Knife Play

[Wild_Honey_66]

<snip> People engage in a huge variety of kinks, the notion that they wouldn't make those safety assessments for themselves is insulting. <snip>

And this.

 

[Bramblethorn]

No matter any previous level of trust, that would get the Safe Word invoked and once clear, authorities would be notified and a possible arrest warrant issued.

Kinda gross to assume that Porkwarrior was talking about nonconsensual knife-play. This is the BDSM Cafe in the BDSM Talk forum; it would be nice to think that we can take mutual consent as the default context.

So I'd really think deeply as to why you feel drawn to it. Any sign of mental illness or self harming tendencies, and good professional will walk away quick.

"Any mental disorders?"

"Well, I have bipolar disorder, but it's stabilised by medication - "

"NEXT! Any mental disorders?"

"Nothing except that I have a bad fear of flying - "

"NEXT!"

etc. etc.

There are over two hundred recognised types of mental illness. Some of them are relevant to knife play. Some are not. Talking about "mental illness" as a blanket disqualifier is ignorant and harmful.

I can only speak for myself, but I am perfectly capable of making decisions on which kinks I participate in,and why, by myself.
Aftercare is a matter of personal need, or not, not everyone wishes to be in receipt of it, which is an individuals choice.

I'm all for safety in kink, but will not be a part of policing the kinks of others.

THIS.

People who seem to enjoy this probably need help. Serious help. If I were family or a close friend, I'd probably be willing to sign the commitment papers.

Huh. I've seen you around for a while, but I hadn't pegged you as the sort to pathologise other people's consensual play. Are you sure the BDSM forums are a good fit for you?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

There are over two hundred recognised types of mental illness. Some of them are relevant to knife play. Some are not. Talking about "mental illness" as a blanket disqualifier is ignorant and harmful.

 

[Farawyn]

Well, I am.

And I'm not.


People who seem to enjoy this probably need help. Serious help. If I were family or a close friend, I'd probably be willing to sign the commitment papers.

Bless.
Shall I headpat you now, or later?
Or is that too kinky for you?

Have you reported this thread yet, jaFO?
Good lord.

 

[Eva_Star]

I have engaged in knife play. Not cutting of skin but definitely have had clothing (including panties) cut off...felt the cold metal on my nipples and pussy. Sexy.

I mean...not sure what the big deal is. I think we can just assume, here in the bdsm forum, that we are speaking of consensual, safe play...if it wasn't consensual, safe play it wouldn't be bdsm it would be something else.

 

[Farawyn]

I have engaged in knife play. Not cutting of skin but definitely have had clothing (including panties) cut off...felt the cold, metal on my nipples and pussy. Sexy.

I mean...not sure what the big deal is. I think we can just assume, here in the bdsm forum, that we are speaking of consensual, safe play...if it wasn't consensual, safe play it wouldn't be bdsm it would be something else.

This.

 

[Porkwarrior]

And remember, presentation of a deadly weapon is automatic justification for the other party to defend themselves, up to and including your death.

I almost feel bad for you, that this is your knee jerk reaction.
Emotions are involved, and I am expert in lashing out at negative emotions.

Maybe later in the th'd I'll tell you about my accidental bump into knife play. But definitely not now.

I have participated, and I wouldn't recommend it.

If it is your thing, no judgment will ever come from me. But I learned quickly how badly it can go wrong.

I wouldn't do it with anyone other than a professional Master. And even then, take it slowly. It's not a 'hey can I hire you for this?' type of one-session only experience. And any professional worth their fee will interview you for your reasons for wanting to try it. So I'd really think deeply as to why you feel drawn to it. Any sign of mental illness or self harming tendencies, and good professional will walk away quick. So I'd stress you come to understand why you wish to participate in such play before continuing.

I'd also stress aftercare in such play.

And please, please, please don't compromise your safety...mental/emotional/physical.

I agreed with half your post, disagreed with the other half, strongly disagreed actually.

How about this, knife play got me hard, does get me hard, and will get me hard. And being the generally smart screener I am, my partners have gotten pretty fucking wet. I don't think we need a shrink, I do think we need to be smart and the person holding the knife needs a level of self restraint above average.

Have you reported this thread yet, jaFO?
Good lord.

Seeee.....knew I liked you.

I have engaged in knife play. Not cutting of skin but definitely have had clothing (including panties) cut off...felt the cold metal on my nipples and pussy. Sexy.

I mean...not sure what the big deal is. I think we can just assume, here in the bdsm forum, that we are speaking of consensual, safe play...if it wasn't consensual, safe play it wouldn't be bdsm it would be something else.

This.

Ugh...this.

I've been on either side. Rarely have I been the one bound and a woman taking sexual pleasure in slicing off my clothing and then teasing me with a knife at my throat. A very sharp knife, because it was my knife. I made the mistake of telling a trusted FWB to NEVER trust a woman, now I had no choice.

Yeah there was a little blood by the end of the end, and an ambulance call that I waived off holding gauze to my neck, lol. It was a fun night, and she's the one that called the ambulance.

Shocker, I lived. And I AM better with a knife than she ever was.

 

[cfuhrer]

It's on my to-do list.

:nods enthusiastically:

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Can someone who's done it pretty please tell us what it's like?

:nods enthusiastically:

Come sit with me and listen!

*shares my chocolate pudding*

 

[Eva_Star]

Can someone who's done it pretty please tell us what it's like?



Come sit with me and listen!

*shares my chocolate pudding*

It's like a sharp intake of breath that releases as a shaky sigh.

 

[barefootgirl69]

It's like a sharp intake of breath that releases as a shaky sigh.

Now this makes me want to try it.
I like the sensual feel of things on my body, the teasing...

*adds to list in red ink and circles 3 times with an exclamation point!*

 

[RedSilk69]

Reminds me of;

This is perfect

I love being reminded that I'm not necessarily the most judgmental person in a room. (So then I move to another room. Judging is my kink; don't judge me.)

 

[RedSilk69]

Being bound, restrained, cuffed, and slowly, piece by piece, having your clothing cut off your body...

...DEFINITELY deserves a post of it's own. But it's almost a gateway drug. That's how we started.

I just wish she started with a cheaper shirt, lol.

My bucket list just grew.

But *no* straight razor or alcohol/drugs. Not even a heavy meal. And no going near my feet!

-headed to the thrift store; brb-

 

[Porkwarrior]

Can someone who's done it pretty please tell us what it's like?

Picture the horniest you've ever been...now try to stay quiet, because a VERY sharp piece of steel is against your throat.

Edging is fun...edging while fucking is a whole different plateau....please don't kill me when you cum, fuuuuuuuuck that feels too fucking good.....

I don't know how to put it any better, sowry.

 

[Primalex]

And remember, presentation of a deadly weapon is automatic justification for the other party to defend themselves, up to and including your death.

You should not rely on Tumblr posts for statements about the legal system.

 

[fertile_babygirl]

*raises hand*

To me it really is more about how scary it is, how cold, smooth and demanding the metal feels on my skin, how much trust it requires, how still I need to be.

I've been scraped with the tip of a knife, but never really participated in any significant cutting with more than a few drops of blood present. I don't think I'd be into cutting.

I've also had clothing cut off of me with a knife and that's a thrill of its own.

This! I wouldn't be into being actually cut. But There is something about the danger of it. The wrong movement and..

And the feel of it. Just so intense.