Kinks And Fetishes

[unfoundiamond]

I agree with BB, A person who likes me should like me first and my physical attributes shouldn't be the reason he wants to talk or spend time with me... Sure looks might get you in the door, but I seek a deeper connection. As I was reading I took from the posts a feeling that what the fetish is may not be the issue as much as the persons obvious selfishness. Maybe you sence these wo/men are not looking for a mental and physical exchange, But are seeking to satasfy their sexual needs only, almost at your expense... It sounds like you see that if someone is drooling over the outside, with no intrest of the inside, s/he is probably a shallow waste looking for sex... I wouldn't give anyone the time of day who was only interested in me for sexual satasfaction... especially when if they are selfcentered before sex, they will most likely be during sex too...

I have a tie to this, I am not BBW persay, I just have a J-lo ass... and I get guys all the time who just want to talk to me because they are ass men and they want to see my ass naked... I won't even give the time of day to these ones... I deal with this a lot and I feel these kind of men will only use me for sex, to gratify themself... and have no intention of being the kind of strong smart man I want to bear my ass for.... (spankings!?Yay!)

I realize we all use each other but like I said it should be an exchange...

 

[Homburg]

I prefer larger women...

I'm not afraid of breaking them if we play hard...

I'm pretty much in the same boat. Then again, you've seen the "Broke my goddamned bed!" thread. I have a reason for that preference

That said, I still find slim ladies attractive. So long as they aren't bony and waifish, I'm okay. In short, do you look like you can survive breeding? Probably okay. My buddy's wife that looks like a skinny 9 year old boy (complete with short hair)? No thanks.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

In short, do you look like you can survive breeding? Probably okay. My buddy's wife that looks like a skinny 9 year old boy (complete with short hair)? No thanks.

I do look like I could take a breeding easily, but I still fear it a lot lol.

On the other side I would not be afraid to face a sadist who would use me to satisfy his needs/wants on my body and break me to untill I said I have enough.

It would need a sadist I know and who can be trusted tho, like my Master for example. I am not intrested to meet some weirdo

I remeber my horscope on the day when I submited to my Master. It said "beware sadists" *chuckles*. And I do beware sadists, the wrong ones. Love the caring sadists tho

 

[Homburg]

I remeber my horscope on the day when I submited to my Master. It said "beware sadists" *chuckles*.

That is dead funny

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

That is dead funny

I must say I was thinking about it for few days when I found out he is a sadist lol, but I don't give any real weight to horoscope's usualy so I went right for it and I am glad I did.

It's all about whats deep inside of that person and all I can say is that I love my sadistic Master.

Without him I wouldn't even know I am such a pain slut lol.

 

[budbigdog]

Why go to extremes?

I am a fairly fit 50 year old divorced guy, and I normally prefer fit women. I am a roadie (rides skinny tire bicycles from 15mph to 18mph) that rides a century at least once a month from May though October.
I once had the experience of a very bad ride where I had to ride back in snow, 25 miles. It was not fun, we had to go over a pass to get back. My penis shrinkage was down to a five year old 0boy.
On most of my rides I see very fit females in riding togs that leaves little to the imagination. I will say that I can see how long a women’s nipples extend as well as how deep her pussy/ass cleft is. I can sometimes tell if she shaves or not, it depends on the riding shorts.
I will say I prefer fit women that shave above the knees, the shaved just means I do not have to deal with the hair when licking. I feel that if a woman is shaved the experience is better for both of us and if she has long nipples there is more to stimulate, also a plus for both of us. I also like to take a women in her brown eye but that is not for every woman. I will also try to slide a finger or three up your bum as I lick you.
I never thought of a BBW as a fetish or as being hairless below your neck.
I will also I will say that I have just met a maybe BBW, Sally, who just drips sensuality who I would like to know better.
You are also attractive so why does it need to be a fetish? So does lusting after a sensual woman mean I have a fetish? Or is my fetish that I like sensual women, and is this really a fetish? Is this a mystery for the cosmos? Who can say.
If a woman has toe cleavage in all of her shoes and lets people know she does. Is that her fetish? If I think that is attractive does that mean I have a fetish? Is this transference or is this what she thinks is sexy? Something that can be sexy, I have never sucked on toes.
I guess my fetish is that she squirts, more than once when I am licking her, even if she is still not shaved above her knees or below her neck. John

 

[BiBunny]

What the fuck?

 

[FungiUg]

What the fuck?

Wot she said.