We're in the same state, so who knows? Maybe we'll see our reflection one day. A guy can dream, right? ;)
 
Being married 20 years, 2 kids, and him working 7 days a week (12+ hours days), I work 4 days a week. Its getting hard to keep the spark alive.

How does everything keep there sex life active?
I think the bigger picture is to work on the family finances so that working every day, and long hours is just not required. To get expenses down to manageable levels would be best all the way around the table. Working is a wonderful outlet, and laziness being a huge part of the depression epidemic that we have in the world today, but too much work is just as detrimental. A start to that is replies such as this, where a middle-ground is proposed as the better solution.

With time off, and well established budgets that allow you to reconnect, you can do fun things and go fun places. It need not be overly wild or distant. I have done wonderful stay at home nights with the wife, where we got all dressed up, made a nice dinner and celebrated our marriage.

Or did creative photoshoots with camera and abandoned places... all free by the way.

Or draw her a bath, let her read an erotic story written for Literotica as she dines on strawberries and wine while her towel is warming in the dryer when she starts to prune. All this can be done with kids, or after they are gone to bed.

"Mom,why are you so dressed up for dinner".
"Oh, I am just dating your dad tonight", is not a bad thing to show to your kids who will look for back on their childhood and remember what you did when they are with their spouse in latter years.
 
My wife died ten years ago today.

I'm trying to drink the pain away.

All I want to say is to the women is this: You are more to him than you can imagine. It's not your body, it's so much more.

I'm going to be bitter now: Every time she "wasn't in the mood" feels like rejection now. I would never have wanted to force myself on her, but if she had just been willing ....

Don't leave him like that. She was 42. We had forever to have fun and fix whatever was wrong.

Until we didn't.

If it were not for our daughter (16), I'd fucking go right now. I miss her so much.
 
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