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Wow, I didn't know people were so into this! Thanks to everyone who's responded so far.

I'm starting to think we should have an "I want you to masturbate to me" thread. I know there's a tribute thread already but this would be for people who want to get replies and messages telling them about it or show specific things they want someone to use to get off or what they want someone to fantasize about. That kind of thing. Should I start that thread? Is there any interest there?
 
It is a turn on. Sometimes I could tell ahead of time. Sounds cocky I know, but my suspicions were later confirmed. People have a glimmer in their eye.

My girlfriend told me she not only constantly masturbated thinking about me, but thought about me while having sex with her (then current, now ex) boyfriend. Wow!
 
UrbanBohemian said:
Wow, I didn't know people were so into this! Thanks to everyone who's responded so far.

I'm starting to think we should have an "I want you to masturbate to me" thread. I know there's a tribute thread already but this would be for people who want to get replies and messages telling them about it or show specific things they want someone to use to get off or what they want someone to fantasize about. That kind of thing. Should I start that thread? Is there any interest there?
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I wouldn't mind it, lol. I would definitely post in the thread.
 
The short answer for me is YES!

I love the idea someone finds me desirable, even as a fantasy. In a similar thread that for some reason died before filling half a page, I told of this experience I had when rather young, naive, and just beginning my career as a photographers model.

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Many years ago, as I was just getting started as a photographers model I had a gig, where a photographer was shooting several girls in one day, He did a series of individual shots of each of us, then a group thing with the three of us

Both of the other girls were far more experienced than I and as I came out of makeup onto the set, the girl who was ahead of me and finished with her single shots made a comment about "more jack off material in the can."

I was rather naive about many things at that time, so I asked her what she meant after my set. She told me men used the magazines and our (nude models) pictures to look at and fantasize while masturbating. There was something about learning that that excited me and from then on I always did my best hoping guys were getting off looking at my pictures. Sounds kinda silly telling all this now at my age, but I did like that thought very much. "
 
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LauraWilling said:
The short answer for me is YES!

I love the idea someone finds me desirable, even as a fantasy. In a similar thread that for some reason died before filling half a page, I told of this experience I had when rather young, naive, and just beginning my career as a photographers model.

"
Many years ago, as I was just getting started as a photographers model I had a gig, where a photographer was shooting several girls in one day, He did a series of individual shots of each of us, the a group thing with the three of us

Both of the other girls were far more experienced than I and as I came out of makeup onto the set, the girl who was ahead of me and finished with her single shots made a comment about "more jack off material in the can."

I was rather naive about many things at that time, so I asked her what she meant after my set. She told me men used the magazines and our (nude models) pictures to look at and fantasize while masturbating. There was something about learning that that excited me and from then on I always did my best hoping guys were getting off looking at my pictures. Sounds kinda silly telling all this now at my age, but I did like that thought very much. "
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Oh no, that's not silly at all. I'm very happy you're comfortable enough to share your experiences with us. And yes, if you were a nude model I guarantee it did happen. Just the nature of it. I think we all like feeling desired. Being masturbated to I don't think is nearly as universal and I know we're dealing with a specific population on this site but I think it's more common than I thought. I posted this thread because I just started thinking about how people would react to knowing someone got off to them for some reason, don't know why, but I just started thinking about it and the answers here surprised me. I've also looked at a few other sites and it seems a lot of women find it degrading, objectifying, and disrespectful, which I can totally understand, but still I think I'm discovering this fantasy is more common than I thought. So I'm happy to get feedback and hear stories like that. It sounds like the other two women you were shooting with weren't into it. I wonder how many nude models, pornstars, etc. do and don't like it. It would be interesting to do a survey or something.
 
UrbanBohemian,
Thank you, I knew many nude models, being one myself back in the 1970's and early '80's and my unscientific guesstimate I would say it is about 50-50 between those who liked it and those who didn't but did it for money only. I did it for both reasons. Porn stars I'd say are different, my guess from the ones I knew would be more like 30-70% with more disliking it , In both cases I'm sure it could be broken down into more accurate numbers by catagorizing say on a scale of 1 being loving it and 10, hating it. This is purely from my experience at that time. I admit, I am an exhibitionist. I was lucky to become a model as I am very small. In fact the height listed on my portfolio sheets fudges a little saying 5 foot tall, that was to help me not get passed over for taller models. Lucky for me I was nearly ideal photographic proportions, just small (and big boobs :) ).

This may also be something that many of these women (models) discover and that is the "power" we have over men, being nude or even dressed in sexy manner. I was a topless dancer before modeling. This was in college, The first time I came out on the stage, and heard and saw the reactions of customers as I got down to a g-sting, amazed me! It was also exciting. I soon learned that with certain move smiling big at a guy close to the stage among all the guys, I could make more money tossed on the stage or tucked into my g-string. Being a naturally submissive type personality, this was heady stuff and an incredible feeling. I would add, even intoxicating to the point of wanting to do it more often and in more ways. Now please note, this is me and I am sure I am not the only woman to feel this way, but I'm also sure many women don't, probably more than think and feel like me.

This is an old portfolio sheet of mine.
http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=1815240&d=1454022828
 
LauraWilling said:
UrbanBohemian,
Thank you, I knew many nude models, being one myself back in the 1970's and early '80's and my unscientific guesstimate I would say it is about 50-50 between those who liked it and those who didn't but did it for money only. I did it for both reasons. Porn stars I'd say are different, my guess from the ones I knew would be more like 30-70% with more disliking it , In both cases I'm sure it could be broken down into more accurate numbers by catagorizing say on a scale of 1 being loving it and 10, hating it. This is purely from my experience at that time. I admit, I am an exhibitionist. I was lucky to become a model as I am very small. In fact the height listed on my portfolio sheets fudges a little saying 5 foot tall, that was to help me not get passed over for taller models. Lucky for me I was nearly ideal photographic proportions, just small (and big boobs :) ).

This may also be something that many of these women (models) discover and that is the "power" we have over men, being nude or even dressed in sexy manner. I was a topless dancer before modeling. This was in college, The first time I came out on the stage, and heard and saw the reactions of customers as I got down to a g-sting, amazed me! It was also exciting. I soon learned that with certain move smiling big at a guy close to the stage among all the guys, I could make more money tossed on the stage or tucked into my g-string. Being a naturally submissive type personality, this was heady stuff and an incredible feeling. I would add, even intoxicating to the point of wanting to do it more often and in more ways. Now please note, this is me and I am sure I am not the only woman to feel this way, but I'm also sure many women don't, probably more than think and feel like me.

This is an old portfolio sheet of mine.
http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=1815240&d=1454022828
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That's very interesting. I think you're right, more women probably don't like it than do. That was my thought going into it, actually. The reason I was surprised is that more liked it than I thought would. I do think the power aspect is part of it. I think the opposite is too though. I think there's an element of objectification and even humiliation that some women get off on. Men do too but I think this specific thing is a different circumstance. Since gender roles are what they are in our society I think men being desired is a situation where the men feel powerful and in control and when women are desired it can easily be the opposite and often is. I've walked down the street and had women smile at me and even say some things and it's always very flattering and an ego boost but catcalling women is not the same thing at all. So I think that extends to this too. I've talked to some women here about their fantasy of being naked in front of fully-dressed men because I've done that a number of times and had a couple of girlfriends who were into it and the thing that kept coming up again and again is that it's a combination of a sort of embarrassment and humiliation combined with being desired and even in a position where their control has ostensibly been taken away by virtue of being naked they still are able to captivate the man they're with. So I think a lot of fantasies have those two opposing dynamics going for them.

And that is a lovely picture.
 
UrbanBohemian said:
That's very interesting. I think you're right, more women probably don't like it than do. That was my thought going into it, actually. The reason I was surprised is that more liked it than I thought would. I do think the power aspect is part of it. I think the opposite is too though. I think there's an element of objectification and even humiliation that some women get off on. Men do too but I think this specific thing is a different circumstance. Since gender roles are what they are in our society I think men being desired is a situation where the men feel powerful and in control and when women are desired it can easily be the opposite and often is. I've walked down the street and had women smile at me and even say some things and it's always very flattering and an ego boost but catcalling women is not the same thing at all. So I think that extends to this too. I've talked to some women here about their fantasy of being naked in front of fully-dressed men because I've done that a number of times and had a couple of girlfriends who were into it and the thing that kept coming up again and again is that it's a combination of a sort of embarrassment and humiliation combined with being desired and even in a position where their control has ostensibly been taken away by virtue of being naked they still are able to captivate the man they're with. So I think a lot of fantasies have those two opposing dynamics going for them.

And that is a lovely picture.
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Urban
Those are well thought out theories you've stated, but I expect there are many, many more who would be enthralled to know someone was fantasizing about them, than those not.

Trouble is, you'll not get most of them to admit it.
 
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It would be great, although, someone I know made an audio and they said they were thinking of me when it was made, so, that was mind blowing to me.
 
I agree that many people would love to be thought of while someone is masturbating...I think most, if not all of us crave to be desired. Wanted...
 
Upon returning home after being gone a while, during foreplay I would ask the wife if she had an orgasm when I was away..the answer was usually yes, with a few details. She'd then ask me if I had an orgasm, and ask me what I thought about while I was doing it..very hot..especially if she was stroking me-she'd say "is this how you did it?"

I have told a few FWB about masturbating to them, they are open minded and say they are flattered. They have returned the favor, so to speak
 
UrbanBohemian I agree with much of what you say, obviously, but I also agree with Ubiquitious_too, also. (Almost tricked myself there.:D) The thing is most women do not know or don't want to admit, even to themselves, that there might be something they would like about being nude or semi undressed in front of a man or men. I think many would be shocked if the ever tried it with someone other that a boyfriend or husband. By that I mean strangers.
When I danced, I did not know any of those customers. As a model for men's magazines. millions of men have seen all there is to see of me and many may have satisfied themselves looking a my pictures in those magazines. I hope so anyway. I guess it is sort of a vicarious thrill as I don't know if the did or not, but I think the odds are pretty good they did at one time or another.

I think most women, I know I am do our best to be aware of our surroundings and where others, men especially are in relation to ourselves. I've had a stalker, it's scary! I've had men follow me and ask me out and say things and whistle at me on the street. Yes it is flattering, but it can also be nerve racking at times.

HonkonBobo, and UrbanBohemian, Thank you for the kind compliments. Those make a girl, well older lady now., :D feel good. I have been blessed with good genes, I also worked very hard all my life and still do, just not as much or strenuous to keep myself looking fit and hopefully attractive. Real gym workouts, eating right and all the healthy things one can do was a job requirement in my mind. And as many know it becomes "addictive", so yes, I am proud to say I am in better shape than most my age, but gravity does take its toll on all of us and somethings can't be avoided for ever when ageing. I try, but I fear it is becoming a losing battle. :( I still turn a few heads, but maybe because of what's up front on me. :D
 
LauraWilling said:
UrbanBohemian I agree with much of what you say, obviously, but I also agree with Ubiquitious_too, also. (Almost tricked myself there.:D) The thing is most women do not know or don't want to admit, even to themselves, that there might be something they would like about being nude or semi undressed in front of a man or men. I think many would be shocked if the ever tried it with someone other that a boyfriend or husband. By that I mean strangers.
When I danced, I did not know any of those customers. As a model for men's magazines. millions of men have seen all there is to see of me and many may have satisfied themselves looking a my pictures in those magazines. I hope so anyway. I guess it is sort of a vicarious thrill as I don't know if the did or not, but I think the odds are pretty good they did at one time or another.

I think most women, I know I am do our best to be aware of our surroundings and where others, men especially are in relation to ourselves. I've had a stalker, it's scary! I've had men follow me and ask me out and say things and whistle at me on the street. Yes it is flattering, but it can also be nerve racking at times.

HonkonBobo, and UrbanBohemian, Thank you for the kind compliments. Those make a girl, well older lady now., :D feel good. I have been blessed with good genes, I also worked very hard all my life and still do, just not as much or strenuous to keep myself looking fit and hopefully attractive. Real gym workouts, eating right and all the healthy things one can do was a job requirement in my mind. And as many know it becomes "addictive", so yes, I am proud to say I am in better shape than most my age, but gravity does take its toll on all of us and somethings can't be avoided for ever when ageing. I try, but I fear it is becoming a losing battle. :( I still turn a few heads, but maybe because of what's up front on me. :D
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There you have it guys- not only experience speaking, but first hand knowledge that qualifies as WISDOM.

Don't take her lightly !
 
Ubiquitious_too said:
There you have it guys- not only experience speaking, but first hand knowledge that qualifies as WISDOM.

Don't take her lightly !
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Both of you make very good points. You may well be right. I don't think there's ever going to be a way to know for sure but I can see how many would not admit it. I think it's kind of taboo to say "I want someone to masturbate to me" to most people. Maybe even shocking. I know almost everyone likes being wanted and found attractive but I wonder how far that goes for the average person. I'm starting to think you're right and it goes farther than I thought it would.

This might require some more research. I started out just a little bit curious but now that I've gotten the responses I have I'm very curious. This is a more interesting topic than I thought.

And I wanted to ask everyone. I think after getting so much positive feedback here there might be enough interest to start an "I want you to masturbate to me" thread. Do you think that would be something that would make for a good thread? There's a tribute thread already but this would be for people who want messages, replies, etc. or post pics or stories or something they want to be used for material or something like that. I think there might be enough interest here that it would be a convenient place for those of you who do have that fantasy to live it out.
 
I think one of the main reasons I write erotic stories and post them on Lit is in hopes of having women read them, get excited, masturbate to my words and ideas and then leave comments, or better yet, contact me to tell me about it. I really dig that.

As a non-cheating married man, that is as close as I can get to sexual contact with another woman.

I once had a conversation with a former girlfriend. We made small talk for a long time. I realized that our time was almost up so I got up the courage to tell her I masturbated pretty much every day and often thought of her when I did it. She was stunned. I left shortly after that.

The next day she called me at work and said that she had been thinking about me and what I had said non-stop. She said that night, laying next to her sleeping husband (who left her years later) she masturbated thinking of me.

I used to do a lot of phone stuff with women I met online. I loved to hear them cum as I talked dirty to them. And I love to know that women cum touching themselves when I chat with them. To me it's all about the woman getting off. That gives me the most pleasure. I enjoy coming too, but I'm happy not to as long as she does.

I'm 56 now and work out trying to stay in shape. It's super-flattering when a woman compliments my avatar pic or other pics I may post. I'd feel even better if I knew a woman was masturbating to my pic. I'd want to know all about what she thought of and how she touched herself.

Enough said for now.
 
UrbanBohemian said:
Wow, I didn't know people were so into this! Thanks to everyone who's responded so far.

I'm starting to think we should have an "I want you to masturbate to me" thread. I know there's a tribute thread already but this would be for people who want to get replies and messages telling them about it or show specific things they want someone to use to get off or what they want someone to fantasize about. That kind of thing. Should I start that thread? Is there any interest there?
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I love this idea and would love getting a response myself! I think you should set it up.
 
curvy

I used to work with a very sexy, curvy brunette. She was a single mom and a horny girl. She and I would flirt endlessly. I was married to my first wife (who was not giving me enough loving). Well, eventually, I would come into work and find these voicemails on my desk phone. They'd be my sexy friend leaving a voicemail from late the previous night where she'd tell me that she had just fantasized about me while fucking herself with her dildo. To this day, many years later, I'm still blown away by that. Ballsy girl...
 
It's incredibly hot knowing and either seeing or hearing someone masturbate to you.
 
Mastubating to me

No woman has ever told me that they have or do masturbate to me. I know I'd be very flattered by it and probably more than a little turned on.
 
My sister's best friend once entered my room, and saw my erect penis through the opening of my boxers while I was sleeping. As she confided 15 years after the incident, she 'd often masturbate to that scene. And, yes, that 's one of the best compliments I 've ever heard.
 
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Nope, no one has told me. But I did tell a girl friend once and she seemed flattered.
 
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