Kink or not?

[consar]

Not !

A kink is another persons idea of your sexual fetish but to me there are just things you like and things you dont

 

[vibes]

I understand the , that was kinda dumb. Sorry. Blonde moment. I was thinking since it was a somewhat temporary, mutually beneficial sexual relationship, no commitments, it was easier to indulge a kink. But I realize I wouldn't mind this in a long term relationship either, so nevermind

Blond moments are cute

I thought I would generally be more inclined to indulge a kink in a committed relationship rather than in a temporary one ...

 

[albertaboy]

I think the idea is hot until the moment of truth and my wife is gagging on my cum, then I tend to think it's a bit demeaning.

Funny thing is my wife is cool with it and loves to suck me off.

 

[StrongMaster7]

It's irrelevent to me whether this is a kink of not. It's great that you offered this to him the way you did. IMHO, anything can get old and boring of you do it EVERY time. So, if you want his load on your tits, face, in your pussy or elsewhere, you should use the same technique to get him to do that. Everybody should get what they want from time to time.

 

[DallasDonna]

So I gave him what he wanted last night, then tried to get him to kiss me (and share the bounty). But he pulled back, and off to the bathroom he went.

He's not comfortable discussing sex. I can't exactly say I am either, but there are extremes, and he is a #2 on 1-10, and I am maybe a 6.

But after, I asked him what the problem was, and he said "I'm not into that!"

I said "But I am!"

He just looked at me like I'm weird, and that was the end of that.

 

[greystardust]

So I gave him what he wanted last night, then tried to get him to kiss me (and share the bounty). But he pulled back, and off to the bathroom he went.

He's not comfortable discussing sex. I can't exactly say I am either, but there are extremes, and he is a #2 on 1-10, and I am maybe a 6.

But after, I asked him what the problem was, and he said "I'm not into that!"

I said "But I am!"

He just looked at me like I'm weird, and that was the end of that.

feel you babe

 

[consar]

!

DallasDonna you need to know that he's the weird one not you ! Growdy ups do stuff like that,its in our nature to explore and be inquisitive.Oh,we do this thing to express our feelings n thoughts,its called 'talking' ! My advice is go get a proper bloke who would love to put any part of u in his mouth and swallow any fluid you wish to put in his mouth .send the soft lad back to his mummy .One more thing,nice photo i would happily play cum tennis with her ,sets not matches! Lol

 

[k_m_d_]

You're not weird for wanting to do it, but just going for it when you've (apparently) never discussed it before and he's not particularly sexually open is pretty ballsy. There's a heavy societal stigma against guys tasting themselves. Lots of guys find the concept gross, and even a lot that don't and have tried it would be reluctant to admit it to a partner, let alone partake in it at a moment's notice with no mention of it beforehand. Honestly, I'd probably react the same way.

 

[DallasDonna]

You're not weird for wanting to do it, but just going for it when you've (apparently) never discussed it before and he's not particularly sexually open is pretty ballsy. There's a heavy societal stigma against guys tasting themselves. Lots of guys find the concept gross, and even a lot that don't and have tried it would be reluctant to admit it to a partner, let alone partake in it at a moment's notice with no mention of it beforehand. Honestly, I'd probably react the same way.

You are probably right; if I thought he would be open to a conversation beforehand, I might have considered that approach. But I thought (in the act) it might work. I forgot guys get all introverted after cumming... (all right, not yuze guyz )

 

[avidwriter]

You are probably right; if I thought he would be open to a conversation beforehand, I might have considered that approach. But I thought (in the act) it might work. I forgot guys get all introverted after cumming... (all right, not yuze guyz )

Guys who appreciate their women don't get all introverted. Many just fall asleep. I mean, many love taking time to talk and what not.

 

[vibes]

So I gave him what he wanted last night, then tried to get him to kiss me (and share the bounty). But he pulled back, and off to the bathroom he went.

He's not comfortable discussing sex. I can't exactly say I am either, but there are extremes, and he is a #2 on 1-10, and I am maybe a 6.

But after, I asked him what the problem was, and he said "I'm not into that!"

I said "But I am!"

He just looked at me like I'm weird, and that was the end of that.

He doesn't sound very deserving of the benefits you're granting him

Also, it's commonly known that men get sleepy after cumming, not introverted

 

[twister947]

Once, in the middle of a weekend fuckathon, my woman and I indulged in mutual masturbation. After I came, she leaned down and licked up the cum, every drop, like a cat on cream. I wouldn't call that kinky, but godDAMN it was sexy.

 

[xxromanceguy]

You said you offered him a delicious cum kiss after allowing him to finish the way he enjoys.. why not give him the ride of his life and make him finish inside you... keep riding until he losed his erection ....all while telling him how much you want him to eat you till you orgasm.. maybe after he loses the post orgasm blues that happens to most men, you can straddle his face in 69 and clean each other....tasting your mutual cocktail... then cum kisses will be even better!! I love eating my wife after sex, but I need that extra time to overcome the post orgasm let down..... so I continue thrusting till she orgasms... then, im more than willing to enjoy the rewards of our passion... besides, she absolutely. Has insane orgasms from the act of enthusiasticaly eating her creampie... just a thought. Sensual encouragement may turn him on to the idea... hopefully, he will endulge and he will realize it is a new kink to look forward to...

 

[Yachtsman69]

So I gave him what he wanted last night, then tried to get him to kiss me (and share the bounty). But he pulled back, and off to the bathroom he went.

He's not comfortable discussing sex. I can't exactly say I am either, but there are extremes, and he is a #2 on 1-10, and I am maybe a 6.

But after, I asked him what the problem was, and he said "I'm not into that!"

I said "But I am!"

He just looked at me like I'm weird, and that was the end of that.

Heh...

You might be too kinky for him. Good for you

A couple things...

When I was younger I wouldn't have dreamed of sharing a cum kiss. Now I very much enjoy them. Also I would crash really hard after I climaxed back in my 20's and 30's. Now I don't. Something changed in my body.

So... age him like a good French wine, or find someone who will go with your kink. You are in the driver's seat after all.

 

[klippert]

So I gave him what he wanted last night, then tried to get him to kiss me (and share the bounty). But he pulled back, and off to the bathroom he went.

He's not comfortable discussing sex. I can't exactly say I am either, but there are extremes, and he is a #2 on 1-10, and I am maybe a 6.

But after, I asked him what the problem was, and he said "I'm not into that!"

I said "But I am!"

He just looked at me like I'm weird, and that was the end of that.

That is a selfish lover... he's playing the FWB to the edge, but won't go over. to bad..creamy kiss is hot

 

[DallasDonna]

That is a selfish lover... he's playing the FWB to the edge, but won't go over. to bad..creamy kiss is hot

To be completely honest, I think I was testing his limits, then got pissed off at the double standards, rather than desiring it for myself. I can be unreasonable that way at times

 

[Nomadman]

Personally, I find your act a turn on and if pleases a woman to share...

Then, I want her to enjoy the sexual exploration as much as she desires.

 

[Itsahard1]

That's hardly unreasonable. If he expects you to, you can expect him to also. Would he expect you to taste yourself on his cock? If so, and he won't kiss you; that would really be an unreasonable double standard. IMHO

 

[DallasDonna]

So I gave him what he wanted last night, then tried to get him to kiss me (and share the bounty). But he pulled back, and off to the bathroom he went.

He's not comfortable discussing sex. I can't exactly say I am either, but there are extremes, and he is a #2 on 1-10, and I am maybe a 6.

But after, I asked him what the problem was, and he said "I'm not into that!"

I said "But I am!"

He just looked at me like I'm weird, and that was the end of that.

Update: I kinda boycotted him a bit, then when I gave him what he wanted (we fucked, cowgirl style, when he came I finished him orally) I then shared most of it with him in a snowball- he took it like a champ

 

[IARainman]

Update: I kinda boycotted him a bit, then when I gave him what he wanted (we fucked, cowgirl style, when he came I finished him orally) I then shared most of it with him in a snowball- he took it like a champ

See...he had time to think about how fucking incredibly lucky he is to have a woman like you and to loosen up a little....I mean you wanted him to share a snowball, it's not like you asked him to fuck his ass with a razor blade dildo.

Glad he sucked it up(pun totally intended) and tried. So, maybe there's hope for me to get my wife to let me sample her cream pie....